Chill personality

LetMeExplain · 2010-11-09T23:02:23+00:00

Smile and don't be phased by anything. Display good situation handling abilities and don't be afraid to interject when necessary. Above all be friendly and positive.

2010-11-09T23:06:24+00:00

When I think "chill" I think low energy. Low energy isn't necessarily a bad thing, but it's not for everyone. Look up Richard LaRuina for an example of a very laid-back, low-energy guy who has great game.

Personally, I like to be a little bit more exuberant, talking with my hands and not caring about whether I act goofy in public and what-not.

However, there's a difference between being high-energy and trying too hard. It's possible to be an energetic, fast-paced person and yet still be "chill" when it comes to how you display interest.

For me, the easiest lays I've ever had were the nights where I was all over the place. I'd talk to a group of girls, goof around and make them laugh, then zip off to the next group and repeat, then go hang out with my guy friends for a few minutes, rinse-wash-repeat, just have a great time.

By the end of the night, one of the girls I'd seen periodically throughout the night would literally come grab my hand and drag me to the dance floor, or I'd ask one of them to dance and be making out in 60-seconds flat.

The key is to act like they have to work for your attention. You can be high-energy, but if you're directing all your energy at HER, she has no challenge to over, no work to do. And you want her to work for it.

Title	Chill personality
Author	Zeratul9856
Upvotes	0
Comments	2
Date	November 9, 2010 10:57 PM UTC (15 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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