Many girls I've went on dates with told me that I am too calm and that I talk too little. I dont know how to adress this or what this means specifically,I'm more of an introverted person but I like going out with extroverted girls,makes for a nice contrast. I simply let them talk and provide input to what they are saying or simply ask questions,the conversation is like 70% them 30% me,which seems normal to me.

I was raised to believe a man doesnt talk too much and doesnt exteriorise himself and that may affect my current behaviour but maybe I am missing something. Is this really about me not talking too much or is there something else I am doing wrong? I dont really have a problem escalating or kissing,I am not shy,I just dont like talking that much and since many have observed it I'm starting to believe I might have a problem.

What do you make of it?