College Party

Broad-Cranberry-9050 · 2025-08-29T22:18:51+00:00

Hey good luck.

First thing is use college as a way to learn to talk to women and be ok with the idea that you may not get laid tomorrow and that's ok. You might fail a bunch before you start to succeed. But dont let that get to you. I get you are trying to get that expereince ASAP but if you try to force it, it will come off as desperate.

Best thing I ever did that I feel clicked for me was I started to treat girls like bros. Im a witty guy but when I met girls I was tryingt o be too nice. Once I decided to be myself more, I did better. Since im pretty witty I would say something that may or may not offend them. Most gilrs took the jokes very well and wanted to get me back so now we had a cute back and forth.

In a weird way, the best way to get a girl is to go with the mindset that you dont care if you ever see that girl in your life again. You wont change who you are for a girl and wont beat around the bush for them. Girls have always been treated like glass vases so when they see a guy who doesnt do that, they like it.

You should go to that party tomorrow, focusing on having a good time regardless of the amount of girls you talk to or numbers you get. Even if that number is 0. Because when girls go out, they go out wanting to have a fun night with the girls. So meet them at their level. Go out looking fora. fun time with the boys and the idea that you want to meet new people (guy or girl). Talk to everybody. Be a social butterfly, etc. Get everybody's number who you vibe well with. Because girls want to be around a guy who is having a fun time. Like if your song comes up get everybody hyped up and grab the prettiest single girl who seems hyped and dance with her. A lot of flirting is feeling the moment and slowly creating physical contact. If she doesnt mind you getting closer slowly keep getting closer and closer until you go for the kiss. It's basically like testing the waters. If at any point she kind of pushes you off or seems uncomfortable apologize and keep it moving.

College is super transactional. So dont look at it as your 1 opporuntity to get a girl, look at it as a opportunity to expand your social circle. Honestly my advice would be to be the guy that gets everybody together. Let's say you exchange numbers with a few guys and girls. Next weekend send a group text like "anybody want to pre-game at my place before the game?" See what clicks. And just send group invites to random things. Nobody wants to be the planner but if you become the planner now people will hit you up for parties as well.

Also get a haircut that looks well for you (maybe a fade or something) and invest in a good cologne and wear it. You dont need to dress like a rich guy tomorrow, but wear a nice jacket, jeans, etc.

Fit_Employment_2595 · 2025-08-29T22:39:15+00:00

1)alcohol 2)be extroverted, look hot 3)don't do something you'll regret the rest of your life

AlastairXXL · 2025-08-30T19:40:49+00:00

Set yourself apart from other guys by being the least sleazy, ask where you from, what you study, after a bit of chat, ask to fuck

FromGymToQuim · 2025-08-31T16:55:28+00:00

I’m in college and I can say first and foremost, have fun. Don’t go with the mindset of picking up girls. Go with the mindset of: “I’m having a lot of fun tonight and whatever happens, happens”. That’ll put less pressure on yourself.

Talk to everyone. Be social. Don’t be the guy in the corner with a drink in one hand and another in your pocket. I solo game sometimes and I talk to bartenders, folks in the street, homeless guy down the block. I offer compliments on people’s clothing I genuinely think are cool or fashionable. Or the gas station clerk after I put gas in my car or I’m buying some chewing gum. Ask them how their day was. The more you practice being social, the better. By nightfall, you’ll be used to it. Of course be natural.
Don’t be a creep. Watching girls for a prolonged period of time or giving them lecherous looks. This sets of creep vibes. Just like standing in a corner and not dancing or vibing.
Be aware of choosing signals. If a girl smiles at you at a party, smile back. Go over and talk to her. Just have fun.
Tips when talking to a girl: Avoid prolonged interview questions. “What do you do? What major are you in? How old are you? How do you like the weather?” This almost leads to boring-ass routine one reply returns. Tease her a bit, be flirty, be fun. Make a comment about her outfit or accent or behavior that you genuinely notice. Be invested in the moment and again. have fun. Do not get on your head or nervous. Everyone is there to socialize.
No means no. If a chick seems like she’s truly uninterested, don’t force the interaction. Politely excuse yourself and go talk to other people. Don’t take it personal.

Title	College Party
Author	Mgar029
Upvotes	2
Comments	4
Date	August 29, 2025 10:00 PM UTC (11 months ago)
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