I've started approaching girls in night clubs. I walk up to them, hold my hand out and pull them in or I just pull The Claw. It works well. A lot of them start dancing with me and after a while I escalate by turning them around and letting them grind on me. This also seems to work. The problem I have is escalating beyond that.

After letting them grind a bit I turn them around again and I try to go in for the kiss but most of the times it doesn't work and they just walk away.

If it does work we dance and kiss a bit longer and then I lead them with my hand on their back and we make out a bit more. How do I escalate beyond just making out and actually taking them home? Whilst kissing most of them start talking (maybe I haven't established a deep enough connection?). Then they want to go back into the club and to their friends.

Any tips and pointers would be appreciated! :)