Something that really motivates me is competition. One of the best aspects of this is that is alleviates a lot of nerves because you think less about being rejected and more about winning the competition. I have an ongoing competition with one of my close friends who has good game. What we do it text one another whenever we get a new lay, we'll text whatever number we just got and usually give some details and talk a little shit. So when I hear my phone buzz at 4 in the morning 9/10 times its him and vice versa. This keeps us sharp and makes it so we never become complacent. Give it a try with one of your buddies in the community.