Coffee date?

acetokyo · 2015-06-08T00:19:30+00:00

It's not a one night stand if you did it twice. :x

But anyway, a coffee date only works if you feel comfortable with her. You don't have all the foliage of alcohol, loud music and dim lights. The key is the be at ease and confidence. Since you've slept with her, kissing her to end is no problem. Just keep it natural. Over-thinking it will be your demise.

All the best bro.

KilluaKanmuru · 2015-06-08T02:46:26+00:00

You grab coffee and sit down. Less awkward? Just drink your coffee. Topics? Get to know her. Tease her. End it in your bed. Yes, she can hug deez nuts. The future will come naturally.

oritogpe · 2015-06-08T02:11:23+00:00

You have slept together i don't see how would it be awkward, but oh well. Its a date, she wants to know about you, who you really are, etc.

brazilianpapi · 2015-06-08T08:22:45+00:00

For a coffee date to work, you gotta enjoy her company. Just enjoy the conversation, yourself, and the place and things will be good. Ask her about herself, relate to her, tell her your own stories. Don't forget to flirt as well, but mostly enjoy her company. People tend to underestimate when others tell them to "enjoy" someone's company, but when you really do it, it works like magic

gelmigs · 2015-06-08T09:01:43+00:00

there are studies saying drinking coffee induces palpitation that simulates how one feels when he/she feel in love. He would then rationalize those simulated feelings as being caused by the other person. So i guess coffee would be fine if you want to get into a serious relationship with her.

cmiovino · 2015-06-08T15:25:10+00:00

Coffee dates are great because you're mainly there for talking, joking around, etc... but still have something to sip on and a purpose of being there.

When you meet, hug, kiss, whatever level you're on with her (sounds like good sexual terms). Lead and get in line. Order first and then let her go. Just pay, no biggie, it's not he same as buying a drink in a bar.

Sit and talk about whatever comes to mind. Joke. Banter. Poke fun.

In my opinion, it's much easier to talk and get to know someone after being sexual with them. Once you're past that, you've shared something 'big'... so then you can talk about your lives and whatnot. It's awkward sometimes to just start with coffee and interview questions.

If all goes well, I would suggest saying something like "We should hang out again soon".. if you get a good response, go ahead and setup something else. Or just leave it at that. Whatever you're feeling.

Title	Coffee date?
Author	erikthered97
Upvotes	3
Comments	11
Date	June 7, 2015 11:58 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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