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| 1 | How does texting change in a LTRWell, it typically gets a lot less interesting, and can die down a lot. A lot of it can turn into maintenance and checking in, seeing what's going on and planning, with flirting often falling to the way side. It's important to keep flirting there, but I'd say a lower frequency / intensity is more realistic to maintain, and getting her to feel sexy and wanted is important. As such, sext, send nice notes, and get her to send you nudes or other pics of that nature. An occasional "I'm can't stop thi… | /r/seduction | 21/09/16 11:27 PM |
| 4 | This is how some men think.He should proxy some justice up through himself by willingly going to prison. Everyone wins! | /r/MensRights | 06/12/15 05:30 AM |
| 2 | Feminist anti-rape activist whines about men frightened of dating herWhat a garbage article | /r/MensRights | 27/10/15 04:04 PM |
| 2 | Shocking footage shows two Washington DC cops wrestle innocent black man to the ground, after a woman said he made her feel "uncomfortable" near an ATM. Man released without charge.How many did it take the men? | /r/MensRights | 16/10/15 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Do You Make These 6 Daygame Mistakes? (+ Infield)I'm 27 and I've done a lot of day game in the past few months. Just gotta do it! | /r/seduction | 11/08/15 01:52 PM |
| 2 | Do You Make These 6 Daygame Mistakes? (+ Infield)Age is a state of mind. How old are you? | /r/seduction | 11/08/15 03:34 AM |
| 0 | Feminist reddit CEO loses gender discrimination lawsuitHuh? | /r/MensRights | 29/04/15 04:34 PM |
| -1 | Feminist reddit CEO loses gender discrimination lawsuitWow, you're quite the character. Popular, I take it? | /r/MensRights | 31/03/15 09:38 PM |
| -5 | Feminist reddit CEO loses gender discrimination lawsuitYour only fact that you're extrapolating all your data from is a default subreddit. We're at an impasse. | /r/MensRights | 31/03/15 09:21 PM |
| -2 | Feminist reddit CEO loses gender discrimination lawsuitI'm not going to argue with you about this. If you can't already see the masculine perspective that is very present, I won't be able to show you it, either | /r/MensRights | 31/03/15 08:44 PM |
| -1 | Feminist reddit CEO loses gender discrimination lawsuitYes, that there is a female presence on reddit, but that doesn't indicate it is entirely female dominated. The vast majority of Reddit is from the male perspective, though I'm not making that argument about the administration nor mods | /r/MensRights | 31/03/15 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Feminist reddit CEO loses gender discrimination lawsuitWas this english? I have no idea what you just said. | /r/MensRights | 31/03/15 06:45 PM |
| -3 | Feminist reddit CEO loses gender discrimination lawsuitBecause it's one of the pockets primarily for women? | /r/MensRights | 31/03/15 06:44 PM |
| -5 | Feminist reddit CEO loses gender discrimination lawsuitReddit is heavily slanted toward the male perspective and has pockets of feminism. I don't know what you're commenting on, but that's hardly the experience that reddit seems to offer. | /r/MensRights | 31/03/15 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Interesting paragraphThis subreddit has really gone to shit if the majority of top comments all seem to believe that money will get you all the women you want. | /r/seduction | 14/07/14 03:42 PM |
| 2 | "During prom season at my school, we're actually required to go to a mandatory anti-rape course, girls have to go to a self defense course."Yeah, I covered that when I said everyone should have to go through both courses. | /r/MensRights | 02/07/14 03:26 PM |
| 3 | "During prom season at my school, we're actually required to go to a mandatory anti-rape course, girls have to go to a self defense course."Can someone tell me what they find wrong about this? I understand that it's assuming that men are rapists, but the stats show that men largely are rapists. If we want to cut down on victims of rape, this is generally a good course of action, particularly since its two-pronged instead of just one or the other. Hell, everyone should have to take both of those courses, really. | /r/MensRights | 30/06/14 04:21 PM |
| 2 | "You cannot be sexist toward men."Link for the lazy | /r/MensRights | 23/06/14 08:54 PM |
| 1 | "You cannot be sexist toward men."Baumeister's work is pretty broad, do you have a keyword that would lead me to the right papers? | /r/MensRights | 23/06/14 03:31 PM |
| 2 | "You cannot be sexist toward men."DAE have a link to that study about women being primary slut shamers? Or is it the one where they brought two women into a room and had a conservatively/provocatively dressed research assistant? | /r/MensRights | 22/06/14 07:31 PM |
| 1 | Never thought it'd come from my gf. I just don't know how to react.I'm glad you fleshed out your argument because up to this point, it seems like I was misinterpreting what you were saying. I think we agree in principle, but you take it a bit further than me. It's not common that I come across someone who calls sexism a lot and is someone I actually give a shit about. Most women that are worth anything, like most people, actually have some substance and don't just cry for help all the goddamn time. No, men are taught to be more empathetic towards women than wom… | /r/MensRights | 17/02/14 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Never thought it'd come from my gf. I just don't know how to react.Why would I address a red herring if I can avoid it? You're still arguing that men are taught to be emphathetic and women aren't taught that as much. Your credibility isn't very good having never really been in a relationship. It's a valid point. If I were to start spouting off theories of how sex should be or how other people are having sex the wrong way, yet have never had sex before, it's valid to point that out. I can see what you're saying with your three points. They are inferences, for su… | /r/MensRights | 17/02/14 05:12 PM |
| -1 | Never thought it'd come from my gf. I just don't know how to react.This entire argument is a red herring. None of this proves that women are taught to not be empathetic, if anything you're simply arguing that men are taught to respect women and women aren't taught to respect men. I don't even agree with that, entirely, but maybe to some degree. Have you ever had a good relationship? | /r/MensRights | 17/02/14 02:38 PM |
| -1 | Never thought it'd come from my gf. I just don't know how to react.I agree with the first bit, but I don't agree that women are actually taught to be unempathetic. If anything, they're encouraged to be and socially punished if they aren't enough. When kids leave home, parents aren't that upset when the son doesn't talk to them much, but they are when the daughter doesn't. Your wording for the second paragraph is a little confusing, but I'm wondering what (terrible) relationships you've been in where you've been accused of sexism by asking your partner to make y… | /r/MensRights | 17/02/14 01:45 PM |
| 3 | Never thought it'd come from my gf. I just don't know how to react.Which gender is taught not to empathize? | /r/MensRights | 16/02/14 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Day cold approach: defusing the "why are you talking to me?" look.Where can you pick that one up? | /r/seduction | 14/02/14 02:26 AM |
| 1 | How to stop dancing near girls. Either dance with them or don't!I put figurative blinders on, don't look at anyone and force myself to do the most awkward dance moves i can think of until I can get behind a song. Once i'm into it, which takes maybe 15 minutes, I will start taking action. Sometimes when I'm doing that sort of 'warm up', girls will come up to me and tell me I'm awesome. I then grab them and pull them in. So far, this hasn't worked, I think it's because I have a super fun vibe, then grabbing them goes a bit too serious too quickly. Ehh, I'll fi… | /r/seduction | 09/02/14 06:42 PM |
| 1 | A technique to increase outcome independence/abundance mentality.Thanks! | /r/seduction | 09/02/14 12:59 PM |
| 2 | A technique to increase outcome independence/abundance mentality.Ehh, I hardly even do that. I glance at it when it shows up on my feed, but largely just aim to go out a lot and figure out my problems that way. I just saw what you said and figured it would be worthwhile. | /r/seduction | 09/02/14 12:57 PM |
| 2 | A technique to increase outcome independence/abundance mentality.Care to link it, friend? | /r/seduction | 09/02/14 07:04 AM |
| 1 | Total Sorority Move | Stop Crying RapeI always wondered that, too. Thanks for clearing it up! | /r/MensRights | 01/02/14 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Men who prefer slim women are called shallow. 98.8% of women won't message a short man because of "biological preference."I agree with you 100% What people say ivory tower thought situations vs how they act in the real world are often at odds. In person situations play out much differently and it's much more about attitude than anything else. And suppose they're right, they won't date short guys. What about it? We all have advantages and disadvantages based on our unique situations. Should we whine until we all have the same? Or get off our ass and make the best of what we have. Or you know, people can whine until … | /r/MensRights | 10/12/13 07:16 PM |
| 0 | Practice being high class. Go sightseeing. Get free candy.That's hilarious, I might just do that! How solid do you feel the numbers were? I'm going to guess that they might be a little weaker when they find out you're not actually loaded, but that doesn't mean it's a guaranteed no go | /r/seduction | 26/10/13 10:42 AM |
| 1 | Online dating game? Is it possible?Relatively garbage. Take a look at it, but since there's little opportunity to actually say anything, it's hard to do much with unless you're already kind of pretty. Online dating really handicaps you, I find. | /r/seduction | 24/10/13 06:21 AM |
| 3 | Going clubbing for the first time. Any tips or tricks to help tonight.People have been getting laid with alcohol for most of human history, kid. | /r/seduction | 20/10/13 07:11 PM |
| 35 | a REAL guide on how to be irresistible with womenBingo | /r/seduction | 16/10/13 06:26 AM |
| 2 | I AM TIRED OF THE SHALLOWNESS OF THE GAME. I AM A SENSITIVE UNIQUE FLOWER AND I WANT REAL CONNECTIONS WITH WOMEN :'(Gotta start small. They say decision making is a muscle. What I've found works is to identify every time you have a choice to make. You'll be surprised how many small things you get asked in a day that you deflect out if apathy. Brown, white, or rye? Whatever is fine. Room for cream or milk? Sure. Instead, be like that butter safe comic. Decisions! Even small ones, be resolute and pick one with confidence! | /r/seduction | 15/10/13 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Here's a really easy thing I accidentally picked up that makes girls way more receptive when you approach themNot to mention, this can help you get into a more playful mood! | /r/seduction | 14/10/13 07:40 PM |
| 5 | I AM TIRED OF THE SHALLOWNESS OF THE GAME. I AM A SENSITIVE UNIQUE FLOWER AND I WANT REAL CONNECTIONS WITH WOMEN :'(Yeah man. It's like choice: If you have only one option, then it's not your fault when you're unhappy. If you have unlimited options and are still unhappy, that's on you, bucko. Limiting beliefs are real helpful for keeping the options down, y'know? | /r/seduction | 14/10/13 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Boys use seduction for sex. Men use seduction for power.Cool, thanks! | /r/seduction | 08/10/13 10:10 PM |
| 1 | Boys use seduction for sex. Men use seduction for power.Ekhart Tolle, eh? I was under the impression he was some other random spiritualist sect, unrelated to buddhism. I tried listening to the audio version of it before, but couldn't get far. | /r/seduction | 08/10/13 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Boys use seduction for sex. Men use seduction for power.Alright. Lets say there are only two opportunities. One leads you to many others, and allows you to build up greater success in a material and social sense. The other does the opposite: not only does it lead to less opportunities than you currently have, but actually loses you friends and family. In the first, you have the opportunity to help many more people with the resources you've collected, and the second you can still help people, but far fewer. Would you still say that neither is greater? | /r/seduction | 08/10/13 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Boys use seduction for sex. Men use seduction for power.It shows! I've briefly touched on it for a while, but only recently started reading a book on the topic. Any suggested readings that are a bit more approachable? | /r/seduction | 08/10/13 09:46 PM |
| 3 | Boys use seduction for sex. Men use seduction for power.Good point. Been dipping into the buddhist pool lately? | /r/seduction | 08/10/13 11:08 AM |
| 1 | Boys use seduction for sex. Men use seduction for power.Let's reframe it, then: Men use seduction for opportunities greater than sex alone. | /r/seduction | 08/10/13 11:06 AM |
| 1 | "If You're a Man, I'm Going to be Scared of You."Hey man, I'd be scared of androids, too. | /r/MensRights | 03/10/13 05:47 PM |
| 2 | "If You're a Man, I'm Going to be Scared of You."You may be on to something there. It's consistent with my theory about what people stress out about/make big deals out of. The people with the least worries seem to make the biggest deals about the smallest, most inconsequential things. | /r/MensRights | 03/10/13 05:46 PM |
| 8 | Four Ways to Improve Conversational SkillsHaha, you're a funny guy | /r/seduction | 27/09/13 10:27 AM |
| 1 | Let's see what happens... (x-post from imgur)Stop. That's in-group/out-group thinking. Everyone sees their own group as being better and more wholesome than rival groups. Both groups view themselves as open-minded and truth-seeking, and the perceived opposition as being closed-off. The thing about both groups is that they will attract those who are doing it solely because they're hurt by the other. Men have been hurt by women; women have been hurt by men. People, on average, will tell 9 people when they have had shitty service anywhere. On… | /r/MensRights | 25/09/13 10:32 PM |
| 1 | Let's see what happens... (x-post from imgur)Man, that sucks. Even with reasonable women, when I bring up the mens rights movement, I get an eye roll. I think people see it as taking away from the other. My point that usually brings them around is that women may have a number of issues, probably more than men, but that doesn't mean men have it perfect. We've both got shit, and we both need to work together to find some way to resolve it, aiming at the people who can actually do something instead of at each other. How do you feel about the … | /r/MensRights | 25/09/13 08:57 PM |
| 13 | Let's see what happens... (x-post from imgur)What happened? | /r/MensRights | 24/09/13 11:03 AM |
| 1 | This post by a female friend of mine made me very uneasyOh shit! Any easy-to-read versions of Hou Yi's labors that you know of? | /r/MensRights | 21/09/13 04:45 AM |
| 1 | This post by a female friend of mine made me very uneasyThat is actually very interesting! But I've learned to largely ignore what people say, and read their reactions instead. People change their minds in context on the fly. Some may say that some behaviour is creepy, but it is all dependent on if the guy is cool or not. Uncool guy does something questionable? Creep! cool guy does the same, nonchalantly? no biggie, maybe even romantic. | /r/MensRights | 19/09/13 07:46 PM |
| 0 | This post by a female friend of mine made me very uneasySorry for the wall of text, but I got carried away. I see where you're coming from, and you may be on to something. I have a few questions about some of the things you said, though: Girls don't like "clingy" guys(which are, really, typically just guys that love/care more and try harder, which I wouldn't consider a bad thing most of the time) because then it means there's more emotional responsibility being placed on them(since their actions/words would have a greater emotional impact on that per… | /r/MensRights | 19/09/13 05:26 PM |
| 2 | This post by a female friend of mine made me very uneasyI find that quality next to impossible to find in anyone. As for paying, I never pay unless it's past the first date and I feel like they're not expecting it. It's old fashioned and typically makes them feel indebted/uncomfortable. You set the frame, and lead it how you want it to go. I don't even call them dates, typically I leave them ambiguous and it works out fine. Only two times can I recall being chastised for not paying: once it didn't affect the outcome, and once things didn't work out. … | /r/MensRights | 18/09/13 08:22 PM |
| 2 | This post by a female friend of mine made me very uneasyI'm not denying that they exist, I'm arguing they're just as brainwashed as the men who buy into it. It is a trope in society, but it doesn't hold water. I'll correct my statement to say that every woman and guy that's good with women I've spoken to have seen it as a broken model for dating. Anyway, the people who actually enjoy being put on pedestals typically aren't worth your time. | /r/MensRights | 18/09/13 08:11 PM |
