So you're talking to this girl (in person, on the phone, msn, whatever) and it's going well, then all of a sudden she starts talking about the drama in her life with whoever it may be. Dilemma: should you be the shoulder to cry on, thus being the wuss you dread being seen as, OR should you be the unfeeling stonewall that doesn't understand her problems. Obviously, these aren't the only two options, so feel free to drop whatever you feel is best.