i find it easier to approach if the girl i want to talk to looks approachable in close proximity; but its even easier if you think you and her are already on a date. you know its not going to go well if shes a complete stranger but if you are already in her presence and the two of you are close to one another it already breaks the physical barrier. the important thing is to set a vibe that you two somehow already know one another but not enough to build the attraction. this opens the opportunity to play your cards right to actualize connection and attraction.

curious to know if anyone has a similar insight to this. sharing your experiences may help provide a better understanding of this advice.