| 11 | This post by a female friend of mine made me very uneasyMost women I've talked to and/or dated have hated being out on a pedistal. I'm not sure what your dating pool is like, but I've only had success when approaching them with a sense of equality and like their looks don't give them any special privileges. | /r/MensRights | 18/09/13 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Polygamy makes me very uncomfortable and I feel guilty that I can't handle it.I've been there. If I would recommend anything, it would be to experiment with how long you wait to sleep with them. Or maybe forcing yourself to hang out with them afterwards to see if you can push through. No one wants to be alone forever, right? I'm pulling for you! | /r/seduction | 25/08/13 05:28 AM |
| 1 | Polygamy makes me very uncomfortable and I feel guilty that I can't handle it.Hey man, it's survival of the fit enough. If you keep having kids, bring them term and stick around a little bit, then they're probably going to survive. I mean, particularly in this society, right? My thinking is that there are several different dominant strategies currently playing. | /r/seduction | 25/08/13 05:26 AM |
| 2 | Polygamy makes me very uncomfortable and I feel guilty that I can't handle it.Shit, I can't tell which one is worse. You are an evolutionary goldmine, though. Your body tells you you're into them, you fuck, move on. My friend proposed that that was the new evolution of lying to get women. The game is for men to convince woment o slepe with us by whatever means necessary, such as lying (if one were to choose a slightly more socially acceptable act than straight-out rape), while women are trying to detect true intentions. Anyway, he proposed that our genes trick us into thi… | /r/seduction | 24/08/13 11:47 AM |
| 2 | How do I create sexual tension in a conversation, face to face, and by texting?Not sure who decided this was worth a downvote, but I agree. Smiling is sexy! | /r/seduction | 06/08/13 07:37 PM |
| 4 | How do I create sexual tension in a conversation, face to face, and by texting?Then use what I call the politicians answer: Say truthful things that appear to answer the question, but are a combination of nonsequitors and vagueries to imply something else. My sex life? Well let's just say that it could use some spicing up. It's been getting a bit stale, but who hasn't been there? Amirite? har har har. See? Could apply to jerking off or sleeping with 15 people that you're bored with. | /r/seduction | 06/08/13 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Not feeling itI find dancing is a good way to break the tension. You go in with your serious framework a lot of the time, but need someting to shake you out of your standard, humdrum exchanges. Keys to the VIP before going out helps me get more in that frame of mind. They often don't give you very much good material - if any - but you get to see what's possible. Sometimes you'll be surprised at how much they get for how little they have. Another thing is to chat up everything and everyone on the way there, in… | /r/seduction | 01/06/13 10:02 AM |
| 1 | This Cracked article is for online dating but I think it can be applied to real-life aspects of women too.Yeah, time and place, right? I mean, if you talk about some cool tech in it, or how you were working on it, sure. But outside that, they probably don't care. Personally, I don't know that much about cars or sports. Sometimes, just sometimes, a random guy will ask me about one or the other. Some of those times, I will tell them straight up that I don't really know anything to do with it (other times, I'll play along to see if I can pass for knowing something for the fun of it). There have been a … | /r/seduction | 01/06/13 08:51 AM |
| 1 | This Cracked article is for online dating but I think it can be applied to real-life aspects of women too.It's not so much to do with the fact that having a BMW indicates a small cock, but more so that they felt the need to brag about it. I don't know about you, but feeling the need to brag indicates some self-esteem issues to me. | /r/seduction | 01/06/13 08:49 AM |
| 2 | This Cracked article is for online dating but I think it can be applied to real-life aspects of women too.Probably saw a few profiles with it. That would make me cringe a little. It's obviously geared towards guys who live on the internet and consume mainstream media and porn. In other words, guys who don't actually interact with women that much, at least nothing more than superficially. | /r/seduction | 01/06/13 08:48 AM |
| 2 | This Cracked article is for online dating but I think it can be applied to real-life aspects of women too.If you want that kind of scope, you're better off reading a full book. An article can't really flesh anything that out. The point, to me, seems to be the same as pickup: Women are people, they're not stupid, and if you want them, you should take a good, long look in the mirror. Ultimately, work towards improving yourself, accept other's faults as you hope they accept yours, and stop objectifying/living in a weird movie-esque perspective. | /r/seduction | 01/06/13 08:46 AM |
| 1 | Can we talk about safe sex? I've picked up a pack of condoms from planned parenthood...Spoken like a true salesman. Well, at least you're providing a worthwhile service. | /r/seduction | 14/05/13 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Humor is a bulletproof vestI applaud your move there. Genius! | /r/seduction | 14/05/13 07:59 AM |
| 1 | Can we talk about safe sex? I've picked up a pack of condoms from planned parenthood...Now we have condom salesmen on the prowl? Things have changed since I was an active member on seddit... | /r/seduction | 14/05/13 07:58 AM |
| 3 | Hardcase Newbies NEED to read this. Blew my mind. "The Science of Loneliness and how isolation can ravage the brain & body"Cacioppo is the man. He was a researcher for the elaboration likelihood model. A model that's worth a look for those among us who like to bluff. the TL;DR version of it: people will only think about the reasons presented before them if they have the ability, time, and desire to. If they're lacking any of those, they'll go off of external factors (A guy dressed as a doctor said this was healthy? Sounds good to me.) | /r/seduction | 14/05/13 07:56 AM |
| 1 | Low Key ApproachI look forward to it! | /r/seduction | 08/04/13 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Low Key ApproachAlso, while we're sharing finds, you may be interested in this. I've been slowly working my way through it, but there's just so many forks in the road to know if you've covered a lot of it.. | /r/seduction | 06/04/13 04:11 AM |
| 1 | Low Key ApproachFor some reason, I half expected to see Robert Cialdini on that list. I'll give them a look over. Thanks, again! | /r/seduction | 06/04/13 04:07 AM |
| 1 | Low Key ApproachDamn, I was thinking it might have to come to me building my own system. The current plan was to go through at least for my masters, be familiar enough with the research and practice to get out there and eventually open up some sort of consulting firm. Long ways off, but one can dream. Congrats for you on doing this. You're centered in NY state, was it? How much would your time be worth if I were to drive down there for a visit? (I'm Canadian, btw, if that makes a difference) | /r/seduction | 06/04/13 04:06 AM |
| 6 | Low Key ApproachSo I was considering going into persuasion research for my masters/phd progression, and your job sounds fantastic. Could you tell me how you got about doing what you do? What certifications or qualifications you'd recommend? | /r/seduction | 04/04/13 03:49 PM |
| -4 | Low Key Approach...wut | /r/seduction | 04/04/13 03:46 PM |
| 0 | One solid tip to sealing the deal with a girl and winning her over.We called them CDs and "burned a cd" | /r/seduction | 17/01/13 10:35 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with a boyfriend when talking to a girl you didn't know was takenAs I said, that's my typical response | /r/seduction | 03/12/12 07:13 AM |
| 0 | Dealing with a boyfriend when talking to a girl you didn't know was takenIf he's being a dick, just say "That's cool man, I didn't realize. You have great taste" if you're afraid of a fight. I tend to be a mediator, so I don't pull AMOG stunts like some of the guys are suggesting, but Hell.. give them all a go if you can remember. Being a psych major, I might fuck with them a little.. "Hey man, you know.. I was reading earlier today about the signs that someone's intimidated or afraid. It's odd.. you seem to be showing a lot of them point out a few of the things he's… | /r/seduction | 03/12/12 03:25 AM |
| 1 | I moved to Thailand a few months ago and it blew my mind. I'd highly recommend trying it out to those who are having trouble with pickup on seddit.I have to say that I'm not entirely on board with this line of thinking. I'm more of a "if the going gets tough, get tougher." You should be able to do well in any environment with just a little tweaking, becoming socially strong instead of falling back on what you've always done and being reluctant to change. Another point: most people can't up and change countries, or even cities, depending on their circumstances. Even if they can, I'm not sure that's the best option. That being said, I'm glad… | /r/seduction | 15/11/12 09:25 PM |
| 2 | Nature versus nurture.In psychology, it's generally accepted that Nature vs Nurture is an entirely outdated debate. It's nature that's shaped by nurture where nature defines the extents that we're likely to reach, and it's up to nurture to allow us to reach our heights or depths. I agree that we're wired differently, and it's pretty well accepted neurologically as far as I've read. | /r/MensRights | 13/11/12 04:06 AM |
| 1 | It's shit like this. Was at a bar last night & a friend (girl) got drunk and kept groping me until I finally just left. I tried to tell another friend (girl) about it.This is a conversation you should be having in person if you feel like it ending positively for either party. | /r/MensRights | 12/11/12 08:52 AM |
| 2 | How do you go from casual flirting to hooking up?Watch some episodes of "keys to the VIP" and how some guys just go for it and it works. The escalation ladder will improve your odds significantly. But like some girl that was interviewed on the show said "I wasn't sure how I felt about him until he tried to kiss me, then I couldn't help but feel attracted" Having balls is attractive. | /r/seduction | 25/08/12 06:01 PM |
| 11 | How do you go from casual flirting to hooking up?Ok, these guys are giving helpful advice, but not actually saying the logistics. What you need to do is kino escalation. Look up "DiCarlo's Escalation Ladder" and it should teach you everything you need. To add to it, do a "2 forward, 1 back" approach for this and it will cut down on a lot of LMR. Basically, make sure you're the one taking away. You're making out and feel like it's gone on long enough that she might pull away, end it yourself and chill for a bit, then reinitiate and take it furt… | /r/seduction | 25/08/12 11:40 AM |
| 2 | Can anyone distill 50 Shades of Grey, once and for all?Dr. Oz is a quack. Just like Dr. Mary Brown or whatever her first name is who gives advice on child rearing when she's actually a neurologist who did some experiments on rats. People seem to think "hey, that guy's educated, he must know everything within his field!" and listen to that shit. Seriously. I make a game of going into the "Self-Help" or "Psychology" section and look at the degrees of the people that write books and have the prefix "Dr." on their cover. Hey, it's a book on psychology! … | /r/seduction | 25/08/12 11:36 AM |
| 1 | Can we have a frank conversation about STD's for a minute?Herpes acts on nerve lines, I believe. It lives dormant until a time when it can best your immune system. Going down on someone would be the same virus, but on a different body nerve. At least that's what I learned when I got shingles, though it is a different strain. The education for these things is awful, don't you think? I ha this revelation about how cold sores are actually genital herpes on your face, minus the stigma. If you were to label it as "facial herpes" people would freak out, but … | /r/seduction | 15/08/12 10:11 PM |
| 2 | Can we have a frank conversation about STD's for a minute?You won't give it to your kids, though your baby mama might is she contracts genital herpes and gives vaginal birth. Just opt for a C-section. | /r/seduction | 15/08/12 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Can we have a frank conversation about STD's for a minute?Did it ad anything to the discussion aside from being an asshole? No. Therefore down vote. | /r/seduction | 15/08/12 05:33 PM |
| 2 | Can we have a frank conversation about STD's for a minute?No, it can be detected using blood. [Heres a link](www.m.webmd.com/genital-herpes/herpes-tests?page=2) | /r/seduction | 15/08/12 05:31 PM |
| 2 | Can we have a frank conversation about STD's for a minute?Incorrect: www.m.webmd.com/genital-herpes/herpes-tests?page=2 | /r/seduction | 15/08/12 05:30 PM |
| 2 | Can we have a frank conversation about STD's for a minute?You didn't pay very much attention in health class, did you? | /r/seduction | 15/08/12 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Can we have a frank conversation about STD's for a minute?Super clap (gonorrhea) is becoming a rising concern due to the fact that a strain entirely resistant to the treatments we have for it. Mostly in third world countries, but it's going I spread no matter what, really. By the way, I'm Canadian. | /r/seduction | 15/08/12 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Can we have a frank conversation about STD's for a minute?Yeah, you have it for good. It's odd to think that so many people have it and that it's just a "whatever" thing when it's on your face. The herpes viruses are messed. Chicken pod is also herpes that can later come back as shingles when your immune system is weak. Just be sure to keep your mouth away from others when you have a cold sore, particularly their genitals | /r/seduction | 15/08/12 05:17 PM |
| 1 | An analysis of one of my all-time favorite xkcd'sNah, I've already started down a path. Been committed to it and working on it for a short while now, so it's a good start. The main thing I had to say was the conscientiousness part, as it really is the only personality trait connected with success. Perseverance, in simpler terms. Thanks, though | /r/seduction | 14/08/12 11:26 PM |
| 4 | An analysis of one of my all-time favorite xkcd'sOh god, right in the self-perception! After reading that a while ago, I scoffed at it only to later find myself focusing on it and how it applies to my life. Feels bad, man. On the up side, it made me realize a big gap that I needed to work on. Remember: the one personality trait correlated to success is conscientiousness (Big 5) | /r/seduction | 14/08/12 06:30 PM |
| 2 | Looking For A MentorWaterloo here if you're in that area! | /r/seduction | 04/08/12 09:47 AM |
| 1 | Alcohol and going out. I realized something obvious last nightNice, thanks. | /r/seduction | 30/07/12 05:35 AM |
| 1 | Alcohol and going out. I realized something obvious last nightNot entirely. I never bothered to pull out my physio psych text, but am open to someone who has. Could you explain it to me? | /r/seduction | 29/07/12 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Newbie need help! 1st date advice :(Not in particular, unless we're talking about books written about pickup and how it can already feel cultish enough sometimes. | /r/seduction | 29/07/12 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Alcohol and going out. I realized something obvious last nightIt's a normal evolutionary mechanism, but you can learn that it's use has come to an end for you. With time, it'll get weaker and weaker, just gotta beat it down! | /r/seduction | 29/07/12 12:53 PM |
| 2 | Friend zone. Oneitis. Inner Game Problems. You name it... I've got it.Well, considering I didn't read the post at all, I'm going to blindly direct you to getting your hands on: Blueprint Decoded by Real Social Dynamics and Transformations also by RSD These are pretty much all you need for inner game, aside from just getting out there and doing it. So far for me, that's all I've really needed. Deangelo is a rehash of a lot of popular stuff, but it's pretty condensed if you're looking for gimmicks and outer game stuff. | /r/seduction | 29/07/12 11:30 AM |
| 1 | Is it possible that a women is already seduced without you even saying anything?Look at anything Ozzy from RSD says. In the Transformation series, he talks about a time when he lost his voice and would just mime what he was trying to say or do. Still pulled. Basic lesson: If you have to rely heavily on words, you're doing too much. This is an area I need to work on myself, as I always liked the wordplay side of this. | /r/seduction | 29/07/12 11:19 AM |
| 1 | How Embracing Vulnerability Can Make You Infinitely More Confident (And End Up Hurting You Less In The Long Run.)I can't believe I've been on this subreddit since it was only 3000 people.. | /r/seduction | 29/07/12 11:15 AM |
| 2 | How much am I missing out because I don't have tattoos? And why are tattoos attractive?Do not get a tattoo simply for women. Do not do anything unless you want to do it for yourself and no one else. Do get one if you have always wanted one and have thought about it as a form of self expression. | /r/seduction | 29/07/12 10:57 AM |
