Communication stopped after asking for a date too quickly. Is it salvageable after a week?

Stujitsu2 · 2022-04-03T23:40:00+00:00

If you met in person, i think its good to ask for date right away. But online you have to build a little rapport first. Its probably over but if you want to try once more I would back off for like 10 days then see if you can get her to respond to something humorous or interesting. Or you can be like...I could use a woman's opinion on something. Which is not as good but better than nothing.

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-04-04T00:39:53+00:00

When you text you always wanna avoid formalities.

Sending hi is a bad message because it doesn’t spark any emotions, and it demands her attention.

Skip the hi, get to the point, of what you want todo say, she isn’t gonna sit there and make time just for you, so you can have a formal conversation with her.

You say hi and expect her to drop everything si that she can give you 10 uninterrupted minutes of her attention just for you right? Well forget about it.

Every text you send must be the kind of text which doesn’t require her to respond back… It should be like humorous thoughts that you say out loud for laughs but which do not require someone to a knowledge it.

A hi requires her to acknowledge it, and the problem with that though is that it wastes their time with generic conversations that are most likely not gonna be interesting or fun.

If you said something funny that genuinely makes them laugh then they would acknowledge it even if you are not demanding her attention.

Because why can people say to a “Hi” just hi back, and then what? Are you gonna ask “what’s up?”

Boring!! you don’t even care, and they are not gonna tell you actually how they are feeling because that’s personal ,and not interesting to share over texts. You are having a pointless conversation that feels dull and generic, and it’s wasting their time. If you had something funny or interesting to say you should just say it without building up slowly to it.

In other words get to the point

Title	Communication stopped after asking for a date too quickly. Is it salvageable after a week?
Author	colaturka
Upvotes	1
Comments	2
Date	April 3, 2022 11:21 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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