Alright, so this is something I shrugged off as bad luck or simply to circumstance in the past, but it's happened to me frequently enough these past few weekends that I've decided to take a step back to reevaluate and take a deeper look into myself and what I'm doing. This makes 2 out of the last 3 weekends I've been able to open a girl, build rapport and attraction, even escalate to the point of making out, only to politely given some variation of go fuck yourself when it comes time to go home. I definitely don't think I'm trying too hard or trying to force something to happen and get more of the feeling I'm not doing enough. When I'm escalating, I make sure to keep good eye contact, tease her and not devalue myself by giving in to her attempts to use me (buy her drinks or do stuff for her) without her doing something for me first, and consistently going kino with her. I think I do a pretty good job doing the above but not so much when it comes to verbally expressing my attraction towards her. I just don't feel super comfortable with it and feel like girls will sense that and it'll just come off as creepy. I've hooked up with a few girls before but wouldn't consider myself super experienced and have been going through a bit of a dry spell (at least sex-wise) lately. I think girls might be getting a sense of that as well and although they might find it cute and endearing, it's not helping me get laid. I just get the, "here's my number, text me tomorrow (winky face)" bit and end up going home alone to fuck myself.. I get numbers and talk to these girls but I get tired of always going through the headache of trying to set it up for later when all I really want is a one and done kinda thing. Anyway, I was hoping seddit could help shed some light onto some of my sticking points and help me step my game up to become a better closer. I'll post some FR's and/or more background if this gets some interest.