| 2 | Newbie need help! 1st date advice :(Ok, first you need to look up the Dicarlo escalation ladder on google. My internet is fucked here and barely loads self pages on reddit, so I can't be too much help for finding it. It basically shows the escalation of physical touch from start to finish. Kino is essential for attraction. Just a few simple touches and massages and it demonstrates that you're comfortable with their body and you're not weird/unfamiliar with women. Even if you are unfamiliar, just trust that everything will work out… | /r/seduction | 29/07/12 10:56 AM |
| 1 | Newbie need help! 1st date advice :(Sacred Books? What the Fuck. | /r/seduction | 29/07/12 10:51 AM |
| 3 | Not feeling the scene?No, you make the party. Make friends with every single person there and get them all dancing and having a good time! | /r/seduction | 29/07/12 10:47 AM |
| 2 | Not feeling the scene?Talk to them anyway. You need practice to get better, and this will also help your confidence. There must be some with a nice body or something you find appealing, so go for them. You aren't going to be pulling 10s off the get-go, so go for what you find less attractive and meet some cool people along the way. Now, I make a point of being 100% honest with these girls if I ever feel I'm misleading them or they ask me a question about where the relationship is going. I don't want to hurt anyone, e… | /r/seduction | 29/07/12 10:46 AM |
| 1 | Friend zone. Oneitis. Inner Game Problems. You name it... I've got it.Didn't read, it but had something to say in response to the title: If I name Solid 10 game, would you have that? | /r/seduction | 29/07/12 10:44 AM |
| 2 | For Sedditors like me who often get tongue tied and keep hitting conversational walls, is there any sort of life hack or list of ideal responses and how to keep a dead conversation alive?Not really worried about it, to be honest. I've got it more under control, and I'd never made anyone cry when I was at my worst. Thanks for the tip, I'll keep it in mind if anyone needs it. | /r/seduction | 29/07/12 10:43 AM |
| 1 | Belt buckle pick up line, needs some fine tuning and adviceSeconded. Just be sure that she knows what you mean by antenna using tone. I can see this working on some and burning with others, but you'll never know until you try! | /r/seduction | 29/07/12 10:42 AM |
| 4 | Need a manly hobby. Suggestions?Any hobby at all. I can draw, play instruments, make hard cider, dance pathetically, bike, lift, swim, know some martial arts, cold reading, hypnosis, a ton of psychology, tell jokes, play video games, design t-shirts, bar tend, wait tables, cook, fashion, program an extremely small bit, basic level of the hard sciences, philosophy, body language, business, blah blah blah. Basic point: be diverse, do what you like. I wrote an article on how to be interesting.. gotta find it... Anyway, just go af… | /r/seduction | 29/07/12 10:40 AM |
| 1 | I feel like I can't be myself around my family and I just need to vent.Yeah, becoming a congruent person takes a lot of work, believe me. I still haven't fully gotten it because I've conditioned myself to not really act with them and they're basically a group of strangers who I have known for my whole life, but you can get past that. Just go and pretend you don't' know them. An aunt, maybe, you go up and make conversation like you would with a professor or co-worker. Tell a joke, tell a story, talk about ideas, obviously ask their input for any of those and give th… | /r/seduction | 29/07/12 10:38 AM |
| 2 | Alcohol and going out. I realized something obvious last nightThey do call it liquid courage for a reason. It shuts down the forebrain (personality, forethought, social skills (including social anxiety)) and makes you focus more on the mammalian brain, which goes more for basic drives like sex, food, emotion. Anyway, I always told myself from the start of this that I was doing it for social skills and not for a situational skill set, i.e. the club with alcohol. I made a point of talking to people at bus stops, the cashiers at coffee shops, and going to the… | /r/seduction | 29/07/12 10:27 AM |
| 4 | For Sedditors like me who often get tongue tied and keep hitting conversational walls, is there any sort of life hack or list of ideal responses and how to keep a dead conversation alive?Woah, and I thought I was bad with my teasing! Worst I had is a girl tell me not to touch her when I playfully tapped her shoulder. | /r/seduction | 29/07/12 10:22 AM |
| 1 | Does intelligence help in attraction?Social skills are a category of intelligence. It's best to be well rounded in your intelligences, as this helps with carrying conversation with anyone. Check out Gardner's Multiple Intelligence theory wikipedia page. I'm too lazy to link it right now. | /r/seduction | 29/07/12 10:20 AM |
| 2 | Does intelligence help in attraction?You have to sprinkle a bit of both in. I have tried the intelligent route where you just talk ideas, and I've tried the brain dead route where you focus on amping up attraction and riding an emotional rollercoaster through stories. I find the second works a lot for the seduction end, but it makes interactions repeats of one another and they're quite boring for me. What I do is talk about some ideas, then tell a joke or relate stories to the ideas, maybe she'll chime in something related to the i… | /r/seduction | 29/07/12 10:19 AM |
| 1 | I have a shitty home , and my family isnt all that rich. Showing low value, i dont have the confidence to bring girls back to my house or even friends. What can i do about it?That's actually kind of hilarious. My point still stands: just own it and be like "yeah, in between rooms right now" or something. After the first hookup, you can explain what the situation is, but the first time is the most pivotal. | /r/seduction | 23/07/12 07:48 AM |
| 2 | [FR] I barely did anything and now I have a fuck buddy. F-CloseIt's open to interpretation. | /r/seduction | 22/07/12 06:59 PM |
| 2 | [FR] I barely did anything and now I have a fuck buddy. F-CloseI see it as a grading system, like in school. 70% is pretty average, 60% less so, 50% is borderline, and anything below that is not good at all. Just take those numbers and divide by 10 and that's how my HB system works | /r/seduction | 22/07/12 02:12 PM |
| 3 | Fellow sedditors. Does owning a motorcycle give you a boost in game?I disagree. It could be a POS bike that goes from point A to point B, and it woudl still be great. The point is to own what you have, do, are. Truly being who you are and not being at all embarassed. I don't actually own a bike, but knowing the psychology behind it (Source: an honours degree), it would be fantastic once you get a girl on it. There have been studies that demonstrate that we misattribute arousal to a nearby logical source. If we come across someone while we're being shaken physiol… | /r/seduction | 22/07/12 11:27 AM |
| 4 | A realisation about oneitis, (at least in my case).You're up quite early, aren't you? I've still not slept due to an overnight shift. I'm with you on this, though I never understood the "feeling superior over single people" part. I always thought that was a more female tendency, but I've discovered that I'm somewhat of an oddity at times. Anyway, I was dating a girl for 2.5 years, which was pretty much the entire time I had been in my current city. We broke up and she moved on immediately (later came out that she was dating both of us at the end… | /r/seduction | 22/07/12 11:21 AM |
| 4 | I have a shitty home , and my family isnt all that rich. Showing low value, i dont have the confidence to bring girls back to my house or even friends. What can i do about it?Man, you have nothing to worry about. If the girl is willing to go back to your place and fuck, your situation won't hurt you. Just own it. Pure ownership and keep being your usual, cool self. Just watch this particular episode of "Keys to the VIP" (I know, I know, it's not the best show for learning, but it definitely helps you get in the mood to go out). This guy is not good looking. He is couch surfing, IIRC, at a girl he used to screw's place. He's literally pulling girls to a couch of the g… | /r/seduction | 22/07/12 11:16 AM |
| 4 | A tip on how to evolve into more of an alpha male.Care to explain your logic? You're just going to be downvoted to hell if you don't expand on this point. | /r/seduction | 22/07/12 11:13 AM |
| 5 | [FR] I barely did anything and now I have a fuck buddy. F-CloseJust so I know I have this straight, you know that HB3 or 4 is pretty low, right? As in a 0 on the binary scale of won't-will do? As in, this girl is fairly unattractive. If that's the case, why would you be surprised that a guy who is brave enough to entertain would attract her? Seems like this should be a given. I suppose the follow-up question would be: why would you want this situation if the girls only a 3 or 4? | /r/seduction | 22/07/12 11:12 AM |
| 3 | Where did I fuck up here?Not a problem. | /r/seduction | 22/07/12 10:30 AM |
| 5 | Where did I fuck up here?First, the HB scale is just whatever you think the girl is. Is she the hottest thing you've ever damn seen, ever? 10. Pretty goddamn hot, still quite rare? 9. I suppose 7 would be pretty hot, but a bit more common. I suppose you could also go into binary of 0 and 1, where 0 is won't do and 1 is will do, but that could also be seen as 1 to 5=0, 6 to 10=1. Anyway, your opener was ok, but you have to realize that good looking women have been given compliments like this and have guys hitting on them… | /r/seduction | 22/07/12 06:10 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone else feel "distant" from their friends when it comes to seduction? (Explanation inside)(s)he's being a presumptive twit | /r/seduction | 14/07/12 06:41 AM |
| 1 | r/Seduction, is it okay to be touchy and skip parts of the escalation ladder if this is the 3rd date?Yeah, I can see what you mean, but it will still make his message less well received than if he had left it out. Alternatively, it will just cause resentment from OP, even though the advice is sound enough. | /r/seduction | 11/05/12 08:05 PM |
| 5 | r/Seduction, is it okay to be touchy and skip parts of the escalation ladder if this is the 3rd date?That advice would've been much better, and more likely to be received, without such a condescending Sigh to open it up. Be more considerate to the beginners, man, assuming you aren't one yourself. | /r/seduction | 11/05/12 09:23 AM |
| 1 | Some science regarding kino. tl;dr: A woman is more likely to acquiesce to your request and is more likely to see you as dominant if you touch her forearm while chatting.probably best just finding a mirror to it somewhere | /r/seduction | 09/05/12 07:05 PM |
| 1 | 3 Basic Things to Cover on a First Datethese are all good for sure. There was also this article I saw a long while ago and can't find anymore that spoke about 3 elements of the date itself.. 1) Make it so you can have conversation/isolation (coffee dates, not movies) 2) Make it exciting/novel to her? I'm out, I don't remember the rest. If anyone remembers that article and can find it, I'd be very appreciative! | /r/seduction | 09/05/12 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Some science regarding kino. tl;dr: A woman is more likely to acquiesce to your request and is more likely to see you as dominant if you touch her forearm while chatting.This would be better if we could have access to the full article without subscribing. The abstract is decent enough, I suppose. | /r/seduction | 09/05/12 06:49 PM |
| 2 | Words of advice to those who get good at this...Very good post, T-Square. I'm glad I have yet to fall into this trap, but will keep this in mind as I venture back into singledom. Thank you kindly. | /r/seduction | 09/05/12 06:39 PM |
| 3 | Good line to use when your wingman's girl isn't into himLet's face it: most of us got into pickup at the start for varying degrees of selfishness, potentially ending up in a "help everyone" attitude. Just at different levels of development, yeah? | /r/seduction | 09/05/12 06:06 PM |
| 6 | Good line to use when your wingman's girl isn't into himThat's fine, honestly. But this isn't about you - you're the wing. It's about the guy you're winging. You're winging him to help him pick up, so it's your job to keep it about him and not blowing him out because you aren't meshing with the targets friend. | /r/seduction | 09/05/12 06:28 AM |
| 6 | Good line to use when your wingman's girl isn't into himI think it's better for both people to get results over ego. Not to mention, the wings job is to help the lead get the girl, and if he does the exact opposite, they are doing a bad job. Best to make a bad situation good in a socially savvy way than getting blown out and him knowing it's his fault. | /r/seduction | 09/05/12 05:25 AM |
| 5 | Good line to use when your wingman's girl isn't into himHow so, friend? | /r/seduction | 09/05/12 01:41 AM |
| 8 | Good line to use when your wingman's girl isn't into himReplace girls with everyone. No one wants to feel so replaceable that you can toss them away like a used rag. | /r/seduction | 09/05/12 01:40 AM |
| 3 | Good line to use when your wingman's girl isn't into himVery good point. Seems most guys will take anything that is tossed, nonchalantly, their way. Not the way to go about getting higher-value women, that's for sure. Only works if you're playing a numbers game, and even that is debatable. | /r/seduction | 09/05/12 01:39 AM |
| 1 | Why do bigoted feminists and white knights call the Mens Rights Movements a "privileged straight white cis-mens rights" movement?Thank you, now I understand. I'll make my way through those and be better informed. | /r/MensRights | 08/04/12 04:57 AM |
| 1 | Why do bigoted feminists and white knights call the Mens Rights Movements a "privileged straight white cis-mens rights" movement?And you're a dick. | /r/MensRights | 08/04/12 04:56 AM |
| 2 | Why do bigoted feminists and white knights call the Mens Rights Movements a "privileged straight white cis-mens rights" movement?So this is what a genuine interest in your cause is met with? I'm trying to learn, if you haven't noticed, but you're doing the opposite of helping. | /r/MensRights | 07/04/12 08:03 PM |
| 0 | Why do bigoted feminists and white knights call the Mens Rights Movements a "privileged straight white cis-mens rights" movement?I'm not saying this to be trolling in any way, I'm just confused whenever I see posts relating to the MRM: Why, exactly, is there a need for a men's rights movement? Men are the more privileged gender globally... I'm confused. | /r/MensRights | 07/04/12 07:12 PM |
| 2 | 10 things you probably do wrongI like a challenge and they tend to be wittier and verbally spar more at clubs. Plus it's like condensed sets that you can use to get in and stay in the zone. Day game is like shooting fish in a barrel. | /r/seduction | 13/03/12 05:54 PM |
| 2 | 10 things you probably do wrongGotta learn to power through the shield, man. They crack if you just persist a bit and ignore it. | /r/seduction | 13/03/12 08:21 AM |
| 1 | 100 Dating Tips For Men From A PUAI really don't like #14. Alcohol is a crutch, though I suppose it will giev you an advantage. But when you are without it, like any crutch, it only leaves you falling down. Edit: Fuck, #59 is pretty awful, too. I'm a firm believer in leaving people better off than when you found them. | /r/seduction | 03/03/12 12:42 AM |
| 0 | I finally understand woman. Click here for the truth.I came here to say pretty much the same thing. I first glanced at how long it was in a "this has got to be rich" sort of way, which was almost entirely validated by the length of the post. No one is that simple. And I, myself, have gone down that damning route before and it's nothing but a pain in the ass and stalkers waiting to happen, take it from me. Almost got a girl deported in my ventures.. In fact, I told one girl I was only going to be in the area for the 4 months between terms and gave … | /r/seduction | 14/01/12 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Apparently some 4chan user came to the exact same conclusions as Neil Strauss.The herp is one of the ones that concerns me. I mean, it wouldn't stop me, but I keep it in mind. | /r/seduction | 13/01/12 08:34 PM |
| -1 | Apparently some 4chan user came to the exact same conclusions as Neil Strauss.No, I have. In just saying that even the ones who present as normal can be insane in a relationship. And same deal of most being snatched up. Thus you go younger. And some can be in bars on the off chance. | /r/seduction | 13/01/12 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Apparently some 4chan user came to the exact same conclusions as Neil Strauss.Ah, that makes more sense. Like I may have pointed out to you before, the seduction subreddits have exploded with people, meaning that the average subscriber probably has no idea what they're talking about. Edit: I just thought it was funny seeing two posts of yours that were relatively close to each other and both seemed rather irritated. | /r/seduction | 12/01/12 07:44 PM |
| 2 | Apparently some 4chan user came to the exact same conclusions as Neil Strauss.Admitting you have a problem is the first step! Good on you! | /r/seduction | 12/01/12 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Apparently some 4chan user came to the exact same conclusions as Neil Strauss.I have come to the conclusion that hot women are one of the most useless demographics to a society, other than sex. How does one develop their personality? By overcome adversity, building character through solving your own problems, actually working! What do attractive women have to work at? Just get the skill of manipulation down and you can get all your problems whisked away (or is it wisped away?). Essentially, using their orbiters, they have the least personal development of anybody. Of the … | /r/seduction | 12/01/12 07:28 PM |
| 3 | Apparently some 4chan user came to the exact same conclusions as Neil Strauss.One thing that bothers me about the numbers game like that is that STI's and pregnancy are never really mentioned.. I mean, the chances of having both are pretty damn high at that rate. | /r/seduction | 12/01/12 07:23 PM |
| 3 | Apparently some 4chan user came to the exact same conclusions as Neil Strauss.Why you gettin' worked up, man? As long as the info is out there, so be it. It's helping guys and possibly bringing them to seduction. The amount of misogyny doesn't help, but the general message is right. | /r/seduction | 12/01/12 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Apparently some 4chan user came to the exact same conclusions as Neil Strauss.Yeah, he likely took it from elsewhere, but he could have actually come to the same conclusions. Who knows. It is rather bothersome that people don't go past The Game and tell me they know about pickup. I ask them any question more in-depth about what they do or inner game or anything and their damn eyes glaze over. | /r/seduction | 12/01/12 07:21 PM |
| 5 | Apparently some 4chan user came to the exact same conclusions as Neil Strauss.Once you get going, you can probably get 30-50% (edit: of women you actually want, not of all women. This could probably skyrocket if you have very low standards). The guys' probably just ignoring all the ones that didn't bite, but you can bring a girl home every night if you were to go all out. And going all-out isn't actually that difficult once you get used to "rejection", which is really nothing more than a fee taken from your limitless fund called "Ego". As some guys point out (Tyler Durden… | /r/seduction | 12/01/12 07:13 PM |
| 5 | Never Say "No" To A Girl - Do This InsteadYou're me before I got into pick-up, apparently. You can choose to continue your heavy, serious conversations all the time, but there comes a time when you don't want to have to be weighed down by these concepts. I'm guessing you often find women boring because they don't want to talk about these things and you likely don't get that positive a reaction from them, or people in general? I may be off in that read, but from my experience people don't like to have to consider the heavier sides of lif… | /r/seduction | 09/12/11 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Never Say "No" To A Girl - Do This InsteadAh. Was just confused about what you were saying. | /r/seduction | 09/12/11 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Never Say "No" To A Girl - Do This InsteadWait, are you the author of this? | /r/seduction | 09/12/11 08:18 AM |
| 4 | Never Say "No" To A Girl - Do This InsteadYou could have so much more fun with that question, man! Don't let it go to waste by bringing her down and keeping yourself down. Spice it up and play along, THEN drop the bomb that you don't give a shit. Or start making things up back at her and see what she does.. "You're very strong willed, aren't you? Totally a Gemini. They have the will of two people, you see, as they are the twins. That explains why you're so into me, as well" | /r/seduction | 09/12/11 08:15 AM |
| 3 | Never Say "No" To A Girl - Do This InsteadI'm of the contention that everything works on everyone, but to varying degrees. A very hot woman will react more to a "no" than an average woman. An insecure woman will not be able to handle any form of rejection whatsoever. So my question is: Is someone more or less real and mature when they can or cannot handle a mild, teasing "rejection" from time to time? | /r/seduction | 09/12/11 08:11 AM |
| 2 | Never Say "No" To A Girl - Do This InsteadIn which case, I would advise staying away from them. Emotionally/physically insecurity is unattractive. Keep that in mind, both men and women! | /r/seduction | 08/12/11 07:36 PM |
| 37 | Never Say "No" To A Girl - Do This InsteadThis is a terribly written article, though I see what they're saying. I disagree, however. To me, saying no sparingly can increase attraction hugely, namely with 8-10s. People who are accustomed to getting what they want don't like to be told no. This seems like a bad thing, but it can actually spice things up! Girls who usually get what they want are used to dealing with wimps and chumps who don't have the courage or balls to tell her flat-out "No". The average person will be told "no" on occas… | /r/seduction | 08/12/11 06:58 PM |
| 2 | Bars & Clubs - Flaky Numbers Mean Go for the Lay or Bust?The self-deprecation isn't really necessary, as it makes sense for women to do this. They're approached a lot and if they were to openly reject every guy, there could be bad backlash for them, especially since the guys approaching them are likely going to be stronger than them. Evolutionary to placate males in order to ensure survival, really. | /r/seduction | 21/11/11 10:55 PM |
| 9 | Bars & Clubs - Flaky Numbers Mean Go for the Lay or Bust?You're making a lot of self-serving biases in here, man. Girls will give out there numbers all the time just to get rid of you, not because they're attracted. Sometimes, sure, attraction was there. But if you left a good enough impression and were able to build enough attraction, she will anticipate your next connection. You just need to work on your game more. As for the "where are you?".. Don't do that. Don't be that guy. You're going to be the guy whose looking to hook up with them but either… | /r/seduction | 21/11/11 10:38 AM |
| 6 | A Paradox of Seduction - In field video of chode-y beta behavior in the most alpha way possible (link inside)The thing you'll learn is that alpha or beta doesn't really matter when you look at the specific behaviours themselves. It's all about attitude and whether you think you're worth it or you're fun. You can handle taking risks and aren't self-conscious. This guy clearly was in that boat: He was rapping a love song (putting himself out there, even if it is normally considered chody) without any nervousness, and he had a bunch of people backing him. He was essentially the celebrity of that scene sin… | /r/seduction | 16/09/11 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Idealistic Views and OutcomesI suppose, but I think a taste of realism can help. Then again, realism is actually pessimism, as shown by a study of people with depression. It showed that people view the world more accurately when through the haze of depression than their non-depressed counterparts. I found this interesting, especially since i liked to say I was an optimist with a tinge of realism. | /r/seduction | 11/09/11 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Why do women stay with abusive partners?Well, you might find it entertaining and you can easily find it through torrents. Yeah, I'm in Canada and we just switched to digital, not that I ever really watch TV anyway. Well, I presume with enough game you can get most any age group. Then again, maybe that's just hopeful thinking, but who knows. | /r/seduction | 11/09/11 09:31 PM |
| 1 | First girl I smiled at on the street who responded positively was a prostitute. Go figure....I think you're doing it wrong. | /r/seduction | 11/09/11 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Why do women stay with abusive partners?I feel for you, though I've managed to get out of my shithole home town, and apparently farther than the average person moves away, probably going to end up even farther within the next 6 months. At some point, I may make a NA tour and meet up with some people from here if they're still kicking around then. Have you watched the show "louie" by Louis C.K.? Watching it, I can't help but wonder how much help he'd need to be decent on the dating scene, esp with his appearance and such. I probably ov… | /r/seduction | 03/09/11 03:46 AM |
| 1 | Why do women stay with abusive partners?Yeah, I wouldn't think that sarging would be a problem, as your demographic is probably not attending the club very often. I was thinking more on day twos and the like. May I ask why you bothered to go back to the same town and not some other arbitrary city that you could find with approximately the same amenities? And considering what you said about the ocllege age kids, what age group do you aim for? I'm wondering if people actually follow that whole "half your age plus 7" business. | /r/seduction | 03/09/11 03:13 AM |
| 1 | How do you escalate and get a shy girl to open up?Ah, the low self-esteem girl. Good luck, they can be a challenge that may or may not pay off in the end. I'd hazard a guess that they typically end in frustration. The relationships with them, not the girl themselves. | /r/seduction | 03/09/11 03:08 AM |
| 3 | Idealistic Views and OutcomesA lot of guys promote such views of the worldbecuase then you will act confidently, as if everything will work out for you in the end. This is a self-fulfilling prophecy of sorts and everyone should ascribe to it, for the most part. A dash of realism is necessary, in my opinion, because this is actually helpful. Negative emotions help us, so we shouldn't do away with them entirely, we should just hold them in check. The only catch I can see is that some peoples supreme optimism could end up maki… | /r/seduction | 03/09/11 02:55 AM |
| 1 | What Makes A Bad First DateLike you wouldn't believe, my friend. There was a study done that showed that men and women BOTH agree that a woman appears more sexually available to a man when she accepts a drink from him. That means the woman receiving the drink probably knows this, too, which is why I'd avoid overt gestures like that before the girl has demonstrated herself as fun and cool. Now, I guess, I would go in line with that and say that the same shoiuld go for bigger purchases, such as dinner or a date. Plus, when … | /r/seduction | 03/09/11 02:45 AM |
| 1 | Why do women stay with abusive partners?Ah, I see. That's cool. Let me aask you something: do you find that in a smaller city it can get awkward running into exes? | /r/seduction | 03/09/11 02:40 AM |
| 1 | [FR] While running.... what?Yeah man, I'm totally with you on that one. I think the best thing to do would be to put something like sarcasm after you wrote something sarcastic, or something...though the funny thing about sarcasm is that you can write "I'm not being sarcastic" or something along those lines, but that can still be seen as sarcastic, right? Gotta laugh. | /r/seduction | 03/09/11 02:39 AM |
| 1 | This is the best tweet a recovering AFC can ever read.Oh hey, cool! What's your story? And yeah... Sometimes I can be harsh, but I strive to get past that. | /r/seduction | 03/09/11 02:35 AM |
| 1 | This is the best tweet a recovering AFC can ever read.Great saying! I'll definitely use this when helping out my friends! | /r/seduction | 31/08/11 09:07 PM |
| 4 | This is the best tweet a recovering AFC can ever read.You seem to be lost. What subreddit were you looking for? /r/cynical? | /r/seduction | 31/08/11 09:03 PM |
| 1 | What Makes A Bad First DateOh, interesting! But may I ask you if you think it's more or less likely for her to try for the bill after you insisted on paying the first time? Personally, I find paying for the first date to be a bust because if she cares that she has to pay her own way, like a normal person, when neither of us know if this is going to be worth anything, then she's just eliminating herself from my pool of viable options. It's the same reasonk I won't buy her a drink at the club before she's demonstrated being… | /r/seduction | 31/08/11 08:39 PM |
| 1 | [FR] While running.... what?Would you not agree that a field report could be any interaction that would help with his game and/or be analyzed to see what happened? If so, this is perfect for him because it's a learning experience where he will gain confidence and, thus, ability. Had he done everything he had with the intention, you would classify it as a FR with no problem. The fact that he made paying attention to her as a secndary goal without the intention of picking h er up is beside the point that it probably helped h… | /r/seduction | 31/08/11 08:32 PM |
| 2 | Overweight sedditorsYeah, that'd definitely be pretty badass and I would love to do it sometime! It's just a matter of getting there and funds at the moment, as I jus graduated and live in Waterloo, Ontario. I have a friend that I'm intending to visit there, though because he got a job at some tech startup in the area. There are few people I'd want to meet from reddit, but you and tofu tofu would be among them. Though, my presence in this subreddit has all but vanished, it's mainly due to three factors: LTR, too ma… | /r/seduction | 31/08/11 08:28 PM |
| 2 | [FR] While running.... what?Well, you could just go direct and say "hey, I've got to run (good pun in this situation haha), but we should meet up sometime. What's your number?" Another is to have a good talk, turn to go, then after a few steps, turn and say something like "oh hey, what's your number?" A final way that I got from Jeffries a while back is asking a girl if she had email. Everyone does, so she'll say yes. Take this yes as if it were permission to get it and say "great! Write that down" and while she's writing … | /r/seduction | 31/08/11 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Why do women stay with abusive partners?Seems like the best outcome in that scenario, really. What city do you operate out of again, throwaway? | /r/seduction | 31/08/11 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Overweight sedditorsoh wow, intense. Good on him! | /r/seduction | 31/08/11 01:01 AM |
| 2 | How do you escalate and get a shy girl to open up?I'd suggest doing the standard things, too, but with the spin of you being there. For dancing, just go and have the best time ever, go talk to people, bring her with you, etc. Just be silly with it and hopefully the mood becomes contagious | /r/seduction | 31/08/11 12:51 AM |
| 1 | [FR] While running.... what?Oh, I suppose I just had a brain fart. My bad! | /r/seduction | 31/08/11 12:50 AM |
| 1 | How do you escalate and get a shy girl to open up?Ah, I see. Then.. bowling, drinks, clubbing, outdoor movies, walk in the park, video games, board games, a scavenger hunt, a trail of hints.. the list goes on. Just look up date ideas and just try them out. You said you were in a LTR with her, right? | /r/seduction | 31/08/11 12:28 AM |
| 1 | Why do women stay with abusive partners?I agree. How did that work out for you? | /r/seduction | 31/08/11 12:26 AM |
| 1 | Why do women stay with abusive partners?Yeah, sunk cost plays into it, I'd say. | /r/seduction | 30/08/11 11:54 PM |
| 2 | Why do women stay with abusive partners?I'd say it's a combination of this and something else. I see stockholm as being part of a struggle against some power, typically, and the kidnapped comes to associate with those who are taking care of her and showing their own story that she would otherwise never see. The addition I'd like to make is it's like water in a desert. First, they get the biological connection from sex, which is a bit before the abuse typically starts. Then as time goes on, abuse starts to pop up, but it's not so bad a… | /r/seduction | 30/08/11 11:53 PM |
| 2 | Overweight sedditorsReally? How do you know? | /r/seduction | 30/08/11 11:49 PM |
| 2 | Overweight sedditorsWell, I"m about 215lbs, but I'm also 6'7", so It's a matter of frame, right? Though, I've never actually come across any good closers who were grossly out of weight.. I'd think it would be a self-esteem issue, but I'd love to see otherwise. | /r/seduction | 30/08/11 11:49 PM |
| 1 | [FR] While running.... what?You realize that the field we study here is social interaction, particularly male-female sexual interactions at all levels, correct? So, anywhere you are that you would likely meet a female would be considered going into the field. His intent of whether he went looking or not do not change the physical environment he was in, being the field we're interested in. And I'd like to point out that everyone is always playing the game all the time, whether they want to acknowledge it or not. The only di… | /r/seduction | 30/08/11 11:46 PM |
| 1 | [FR] While running.... what?For our intentions, he might as well be AFC. Whether he's gay and alpha, or straight and beta is irrelevant, all we're pointing out is he's probably not a threat. I don't understand how you think it's stereotypical, though.. do you mean over-generalized? edit: grammar | /r/seduction | 30/08/11 11:43 PM |
| 1 | [FR] While running.... what?I don't know what to say other than good job! Do you have any particular question about your experience or did you just want to share? And I'm asking that genuinely, btw. | /r/seduction | 30/08/11 11:40 PM |
| 1 | What Makes A Bad First DateThink coffee, a walk in the park, lunch, etc. edit: and I generally wouldn't pay for her, not on a first date at least. | /r/seduction | 30/08/11 11:38 PM |
| 2 | How do you escalate and get a shy girl to open up?Then you need to do something different. If you keep doing the same you've always been doing, you'll continue to get the same results, which is clearly not your intention. | /r/seduction | 30/08/11 11:36 PM |
| 2 | Got a girls # through a mutual friend, where do I start from here?Sage Advice! | /r/seduction | 30/08/11 06:04 PM |
| 0 | Am I doing it right?Well, for one, you're going to want to either climb on up to her level, or take her off that fancy pedestal you've placed her on. You did well enough, but it seems like you got lucky because the fact that you remembered her means that you've given her some value which she has not earned, other than from her looks. Personally, I would just broken the conversation and mentioned that I was at the place I was at the night before (the place she was also at) and led her to make the connection herself … | /r/seduction | 30/08/11 06:01 PM |
| 2 | How do you escalate and get a shy girl to open up?I'd suggest taking her to a quiet place where she may be comfortable and kinoing. For instance, a coffee shop and do things like, palm reading, hand massages, whatever. Coffee is good because it tends to open people up a bit due to the stimulation, as well as a few awesome psychological factors that come into play. One of those factors is Misattribution of Arousal, where the caffeine will arrouse them and they'll attribute it to attraction. Be aware, however, that people appear to attribute arou… | /r/seduction | 30/08/11 05:52 PM |
| 3 | What are your favourite gambits / playful games?Seen that one in an interview with him. It's gold, Jerry! | /r/seduction | 30/08/11 05:04 PM |
| 4 | Can we make our own 'SEDDIT challenge', a 30 day challenge to truly master this material!?Do you think you can truly master anything in 30 days? | /r/seduction | 26/08/11 08:21 AM |
| 1 | Deal breakers.Exactly! They're boring as shit when they have nothing to say. This seems like a redundant sentence, but some people can be immensely entertaining without anything of substance being said. | /r/seduction | 23/08/11 04:36 AM |
| 1 | Gotta say that this entire site bothers me, but this particular post just made me laugh.Note the omnipresent tone to a lot of the points. | /r/seduction | 02/08/11 11:18 AM |
| 1 | Gotta say that this entire site bothers me, but this particular post just made me laugh.Why I'm reading it, you're probably wondering, is because I'm working an overnight shift, am very tired, and am just absentmindedly reading the posts and building a psychological profile of the blogger. Just to point out if it isn't obvious enough by now: Avoid any women with blogs such as this. They're likely going to stalk and harass you when you break up, or make your life a living hell if you somehow stay with them. I'd like to note that some of her points are valid, but for the most part th… | /r/seduction | 02/08/11 11:17 AM |
| 5 | PSA: Men, please watch your kino.No, it seems generally pretty in-line. You're just ignoring the learning curve that comes along with radically changing your natural tendencies. | /r/seduction | 22/07/11 07:24 AM |
| 3 | Very fast Attraction Building techniqueVery good. Eye contact is shown to increase a feeling of connection between people. As well, psychology says that our pupils dilate when we see something interesting or, more importantly, attractive. It's our body's way of trying to take in as much as possible of what we're looking at. | /r/seduction | 17/07/11 07:04 AM |
| 2 | Crosspost from TIL: Testosterone Increases by 45.7% in Men When They Don't Masturbate for 7 DaysIn the actual act, maybe not, but with the pheromones and chemical exchange (at least with kissing), It could be significantly different. Even just believing 100% that you were having sex with a woman would change the reaction in your body. | /r/seduction | 22/06/11 05:55 PM |
| 0 | Crosspost from TIL: Testosterone Increases by 45.7% in Men When They Don't Masturbate for 7 DaysI'd like to see how sex affects testosterone levels. I'd gather it might actually increase them instead of decreasing like masturbation would do. | /r/seduction | 21/06/11 04:03 PM |
| 3 | I AM THESACREDWhy? You speak as if this will never happen again. | /r/seduction | 10/06/11 04:54 PM |
| 3 | Sexting & One-itis: Go To Jail, Go Directly To Jail.Do you really think pointing him out and publicly shaming will change his mind? The kid is clearly not thinking straight and this is just going to drive him to drop out of the seduction community, or do it out of spite. edit: after perusing further, I suppose this may have actually done some good, somehow. Papa Throwaway, eh? | /r/seduction | 16/05/11 06:55 AM |
| 1 | Hooked Up With Friend, Need Some Advice TooYes, but you're thinking only from the male perspective. What exactly is she getting out of this, besides sex? Sex is something she can get from pretty much any man. The setup you're giving me is as such: You and I both want some extra money. I agree to do some work for you that will benefit you, you don't agree to do anything for me. You end up with money, I end up with nothing but a bit of work that I could actually get paid for elsewhere. Bad analogy, but it gets the job done. | /r/seduction | 16/05/11 06:30 AM |
| 1 | Hooked Up With Friend, Need Some Advice TooI maintain my position that there are only 3. That one is a fantasy. | /r/seduction | 16/05/11 06:28 AM |
| 9 | Hooked Up With Friend, Need Some Advice TooAs tempting as the FWB arrangement might sound, it only has three outcomes: Dissolution: You both end up reverting back to where you stand, pre-hookup Relationship: You commit to a long-term sort of deal Break down: it destroys the relationship that was previously. One of you will be more committed (aka her) and will be hurt by the others lack of commitment and will end up with resentment. Overall, I wouldn't suggest it if you don't actually want the relationship. Leave it as a one time thing. | /r/seduction | 15/05/11 04:56 PM |
| 1 | This is fascinating. I am a AFM turned RAFM as of now.I'm not sure.. what an AFM is.. or an RAFM and I've been into this stuff for a little over a year now... Is this just AFC in some way or am I missing something? Anyway, if you want to meet the liberal girls in your area, go to liberal areas. Universities in general tend to be more liberal, and studies have shown that the more time spent in a university/hte more educated they become, the less conservative they are. Areas where they'd likely be more liberal: pot paraphenalia shops, clubs, bars, ad… | /r/seduction | 13/05/11 06:54 AM |
| 5 | Do I let a girl win if I'm playing her in a game?what the fuck... | /r/seduction | 13/05/11 06:28 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Cold Approach works like a charm!It'll be fine, just be confident with it | /r/seduction | 13/05/11 06:27 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Cold Approach works like a charm!Asking if she remembers you would actually be a bad move, as you should act in a way that assumes she should remember you. Why wouldn't she? You were a cool guy that happened to talk to her. Just walk up and say hey or make a situational observation. | /r/seduction | 11/05/11 09:47 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Cold Approach works like a charm!You did pretty well overall, I'll say that. One thing that caught me was that you seem to think "cold approach" is some sort of technique that works or doesn't. A cold approach is simply walking up to a group without knowing anything about them, as opposed to a hot approach where you have some sort of in, or inside information about them beforehand. | /r/seduction | 11/05/11 06:43 AM |
| 1 | (I'm a girl) Heads up to all you shy guys!!This sounds contrary to what the mPUAs say about how women actually see them as a challenge. It shows preselection, among other things. You could use a comparison to homophobia: just because they're gay, doesnt mean they want to sleep with every guy. | /r/seduction | 24/04/11 04:54 PM |
| 2 | (I'm a girl) Heads up to all you shy guys!!I was about to put this. I really hate the misintepretation on what being alpha means and how it often is mistaken for being a dick. | /r/seduction | 24/04/11 04:53 PM |
| 2 | (I'm a girl) Heads up to all you shy guys!!1) Probably unnecessary, but really it came from a bunch of nerds trying to figure something out. Look at WoW slang or the online community in general and it makes sense. 2) The manipulative image makes me laugh because, as you said, people often manipulate in everything - conscious or not - but for some reason knowing what will make you more effective makes you somehow a bit evil. Other stuff could be misinterpretation on the part of the "PUA". 3) Yeah, I whole-heartedly agree with this. I real… | /r/seduction | 24/04/11 04:52 PM |
| 5 | Book of Body Language Summaryoutside affects inside affects outside | /r/seduction | 23/03/11 02:52 AM |
| 1 | What to do when the friend swoops in?These are both supposing that you know who's with the girl | /r/seduction | 20/03/11 08:55 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Ran into HB9 I F-closed on Tuesday while I was on a date with another HB on ThursdayIf you insist | /r/seduction | 19/03/11 02:48 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Ran into HB9 I F-closed on Tuesday while I was on a date with another HB on Thursday"nice body" is more vague than a rating system that is used by nearly every man - in or out of the pua game. and you would honestly rather read "I Fucked her!" instead of "I F-closed her!"? | /r/seduction | 19/03/11 02:18 AM |
| 0 | Should I learn to read body language?yes. I found that this book helped quite a bit. | /r/seduction | 17/03/11 07:43 AM |
| 1 | Something I learned about Text / Facebook messagingTrue. If you're some highschool student, I can't really comment on that. But if you're university or above.. then that's how the game goes. I think it would still be more effective than always being available for a less-than-optimally-stimulating conversation, but that's your choice. | /r/seduction | 14/03/11 08:30 AM |
| 1 | Tokyo Sedditors, are you okay?Thanks for your indispensable contribution! | /r/seduction | 12/03/11 07:00 AM |
| 0 | where to meet new girlswtf is askseddit... | /r/seduction | 12/03/11 01:09 AM |
| 3 | where to meet new girlsWhy is this being downvoted and the other upvoted? Bars aren't the only place to pick up women. They're literally everywhere, so stop putting everyone in the same box. | /r/seduction | 12/03/11 12:59 AM |
| 2 | Something I learned about Text / Facebook messagingOr... you could use that as a time to cut the exchange. Texting, once again, is NOT for having conversations. It's to get her to think about you and to feel good, or to meet up. Meeting up should preferably be done by calling them to show that you have the balls to do so. | /r/seduction | 09/03/11 06:42 AM |
| 1 | How can you tell if you're good looking?Why does it matter? Pretend you have no body and stand comfortably, up straight, and just go with the flow. | /r/seduction | 31/01/11 08:07 PM |
| 2 | philosoraptor ponders the nature of the AFCI've not heard anythign about the correlation between attractiveness and ability, but about dick size and ability; guys with smaller dicks try more things and work harder than guys with big dicks, meaning that they tend to be better. Heard it from the pickup podcast from a female porn star. | /r/seduction | 29/01/11 11:55 PM |
| 1 | What Women Have to Say About GuysCarl Jung's The Shadow right here! | /r/seduction | 29/01/11 06:32 PM |
| 2 | Need help closing?utorrent or vuze. I prefer utorrent, myself. Enjoy! | /r/seduction | 26/01/11 05:49 AM |
| 1 | Need help closing?Torrents typically are. I downloaded that one with no problem, so I'll say yes. | /r/seduction | 26/01/11 05:30 AM |
| 1 | Gunwich - The Way of GunMaybe. But this is also easy to see in context of current news. | /r/seduction | 26/01/11 01:52 AM |
| 1 | At what age did you evolve from your old AFC ways? & how long had you been a member of Seddit when this happened?I began my trip out of it somewhere in the very early 2010/late 2009. Dec or Jan. I joined seddit sometime 8 months ago, so May 2010. Basically, I did all the research on my own and kept going out and experimenting with it, which took me about a month to see improvement. Kept going until I got into a LTR in late Sept. Working on LTR game currently, and I've found it a bit more complicated than Short-term, for sure. It's going well, though! | /r/seduction | 25/01/11 11:53 PM |
| 2 | Gunwich - The Way of GunAllegations are damaging things - founded or otherwise. | /r/seduction | 25/01/11 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Gunwich - The Way of GunHow are you so sure that he's a psycho? There are circumstances that can arise where shooting someone is justified, and we don't know if he's guilty or not. That being said, I should also point out that I have read absolutely nothing of his and have no stance on his case other than waiting to see the outcome of the trial. For all I know, it could be decided already. | /r/seduction | 25/01/11 11:28 PM |
| 1 | Gunwich - The Way of GunGood on you, man. Thanks for the extra material! | /r/seduction | 25/01/11 11:26 PM |
| -1 | What are some Non-Alpha things you do? And how do you explain them?Apologize Excessively. Do things to make them like you - only for that purpose. Compromise your morals and ethics to garner approval. Sit closed, and symmetrically. Constantly try to ask them questions. Seek approval. Be mean spirited. Brag. Edit: how do you mean "how do you explain them"? As in, are these beta things we do and how do we handle them or something? | /r/seduction | 25/01/11 11:24 PM |
| 1 | How do you make a girl want to continue flirting with you?She's got it! | /r/seduction | 25/01/11 11:23 PM |
| 2 | Need help closing?Here is a great place to learn it. Deangelo's Sexual Communication seminar is pretty great for it, too. | /r/seduction | 25/01/11 11:21 PM |
| 5 | How do you make a girl want to continue flirting with you?Bring up sexual topics, make double entendres (things that can be interpreted in both a sexual and non-sexual way (they'll tend to see the sexual, and you can call them perverted (aka flipping the script (fourth parenthesis level)))), and KINO. Kino is essential to build attraction, but bringing up a sexual frame is very important to allow/make them see you as a sexual being. I'd suggest building from the double entendres to the explicit sexual topics if you're friends already. If you're not, fe… | /r/seduction | 25/01/11 11:13 PM |
| 3 | If you see this - talk to her (xpost from pics)Supposing it's a moving target, hold up your hands in front of her with a stop hand signal. Make sure you have eye contact and give her about 6ft walking space. Say "hey, can you tell me where the nearest starbucks/_____ is?" then when she starts directing you you can say "Hah, I'm just joking. I just stopped to flirt with you." Or you can go more direct, using what jeffries has said (not sure how I feel about it, though) and say: I just saw you there and thought that I would regret it for the r… | /r/seduction | 25/01/11 10:54 PM |
| 2 | Advice for OKC profilewtf, they have an /r/okcupid?! | /r/seduction | 20/01/11 09:29 AM |
| 3 | For guys that got dumped: a random meme I found on the reddit front pageHah, you're like the friendly neighbor of the subreddit. ...Unless that's entirely sarcastic, then you're the pseudo friendly neighbor who siphons gas when you're not looking. | /r/seduction | 19/01/11 10:49 PM |
| 2 | From the Couch to the Bedroom: How To?Yeah, I haven't really come across too many of them. I'll keep that in mind, but it's in line with something I said a little while ago. | /r/seduction | 19/01/11 12:08 AM |
| 7 | From the Couch to the Bedroom: How To?Nice, I really like that! I've carried them to the bedroom while making out with them. Both the traditional legs on one arm, upper back on the other arm, or the less traditional frontal mount where they wrap their legs around you and help by hanging on. I've been told that this make them get even more turned on because they feel very feminine with you carrying them like that. Just be careful of where you're going so you don't fall over or put them into an open flame or something. This is also a … | /r/seduction | 18/01/11 10:01 PM |
| 2 | What Everybody Ought to Know About ChemistryGreat post. It reminds me of what durden has said before about "Being, not doing". I thoroughly like the breakdown of what you said, and it makes a lot of sense to me. Keep it up! | /r/seduction | 18/01/11 09:45 PM |
| 1 | How men and women attract each other - according to CraigslistShit, good to know. Thanks for the link! | /r/seduction | 17/01/11 01:29 AM |
| 1 | How men and women attract each other - according to CraigslistYeah I considered that, but then I wondered how often women openly write about herpes specifically, or STD's in general, when looking for a date. | /r/seduction | 16/01/11 08:49 AM |
| 1 | How men and women attract each other - according to CraigslistWhy the fuck are women using the word "herpes" so much!? | /r/seduction | 15/01/11 09:15 PM |
| 2 | "we can never do that again" how to keep her coming back.It's the same thing as grammar. As long as you understand why you're breaking the rules, then you're good. If you're breaking them and either don't know why or that you're breaking them, it's probably best to figure them out. | /r/seduction | 15/01/11 08:54 PM |
| 1 | "we can never do that again" how to keep her coming back.I hold that most people who are devoutly religious, or anyone who cannot do something simply because it's taboo, usually has some sort of fantasy about violating those rules. To me, she seems to be getting off to the idea of being a "bad girl" with the comment of "being so bad". I'm not sure how you could've stopped her from withdrawing sex, or whatnot, but I'd've suggested reinitiating and taking the lead. You said you didnt' pressure her, but I read that as you were relatively passive and lett… | /r/seduction | 15/01/11 08:52 PM |
| 1 | This comment made me wonder if Seddit is familiar with this technique.Aside from confidence, being good with children/animals is definitely a close second for women. Good observation. | /r/seduction | 15/01/11 08:40 PM |
| 1 | HB 8 problem.. picks up her cellphone in the middle of a date and starts talking, nothing i can do about it.Yeah, after discussing this a bit more, that's kind of where I've arrived a bit. | /r/seduction | 14/01/11 09:37 PM |
| 1 | HB 8 problem.. picks up her cellphone in the middle of a date and starts talking, nothing i can do about it.Yeah, reciprocation is fine. I like to play games with it and thumb wrestle them for the first round, then alternate on the second. I agree. Set your boundaries. I just like giving people the benefit of the doubt sometimes. Then again, I can't stand princesses.. so maybe not in that situation. It's hard to know how you'd act if you've never been there, you know? | /r/seduction | 14/01/11 09:36 PM |
| 1 | HB 8 problem.. picks up her cellphone in the middle of a date and starts talking, nothing i can do about it.I suppose you have a point with that.. But I'm not in favour of inaction. I'm just torn on how to think about this, as it's never actually happened to me. On the one hand, not putting up with trash is alpha, as is being assertive. But overreacting is beta, and not understanding how the system works (requiring direct verbal addressing) is also beta. I guess mulling it over in my head, I think the best is to interrupt her call and say something like "You're out with me right now, You can talk to t… | /r/seduction | 14/01/11 09:19 PM |
| 2 | HB 8 problem.. picks up her cellphone in the middle of a date and starts talking, nothing i can do about it.Well, as I said elsewhere, I never pay for a woman on a first date, and generally not until we're already dating/having sex. So, she's barking up the wrong tree at that point. I see waht you're sayign with the 5-10min conversation. I suppose I lost context of how long that is. I'd probably be getting rather irritated, and after 5 minutes of a non-conversation, I'd probably go and start flirting with another woman. She'd not get another date, at least not with me initiating at that point. But aga… | /r/seduction | 14/01/11 09:10 PM |
| 2 | HB 8 problem.. picks up her cellphone in the middle of a date and starts talking, nothing i can do about it.Damn, that's good stuff. Good mindset for sure. I forgot the general rule that you should deal with these things indirectly if at all possible, with direct verbally addressing it to be the most AFC form of it. Personal rule, I mean. | /r/seduction | 14/01/11 08:26 PM |
| 2 | Describe your biggest blowout yet!Worst thing that happened to me during pickup, at least in a one-time approach, was featured in a FR I posted like, 8 months ago. Specifically the "No Fun Zone" part of it. Which, coincidentally, is a good way to get around really bad blow outs. Sometimes you can tease them for being a stick in the mud and they may come out of it. Then again, it could turn them into a deathpool of quicksand, but no worries. Worst long term thing was this girl I thought was ridiculously hot and played it too safe… | /r/seduction | 14/01/11 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Describe your biggest blowout yet!That probably took a lot to put out there, man. Just knowing, on your part that you can't ever be that bad again is probably comforting. I can't say I've done anything that bad, but I have probably just blocked it out of my memory. | /r/seduction | 14/01/11 08:17 PM |
| 1 | What can I do if I am boring and not funny?All I can recommend is getting out there and taking every opportunity to do so. Take the initiative. Invite people to go bowling, the movies, a party at your house, pickup sports, coffee shops, paintballing, out of town, a dance class, martial arts, debate club, etc. Just get out; Start being active, stop being passive. This is how you become interesting. It's a difficult battle at first, and even now it's difficult for me without the resources to do much, but I manage. You can also do plenty of… | /r/seduction | 14/01/11 08:14 PM |
| 1 | HB 8 problem.. picks up her cellphone in the middle of a date and starts talking, nothing i can do about it.Aside from telling her you think it's rude, you could play a game of it. You could pretend to be the other end of the conversation and make her agree to overly silly things. If you are going to say it's rude, be sure not to make a huge issue of it, but that you simply think it's not polite and would appreciate her being present in more than just one sense. | /r/seduction | 14/01/11 08:05 PM |
| 11 | HB 8 problem.. picks up her cellphone in the middle of a date and starts talking, nothing i can do about it.As CuilRunnings said, this may be overreacting to such a small symptom. If you haven't pointed out that you don't like it, or that it's rude, then leaving automatically is like being a whiny kid taking his ball home because he's losing, though I can understand the desire to do so. So, I suggest you point it out to her that you find it rude, though not making a huge point of it, just that you'd appreciate her staying more than physically present. Also, as a side note I'd like to say that you shou… | /r/seduction | 14/01/11 08:03 PM |
| 7 | HB 8 problem.. picks up her cellphone in the middle of a date and starts talking, nothing i can do about it.Good observation. What do you propose as an alternative to make this comment constructive? | /r/seduction | 14/01/11 07:59 PM |
| 3 | ask: Status update that gets a lot of female attentionUpvoted for the congruent analogy | /r/seduction | 11/01/11 04:26 AM |
| 0 | ask: Status update that gets a lot of female attentionCare to elaborate more than simply redirecting? | /r/seduction | 11/01/11 04:25 AM |
| 6 | How to make women buy drinks for you?Simpler way to put it: "Ladies first!" | /r/seduction | 11/01/11 04:23 AM |
| 1 | How to respond to "is this a date?"Now this is good stuff. | /r/seduction | 11/01/11 04:22 AM |
| 2 | How to respond to "is this a date?"Exactly. If you're already on the date, just say "Why can't a guy and a girl go out and have a great time without it being a date?" or something along those lines. If you're more daring, you could always laugh in a friendly way and say "Like I'd go on a date with you! You're like my sister!" and do some nice disqualification. | /r/seduction | 11/01/11 04:22 AM |
| 1 | The Mathematics of Beauty (cross-post from xx)Being the psych person I am, I am always fascinated by their stats. Thanks for bringing this to my attention! | /r/seduction | 11/01/11 04:19 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Like a boss (F-close and a deeper understanding of pickup)Broski, right here. | /r/seduction | 10/01/11 08:20 AM |
| 4 | [FR] Like a boss (F-close and a deeper understanding of pickup)I like your bum gloves comment to the black girl, and this was overall a fun night, it would seem. One thing I have to wonder is why the brunette only rode you like a champ and not like a boss... curious. | /r/seduction | 10/01/11 08:19 AM |
| 1 | If another guy at a bar approaches me and asks me BS like "what are your hobbies" I am going to throw my drink on him.Yeah, I assumed that first, too, but I had to be sure that's what he meant.. | /r/seduction | 02/01/11 08:58 PM |
| 1 | If another guy at a bar approaches me and asks me BS like "what are your hobbies" I am going to throw my drink on him.That I am not. What would imply that I was? | /r/seduction | 02/01/11 08:57 PM |
| 2 | straight up PLAYED for a nye kiss.Yep. | /r/seduction | 02/01/11 08:49 PM |
| 2 | straight up PLAYED for a nye kiss.Interesting.. I can't say I feel the same. | /r/seduction | 02/01/11 10:29 AM |
| -8 | If another guy at a bar approaches me and asks me BS like "what are your hobbies" I am going to throw my drink on him.Implying... That her opinion is useless on seddit? Edit: Not sure why I'm being downvoted for this, but I'm challenging his assumption that her opinion is useless, not confirming it. I'm asking to clarify if that's what he's implying. | /r/seduction | 02/01/11 10:13 AM |
| 27 | If another guy at a bar approaches me and asks me BS like "what are your hobbies" I am going to throw my drink on him.Hear, Hear. With regards to that last paragraph, it's like how women will view being "picked up" as the failed pick-up attempts, while the successful ones are typically viewed as an "it just happened" sort of thing. Availability heuristic at its finest. | /r/seduction | 02/01/11 10:09 AM |
| 1 | Gather ye rosebuds while ye may..I'm terribly sorry for your loss. Death has brushed a little too close to me this holiday as well, my friend. | /r/seduction | 28/12/10 10:28 AM |
| 2 | Gather ye rosebuds while ye may..I agree. I come just to see what he says sometimes. | /r/seduction | 28/12/10 10:25 AM |
| 2 | Straight women reading seddit...why?Bingo. | /r/seduction | 27/12/10 10:00 AM |
| 2 | Want a good laugh?My god is that ever hard to read.. How does an idiot like that have a fiance? And you gotta love the part about holding it over the man's head forever, should he "screw up". Quite the piece of work. | /r/seduction | 26/12/10 03:24 AM |
| 2 | Want a good laugh?That it was so ridiculous that I found it funny. | /r/seduction | 26/12/10 03:15 AM |
| 6 | Want a good laugh?I don't mean to laugh at their efforts, but there's just so much bad information on there that it would take so much effort on our parts to help them very much. My favourite one is this | /r/seduction | 25/12/10 09:01 AM |
| 2 | Seddit 13kHardly | /r/seduction | 25/12/10 09:00 AM |
| 1 | Never apologize! But if you do, do it like this guy. (crosspost from /r/videos)Can't let this die, eh? Sure, the guys a douche and probably deserved getting water thrown on him. | /r/seduction | 22/12/10 11:19 PM |
| 1 | First date, trying to apply some theory.My only point is that sometimes no matter what your skill, you can't have chemistry with everyone if you decide to hold any level of self-respect. | /r/seduction | 21/12/10 07:19 AM |
| 1 | NEVER tell a girl you "like her"I think you're preaching to the choir when talking to throwaway about attitude. He's been around this stuff long enough to know that by now. Decent post for the new comers to read, though. I vote you take this and put it into practice (supposing you're single). Edit: and supposing you're not single, use the strategies to enhance your relationship | /r/seduction | 20/12/10 06:29 AM |
| 1 | NEVER tell a girl you "like her"I gotta say, I agree to a point. Though, this kind of post is good for the new-comers who actually are trying to get into this stuff. | /r/seduction | 20/12/10 06:27 AM |
| 1 | NEVER tell a girl you "like her"Exactly! | /r/seduction | 20/12/10 06:23 AM |
| 1 | unexpected and unwanted side effect of seductionWhat can you do right? Maybe because I was promoting the anti-pua manifesto of being unattractive. | /r/seduction | 19/12/10 09:11 AM |
| 3 | Favorite False Disqualifiers?Call a girl "Cute" and they automatically want to be thought of as sexy. It's like a disqualifier because guys dont' tend to want to sleep with cute girls, they want hot/sexy girls, or so it would appear women think about men. Another I use as an opener is "You seem like you might be [positive attribute]. Are you?" I typically use cool, fun, interesting, etc. and they inevitably say "yes". Challenge them to prove it. If they say no, laugh and say "Few, dodged a bullet there!" loudly to your frie… | /r/seduction | 18/12/10 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Is PUA only for guys who are already confident?It's about building confidence to do these things. You just have to put yourself out there and force yourself to try. Check out this link for an example of an insecure guy becoming confident. | /r/seduction | 18/12/10 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Freezing-out vs sulking examplesYou have to do it before the LMR is engaged. You verbalise what they may already be feeling, but haven't verbally stated yet. If they haven't actually said it, the feelings can change. As soon as the words leave their mouth, they'll have a much, much harder time of going back on it. This applies to pretty much anything. | /r/seduction | 18/12/10 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Freezing-out vs sulking examplesDepends on the scene. if you sense LMR coming, do the frame steal. If you already ran into LMR, do the freeze. It doesn't have to be one or the other, just do it when it fits the scenario. Be versatile. | /r/seduction | 18/12/10 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Best pickup podcastsI've been there. It sucks a lot when you get through a lot of material and really want to go out, but still don't think you should. I'm in a similar place, as I damaged my vocal cords and am not allowed to yell or drink alcohol (nor caffeine, whisper, talk excessively, smoke, etc.), so the club isn't the best place for me. Frustrating! | /r/seduction | 18/12/10 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Interesting seeing it across the pond...Not to mention, there's some decent material for openers here. I particularly liked the "Is it better to be wanted or needed?" | /r/seduction | 18/12/10 09:26 PM |
| 3 | First date, trying to apply some theory.Honestly, this girl seems like a dud. You need to realize that you're not going to have chemistry with every girl and it's neither of your fault sometimes. You did well with the things you did well, such as meeting and greeting randoms to increase your social mood and get warmed up, but it's essential that you learn kino better. I'd suggest looking up (or making up) basic palm reading ("my friend is really into palm reading and taught me the basics recently. I'm not really into it, but It can be… | /r/seduction | 18/12/10 08:51 PM |
| 0 | When the girl negs you, is that a good thing or a bad thing?It's a shit test. She's trying to see if you are who you say you are and if you can put up with her making a little fit or being a bitch. If it keeps up, I'd suggest ditching the girl and finding someone better. But no, negging doesn't really happen the other way around. Women who neg are usually actually trying to get rid of the man. You have to understand that women get to pick out of the pool that automatically approaches them, whereas men have to pick from the pool they think they can get/fi… | /r/seduction | 18/12/10 08:36 PM |
| -3 | unexpected and unwanted side effect of seductionjust demonstrate low value to no end. Complimenting her, sure, but more change your language to be somewhat pathetic. Put yourself down around her, look like you have low self esteem, then get mad at her for trying to cheer you up. Stuff like that might work.. thena gain, it could damage your relationship with your friend. On a side note, I had a similar side effect to seduction: I gained a stalker. I got into a LTR and one of the girls from this summer started sending her friends after her. Got… | /r/seduction | 18/12/10 08:20 PM |
| 2 | Is Bar game and Club game different?Yeah, you've got preselection working for you. I had something I dubbed the "preselection feedback" going on at my friend's birthday party. It was my female' friends party at a club, and i broke off occasionally to chat up girls aroudn the bar. The bar was pretty dead, as it was exam time, and I am very tall, so it was obvious that i was moving about and talking to quite a few people. One of the girls in the original party was feeling me (but had a boyfriend, and was ridiculously drunk), so I ju… | /r/seduction | 14/12/10 06:19 AM |
| 1 | two quick questions, one inspired by my odd side-effects of learning seduction.I associate the people with people i know that have similar names. If it's an uncommon name, remember what it sounds like and get them to spell it for you. If it's not foreign, but still irregular, ask them how their parents came up with it. As for presence, I'd just take more of an initiative in the conversation. Look up jokes and practice telling them (refrain from going overboard and looking like a clown), tell stories, lead the conversation. | /r/seduction | 14/12/10 03:21 AM |
| 1 | Question about kino and "rejection"The move-away on the couch is confusing a bit, but maybe you were just misinterpreting the situation and not reading your own movements well enough. The leaning against hte wall was an opening for you to kiss her, which you missed, which is why she probably seemed confused. Lingering at the door by talking or playing with their keys is usually just an opening for you to make a move. There's no reason for them to linger unless allowing you an opening. | /r/seduction | 14/12/10 03:04 AM |
| 1 | Friend-With-Benefit-Zoned, how to escalate to a relationship?As others have said, Don't be needy. Just keep doing what you're doing because FwB are doomed to three fates: -One finding someone else and the other being left in the cold, resentful -It dissolves on its own and you end up being friends once again -It matures into a relationship. If you guys are a proper fit, I'd think the 3rd would be a natural progression of where you are, but it's your call whether you want to risk for the first or 2nd. | /r/seduction | 14/12/10 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Never apologize! But if you do, do it like this guy. (crosspost from /r/videos)I'm not blaming the victim. I'm wanting context for what happened. Since he appears to be quite a jackass, I'd bet he might be somewhat deserving. Also, depends whether you define throwing water on someone as assault. | /r/seduction | 14/12/10 02:33 AM |
| 1 | Never apologize! But if you do, do it like this guy. (crosspost from /r/videos)Then this exchange was pointless, no? | /r/seduction | 14/12/10 02:31 AM |
| 2 | Is Bar game and Club game different?I have never been able to swing Bars much, as I always find the bar scene has tighter knit groups that are harder to break open. Then again, I haven't tried too much and have been meaning to in the near future. As for clubs, You just have to be sure not to lean in for them to hear you, get them to come closer to you. Try to learn body rocking if you think it'll help you (a mystery method thing), approach them and go in with the same energy they've got. Pacing and leading, pacing and leading (mee… | /r/seduction | 14/12/10 02:11 AM |
| 2 | Post one-night stand etiquetteSome poor texting game there, eh? Text her saying "Hey, let's grab that cup of coffee" if you feel like seeing up. If you don't, then don't bother contacting her. Simple as that, really. You're not asking forgiveness. If she doesn't bring it up first, then she could be cool with it to. After all, she did get sex out of the exchange as well. | /r/seduction | 14/12/10 01:45 AM |
| 2 | Post one-night stand etiquetteNext time you see her, treat her like you normally do and keep it light. No need to bring it up at this time, but you should probably invite her to coffee or something sometime. If you meet by happenstance, then she may be a bit awkward/aloof, so you'll most definitely have to make the first move. The fact that she hasn't contacted you, and that you're friends, probably implies that she was waiting for you, and may be resentful that you had sex and haven't talked to her. No matter what excuse yo… | /r/seduction | 14/12/10 01:26 AM |
| 2 | Share some of the openers you used under the 3 second rule.I've walked up and introduced myself with confidence and that's done well enough. You can also walk up and simply say "you look like you might be interesting/funny/cool/[positive attribute], Are you?" Or, as jeffries has said, challenge them "you're not adventurous are you?" either way, they'll likely say "Of course I am!" or soemthing along those lines, which you follow up "Oh yeah? Prove it!" If they say "No" reply "Phew, dodged a bullet there!" and talk to one of their friends or eject. Your … | /r/seduction | 13/12/10 10:45 PM |
| 3 | Share some of the openers you used under the 3 second rule.Indicating interest is something you want to avoid before you know anything about them... | /r/seduction | 13/12/10 10:40 PM |
| 1 | [fr] slipped and fell into a tarpit of supplication—what NOT to doI've been in this situation before, but managed to defuse it. They tried to hand me the camera and I put my hands up (like at gunpoint) and said "No way!" they said "It's probably better that you don't take it". I took that and ran with it "Oh man, you're right about that! If I took it the picture would be way too damn awesome for someone like you to handle! You'd look at that, be filled with more than you could handle, then pass out. Then where would we be? I'd have to call the ambulance, there… | /r/seduction | 13/12/10 10:35 PM |
| 5 | "Relationships are the domain of the woman" cocky concept or blunt truth?Didn't read the article, but i read one that was semi-related to the concept. In it, it mentions that some theorists believe that pairing (male-female pairing) is a female survival/defense mechanism developed to help women gain a defender from other men, and help their kids more. The latter part is obvious, but the first part is a point. The article mentions how there is a lot of something called "ambivalent sexism" where men can have a madonna-whore dichotomny when thinking about women (some ar… | /r/seduction | 13/12/10 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Never apologize! But if you do, do it like this guy. (crosspost from /r/videos)So, what are you saying? That if we list insults at women in such a way, they'll apologize to us and make us feel like big men? Or that he's supremely alpha and attractive to women because he abuses them verbally while pseudo-apologizing? | /r/seduction | 13/12/10 09:52 PM |
| 2 | Never apologize! But if you do, do it like this guy. (crosspost from /r/videos)Me, too. I found it exceptionally hard to break the habit of apologizing for such small things as people stepping on my foot. Still working on it today. | /r/seduction | 13/12/10 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Never apologize! But if you do, do it like this guy. (crosspost from /r/videos)She abused him by throwing water on him, but the question is "what did he do to deserve that?" He may have been sexually abusing her at the time. | /r/seduction | 13/12/10 09:49 PM |
| 2 | Never apologize! But if you do, do it like this guy. (crosspost from /r/videos)hyper alpha assholes, definitely. Not to mention they're on TV and he disguised his insult as an apology. She probably just didn't process it. | /r/seduction | 13/12/10 01:14 AM |
| 2 | Neil Strauss's personal appeal to the seduction communityCool story, bro | /r/seduction | 13/12/10 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Neil Strauss's personal appeal to the seduction communityI like what you're saying here. I only started getting into pickup at the start of this year, but was never really bad with women. In fact, I was great at talking to women, but terrible at closing and at the club scene. It took me a couple months, but I got a decent handle of the philosophy and saw the theoretical roots of the routines and such that people promoted. It's funny that you say that the community is becoming a situation of the blind leading the blind because I started getting sick of… | /r/seduction | 13/12/10 12:58 AM |
| -1 | Never apologize! But if you do, do it like this guy. (crosspost from /r/videos)If your working definition of "work" is to crash, burn, and get entirely rejected, then it sounds like your insults work too! | /r/seduction | 13/12/10 12:45 AM |
| -2 | Never apologize! But if you do, do it like this guy. (crosspost from /r/videos)Agreed. Waste of time. | /r/seduction | 13/12/10 12:45 AM |
| 1 | PUA has entered the Christian community. Uh...I'd consider anything not directly verbal or intended to be a form of body language. As well, did you notice what he was doing with his arms? weird arm folding and unfolding... | /r/seduction | 10/12/10 06:53 AM |
| 5 | PUA has entered the Christian community. Uh...probably has something to do with the excessive cheerfulness, his awkward body language, and his constant references to church. Yeah! I'm going to praise god and get some tail! | /r/seduction | 09/12/10 09:51 AM |
| 0 | After the second date, she tells me thisI don't like to go on dates, as they're designated as dates. I just take them out to do fun things with me that they have a hard time putting a label on. If you go on a stereotypical "date" then you're going to have a lot more barriers and hoops she tries to put up for you. Secondly, I don't pay for my date. The Women's movement happened and they don't require my money to survive anymore, therefore they can pay their own way. If we're going on a few dates, then yeah, pay for one if she paid alre… | /r/seduction | 03/12/10 12:41 AM |
| 1 | After the second date, she tells me thisPersonally, putting your tongue in her asshole is a rather disgusting act either way. As well, your statement is true at any given moment, sickness or not, though the poundage may vary. | /r/seduction | 03/12/10 12:37 AM |
| 2 | Clingy helpSuch an old timer! What if he's a college freshman? Though, it's still not a good idea either way... | /r/seduction | 02/12/10 07:17 PM |
| 1 | After the second date, she tells me thisThe question is: Are they dating? If they aren't, he should play it cool as well as seeing if she's alright. Women enjoy flirting with a capable man as much as men enjoy flirting with a hot woman. Flirting with her via text while she's feeling like shit will probably make her feel better, even if she feels gross. | /r/seduction | 02/12/10 07:15 PM |
| 0 | After the second date, she tells me thisNow, See here! Cuz I'm not typing the same thing twice. | /r/seduction | 02/12/10 07:14 PM |
| 0 | After the second date, she tells me thisyou're not her empathizing girlfriends, you're the guy she's fucking. Something a little more apt would be "That sucks. Let me know when you're up to having fun again!" or something else a little more confident and assertive. just saying "That sucks" or offering to take her out to a better restaurant is lame. Especially the taking her out to a nicer restaurant part. You could say "Let me know when you're up to hanging out and maybe I'll let you take me out again :P". Flipping hte script is gold.… | /r/seduction | 02/12/10 07:13 PM |
| 0 | After the second date, she tells me thisSame reaction as me, funny. | /r/seduction | 02/12/10 07:10 PM |
| 2 | Are you an INTJ pua? How did you become awesome?There was actually a user on here with the name "INTJPUA" for a while, though I'm not sure if he's active anymore. | /r/seduction | 02/12/10 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Small question on texting and how to deal with no responseIt's hard to tell you exactly how you can improve unless you tell us what you texted. For now, don't text back and focus on other girls. That's probably the best advice I can give you. When you get back, resume as usual. If you can't wait, text something light and fun after 2ish weeks. Here's a good site for guidelines on how to text. | /r/seduction | 02/12/10 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Small question on texting and how to deal with no responseI agree with this. | /r/seduction | 02/12/10 06:45 PM |
| 2 | Small question on texting and how to deal with no responseKeep on trollin'! | /r/seduction | 02/12/10 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Texting game, is this effective or bad?You've got a point there. Just like this rage comic I saw where the guy gets downvoted to hell for a well thought out thing and then he gives up and posts garbage only to get hundreds of points for a stupid post. The will of the masses I guess. | /r/seduction | 23/11/10 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Texting game, is this effective or bad?Yeah, both have their strengths and weaknesses. I think it's good to mix it up. Keep 'em guessing. | /r/seduction | 23/11/10 06:39 PM |
| 3 | Best way to respond to this text?Your final text in that exchange violated the general rules of texting, which are: be brief, witty, fun, emotionally stimulating, and have high response value. it was brief, it took a shot at fun, but it took a hard tumble on witty, emotion, and response value. Because of the lack of the latter 2, she wasn't going to respond as they are the more important ones. Instead of saying "Depends on how soon that is" you should've said "Alright, tell me [tomorrow] at [time] when I was planning on having … | /r/seduction | 23/11/10 11:00 AM |
| 1 | Texting game, is this effective or bad?However humorous, that wasn't very helpful, now was it Mr. Risky? | /r/seduction | 23/11/10 10:52 AM |
| 1 | Texting game, is this effective or bad?Or even "I'll be [here] at [time] doing [activity]. You know what to do" or finish the text by saying "come by for some witty conversation with an awesome guy if you think you're cool enough" | /r/seduction | 23/11/10 10:52 AM |
| 2 | Texting game, is this effective or bad?Girls are not going to be overtly negative to you. At worst, they'll throw you a bone (in the figurative sense of a dog), and talk about how nice of a guy you are to their friends, but how they're just never going to fuck you. They have no attraction for you when you show your entire hand. I actually thought that that supremely beta text was a typo by you where you were dictating your thoughts and forgot that you put the "me:" thing in front of it. I don't mean to be rude, but Chex is right. The… | /r/seduction | 23/11/10 10:50 AM |
| 3 | Billions of guys dont have any PUA knowledge, but have great women, why?I see. Carry on, since I don't feel like bothering. | /r/seduction | 23/11/10 10:44 AM |
| -3 | Billions of guys dont have any PUA knowledge, but have great women, why?Powerful, yes. Rich, no, not real attraction. Incredibly smart.. depends in what area. | /r/seduction | 23/11/10 10:42 AM |
| 0 | Billions of guys dont have any PUA knowledge, but have great women, why?You definitely don't belong here if that's the perspective you're taking. | /r/seduction | 23/11/10 10:37 AM |
| 0 | Billions of guys dont have any PUA knowledge, but have great women, why?That's part of it, for sure. | /r/seduction | 23/11/10 10:37 AM |
| 2 | Don't be afraid of showing your interestsI agree. Though, in general, Never be embarassed about anything you're truly interested in. If she tries to give you a hard time, make fun of her for not being into it, or a simple "Yeah, I like X. So what?" should suffice. | /r/seduction | 21/11/10 09:56 AM |
| 2 | Let me know if I got this right on how to attract girlsWho said anything about being polite? | /r/seduction | 20/11/10 10:33 AM |
| 1 | Is it worth it?save the silly for someone else..? | /r/seduction | 18/11/10 06:10 PM |
| 2 | Serious question, why don't white girls like my online profile?I think the data speaks for itself a bit. It's not a true experiment by any means, but the data is very interesting. Thanks for posting that, I thoroughly enjoyed it. | /r/seduction | 18/11/10 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Is it worth it?Glad to see my psych training hasn't been a waste :P | /r/seduction | 18/11/10 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Is it worth it?Hahah For sure. Acting overly familiar to strangers always creates great reactions and doesn't make people withdraw in defensive disgust! :D | /r/seduction | 18/11/10 03:44 PM |
| 0 | Is it worth it?What girl? | /r/seduction | 18/11/10 03:34 PM |
| 6 | Is it worth it?What a ridiculous question.. Of course he did! | /r/seduction | 18/11/10 03:34 PM |
| 9 | Is it worth it?Depends what measure you go by. MBTI describes extroversion as where you get your energy from. Extroverts get energized by dealing with people, while introverts get drained. Introverts recharge from solitude, whereas Extroverts feel lonely and lost. So, by that definition, no, that's not what being an extrovert means. If you go by this, both introverts and extroverts can be just as personable, but introverts just have a lower endurance for the activity. | /r/seduction | 18/11/10 03:33 PM |
| 8 | Is it worth it?I'd have to say I can definitely relate to what you're saying. I'm an extrovert, supposedly the most introverted of the extroverts according to MBTI. You have to realize that the average IQ is 100, and that the most common 2 categories of personalities, according to the same type indicator, are: Security Seeking Personalities: who are the rule followers and enforcers, seeking stability, do hard work, and like routine. These people make up 40-45% of the population. Sensation Seeking Personalities… | /r/seduction | 18/11/10 03:31 PM |
| 1 | How much is negging important? Can I get around without using it?Not being a wimp about things that you find difficult? Yes. | /r/seduction | 17/11/10 04:39 AM |
| 1 | How much is negging important? Can I get around without using it?I think it's better if he were to understand what it is and not take it overboard. It's a useful technique, and I understand it just as joking with them, rather than blatantly insulting them. | /r/seduction | 17/11/10 04:39 AM |
| 1 | I Need HelpYou know that Bill Gates is both married, and has asperger's syndrome, right? And just so you know, people with asperger's typically aren't the most socially adept and are often ill-equipped to accurately read social situations. That being said, the money alone is not enough to keep a woman, but to keep a gold digger. Ditch the traditional view of what attracts women. Edit: I realized I didn't address the rest of your question. Being a cool, laid back, and in control guy works for every guy. Tha… | /r/seduction | 16/11/10 08:39 AM |
| 1 | How much is negging important? Can I get around without using it?With that reasoning, you are disallowed even considering the option of abandoning the neg. If you're cowering away because you're afraid of screwing up and have yet to practice enough with it to get a handle on it - and that's the sole reason - then man the fuck up and neg the shit out of some women right now. That's right, whenever you read this, get the hell off your computer, find a woman, and neg her in a playful way. Continue ad infinitum until you have this down and stop asking permission … | /r/seduction | 16/11/10 08:38 AM |
| 1 | Best response when she turns down an invitation?This place is crawling with newbies. It's kind of skewing which answers float to the top and which ones don't. Same goes for posts. | /r/seduction | 16/11/10 08:36 AM |
| 2 | Best response when she turns down an invitation?That doesn't seem like a good plan to me, my man. You're doing things because you want to and you're telling her where you'll be so she can join the party if she chooses to be cool. Don't bother with meetings, they're too built up and standard AFC protocol. Out the window with it! | /r/seduction | 16/11/10 08:34 AM |
| 2 | Best response when she turns down an invitation?You brush it off. Water off a duck's back, my man. You shouldn't be phased by this one girl possibly flaking, especially since you dont' know if soemthing came up or you're actually being blown off. Either way, keep acting like you should be acting, aka nonchalant, cool, scarce, and doing what you do because you want to do it. If i were you, I just wouldn't reply back to that text of hers, and I'm not entirely sure why you decided to text the "Imma be 10 min late" text other than to confirm that… | /r/seduction | 16/11/10 08:33 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Getting ApocalypsedUp above, my friend, to the OP. And INTJPUA covered the more constructive part. Wasn't having this crap earlier today for some reason... | /r/seduction | 14/11/10 06:04 AM |
| 1 | Single mom next door...what are my optionsI agree with what Chexmix says: don't beat around the bush, say you want to get to know her (as neighbors should), and invite her over for wine. The veil of your friend getting you a bottle of wine is good. If you want, you could say that you don't have a taste for wine and wanted to know if was as good as your friend said, or that you didn't want to let it go to waste as you wouldn't finish the bottle by yourself. Tell her it'll be fun, she can bring the hor d'oeurves of her choice! | /r/seduction | 13/11/10 08:39 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Getting ApocalypsedYeah, I thought you might be sarcastic, but was just making sure :P. Definitely. Try to put yourself in the mental place of not being attached to what happens, as that seems to be how you are when drunk, eh? Keep up the good work, though! | /r/seduction | 13/11/10 08:29 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Getting ApocalypsedYou must be new, so I'll excuse such a blatantly stupid remark. | /r/seduction | 13/11/10 07:50 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Getting ApocalypsedNot everyone can be born a sex god, like me. Oh god, you're so alpha I could melt. Note: not alpha, just cocky as shit You need a girl that you can experiment with and learn about. Note: This is not a need, but it can help. If you'd rather be single, be single and experiment with different girls. Getting a fuckbuddy will be good enough, as will just doing it with many different girls. Did you have to have a solid girlfriend to learn how to kiss? No, you probably just kissed many girls and figure… | /r/seduction | 13/11/10 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Bumped into an old friend I was interested that I hadn't seen for a year +. How should I go about asking her out?It's all good man, that's what we're here for. Glad you liked my advice | /r/seduction | 09/11/10 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Have you checked the locator lately?It's unfortunate that everyone on the locator in my area either won't respond or don't have the nerve to go out.. | /r/seduction | 09/11/10 12:30 AM |
| 1 | I wanna be a nurseCan I get a prescription for that? | /r/seduction | 04/11/10 05:13 PM |
| 1 | I wanna be a nurseWhy the hell is this on seduction? Do we look like doctors or nurses here? | /r/seduction | 04/11/10 07:27 AM |
| 1 | Bumped into an old friend I was interested that I hadn't seen for a year +. How should I go about asking her out?It'll be fine either way, man. You just need to trust that it'll be fine. Just write on her wall "Hey, I'm free Friday for that coffee. What's your number?" and things'll be "Go!" if you're even semi-accurate about her reacting so positively to you. She randomly gave you a hug when you first met, I'm sure she's fine with just talking to you via text or phone. If talking to her in person, before you go, or anytime in the conversation, just say "Oh, before I forget, what's your number?" or anythin… | /r/seduction | 03/11/10 03:52 AM |
| 1 | Bumped into an old friend I was interested that I hadn't seen for a year +. How should I go about asking her out?Sounds too passive. Putting it on her wall will show her you will go for what you want and are confident (as you don't care other people seeing it), and giving her number can go either way.. I'd still recommend getting it yourself. | /r/seduction | 03/11/10 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Is it okay to give your number to a girl first, Without her asking?Call me Brad Pitt. | /r/seduction | 02/11/10 07:21 PM |
| 2 | I'm 24 years old and haven't had a girlfriend in several years, and I'm interested in playing the game again, how do I start?Your name and your age don't seem to go together very well.. | /r/seduction | 02/11/10 07:01 AM |
| 2 | Is it okay to give your number to a girl first, Without her asking?In your given situation, I wouldn't give my number to her. In a generic situation, I'm pretty sure the community has no clear answer for it. Some would say giving your number would be weak, but I'm more in favour of saying it says something about your confidence. It seems a bit more confident on your part if you give your number, and assume that she'll contact you. I've done it before and it's worked out, but there have been other times where you won't hear from them. It's your call. | /r/seduction | 02/11/10 06:49 AM |
| 2 | Bumped into an old friend I was interested that I hadn't seen for a year +. How should I go about asking her out?It's not a big deal, so you should keep this in perspective. You're just going to meet up as friends for coffee, though it's easy to take it past that level once you're actually there. I'd still recommend the facebook message, even on her wall: "Hey, I've been busy this past week, but I'm free friday at noon for that coffee." If you decide to go the chance route, when you run into her, just ask if she's got a phone. She'll say yes, and you can say "great, let me see it". Take it, put your number… | /r/seduction | 02/11/10 06:29 AM |
| 1 | Bumped into an old friend I was interested that I hadn't seen for a year +. How should I go about asking her out?Oh, I assumed you got her number when you bumped into her on campus. Send her a facebook message along those lines, or possibly a message saying "What's your number?"/"Give me your number" (which has surprisingly worked, even though it's so blunt and out of the blue). If you don't even have that, then put her on the back burner and see what else comes up until you run into her again. | /r/seduction | 02/11/10 02:38 AM |
| 1 | How do you tell if a girl is "fake" or had plastic surgery on any part of the body, or just signs indicating such?Agreed. | /r/seduction | 02/11/10 02:35 AM |
| 1 | virgins of seddit, as of last night I am no longer one of youThis is all well and good that you god lucky by having enough alcohol, aiming for a lesser attractive girl, and being in the right place at the right time.. but why is this on seduction? This should be either under /r/congratulations or /r/teenageromp. | /r/seduction | 02/11/10 02:30 AM |
| 2 | Bumped into an old friend I was interested that I hadn't seen for a year +. How should I go about asking her out?Don't ask when she's free. Say you'll be at selected coffee shop around selected hour doing selected activity and that she should join you if she wants to have a fun chat with an interesting guy. If she declines and doesn't suggest another place, say "That's too bad" and wait for another chance occurence or for her to come to you. | /r/seduction | 02/11/10 02:22 AM |
| 4 | How to get a sexy little smile on your face...Yeah, just laugh that shit off. Water off a duck's back, friends | /r/seduction | 31/10/10 12:35 AM |
| 0 | Need help coming up with a responseThen my goal has been achieved! :D | /r/seduction | 30/10/10 07:12 PM |
| 0 | Need help coming up with a responseOf course, you can always reframe things as her being bad and needing punishment. Goes down a wonderful role-play that girls have never reacted badly for me. | /r/seduction | 30/10/10 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Strike When the Iron's Hot [Quick FR/ Lesson]lol, such a stereotypical, generic response. Though, it does actually seem like it could've applied.. | /r/seduction | 29/10/10 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Hey Seddit, I have an idea to bring some good fresh content to r/seductionNoisy, eh? Lotta newbies or..? | /r/seduction | 29/10/10 07:13 PM |
| 2 | Need help coming up with a responseI suppose you've got a point. Couldn't hurt to try. As they say: be progress oriented and not outcome oriented. I'll give it a shot sometime. | /r/seduction | 29/10/10 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Thanks to /seduction, bad-attitude guy gets a date!Tyler Durden, mPUA | /r/seduction | 29/10/10 04:39 AM |
| 1 | Book on Inner Game: Intimate ConnectionsGood man! | /r/seduction | 28/10/10 11:15 PM |
| 1 | DeAngelo's "Deep Inner Game" or Durden's "The Blueprint"?I haven't seen Deep inner game, but I highly recommend "The Blueprint". To me, it feels like Durden has more cred than Deangelo. | /r/seduction | 28/10/10 11:00 PM |
| 1 | When making eye contact with a female in public...Hold eye contact, smile, and say "Hi". then ask them a question or make an observation about something. You could also say "Hey, come here for a second" and they'll likely do it. I did this at the bar just for shits and giggles with an HB8: "hey, come here for a second! Purple or Red?" "Purple?" "Oh, ew. Nevermind, you can keep going" I'm not sure of the effect, but I thought it was funny. | /r/seduction | 28/10/10 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Thanks to /seduction, bad-attitude guy gets a date!Oh, wow. I thought it was a stupid question, but what I thought you actually meant turned out to be wrong.. I presume you've never heard of the RL Durden? | /r/seduction | 28/10/10 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Picking up girls in the school environment vs real world.to expand what you said: I'd recommend what Deangelo says and do the date-within-a-date thing where you take them from the venue you meet at to another venue. This way, you arrive together and you are in the same group, psychologically. Her defenses are down and you should be on better footing. | /r/seduction | 28/10/10 10:45 PM |
| -1 | Asking a girl to hang out - I broke it off - did I do it right?What a cunt! How do you know this chick? You shouldn't give away your precious, uber-valuable time away to such peasants, and you definitely should never consider even offering them it. If you have time to do something, you say "Meet me HERE and THIS TIME!" "Why?" "Bitch! Show up and have the best time of your life or don't!" "huh? what's going on?" No Response like a boss | /r/seduction | 28/10/10 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Thanks to /seduction, bad-attitude guy gets a date!Wait, what? Tyler Durden as in Owen something, or Tyler Durden as in fight club? | /r/seduction | 28/10/10 10:39 PM |
| 1 | Mystery Method infield video: People often make fun of MM, but from this video of it being done correctly, I can imagine it's massively effectiveBut I think his point is that Mystery has confidence built on success. Your friends have little confidence built on failure. | /r/seduction | 28/10/10 10:39 PM |
| 1 | Mystery Method infield video: People often make fun of MM, but from this video of it being done correctly, I can imagine it's massively effectivesounds like "Magic Bullets" | /r/seduction | 28/10/10 10:37 PM |
| 1 | reading listHmmm I forgot about Sperm wars.. | /r/seduction | 28/10/10 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Thanks to /seduction, bad-attitude guy gets a date!hahah, Good. Keep up the good work | /r/seduction | 28/10/10 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Finished "The Game" last night...Your next assigned reading: Blueprint Decoded Note: not reading. | /r/seduction | 28/10/10 10:35 PM |
| 4 | Need help coming up with a responseDon't do this either. Just get a good wing and go out. I can't see any girl agreeing to this and not thinking it's weird. I mean, it could work in theory, but I wouldn't suggest it. | /r/seduction | 28/10/10 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Need help coming up with a responseDo not do this. You will not pick up some losers leftovers. She lost her chance and you need to punish her, at least mildly, until she comes to her senses that you're badass. | /r/seduction | 28/10/10 10:31 PM |
| 3 | Need help coming up with a response1: Don't ask, tell that she should if she wants to have a good time. You're going to do things anyway, and you're a fun time. 2: ignore her. Don't respond at all and move on. Keep flirting with her in person and build attraction, but talk about other girls you're seeing, etc. Two can play the "seeing other people" game. But, make no mistake, you're seeing other people and she's not a primary, so it has the double function. | /r/seduction | 28/10/10 10:31 PM |
| 4 | Thanks to /seduction, bad-attitude guy gets a date!There have definitely been guys with worse attitudes on here other than you. You just needed a tiny bit of guidance with how to make plans, it seemed. btw, shades inside are a nono. Boo popped collars, also. Makes me think of new haircut type guys. | /r/seduction | 28/10/10 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Hey Seddit, I have an idea to bring some good fresh content to r/seductionAgreed. Even better idea! | /r/seduction | 28/10/10 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Hey Seddit, I have an idea to bring some good fresh content to r/seductionI'm afraid of becoming a keyboard jockey because of getting into a LTR within the past month or so. I am still learning, so I want to get out there and start gaming again as a wing, etc. But the seddit locator seems to fail for the waterloo area, as I'd like to see other people in action who know waht they're doing/the theory. TBH, I'm an extrovert who was never bad with girls, but I had never really been familiar with the club scene or the logistics of approaching randoms that easily. At a part… | /r/seduction | 28/10/10 10:06 PM |
| 2 | [Field Report] Where did I go wrong?To further that last paragraph, it can be fun(ny) to use a point system. "what? you went to the moon? well.. I suppose you might have earned 5 cool points, but don't let that get to your head! You started in the negatives" It's funny, but you can condition them (as in operant/classical conditioning) with this made-up currency system. | /r/seduction | 28/10/10 10:02 PM |
| 2 | [Field Report] Where did I go wrong?Situation 1: by no means am I a dance floor master (as this is my weakest area for approaching, I feel), but as many people said: It's not a place for conversation. It's a physical place, you speak with your body more than your words, and only few words if you have to. Speak through expressions and joking movements, etc. Assuming you didn't just try that on the dance floor, it just seems like you're not really engaging her and are more talking about your friend. It seems like a middle game sort … | /r/seduction | 28/10/10 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Hey Seddit, I have an idea to bring some good fresh content to r/seductionWhy the median? What does that even mean in this context? If anything, You'd think the mean per month for the past year, or the total in the past year.. and even that wouldn't be objective because the really successful guys would have a huge number that they don't keep track of. And what of the guys who were really good, but have moved into a LTR? | /r/seduction | 28/10/10 09:19 PM |
| 3 | Hey Seddit, I have an idea to bring some good fresh content to r/seductioni think you're being overly pessimistic and shooting it down before it starts. It doesn't cost most of us anything, and those it does cost something would simply be time. I say we let it fly and see how it goes. | /r/seduction | 28/10/10 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Hey Seddit, I have an idea to bring some good fresh content to r/seductionHaven't seen you around too much lately, where you been? But yeah, I'd like to hear what you'd have to say | /r/seduction | 28/10/10 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Hey Seddit, I have an idea to bring some good fresh content to r/seductionMakes sense. Also, lay rates can be skewed due to how choosy a guy is and whether he just goes for lower value women. I think lay count is a ridiculous measure, overall, because of that. The karma makes sense, but how are we to check the top comment karma of the 30ish guys that constantly talk, then compare all their karma's, and make sure it's all specific to seddit. Seems like a lot of work. Are the keyboard jockeys that obvious..? | /r/seduction | 28/10/10 09:14 PM |
| 2 | Is alcohol a big factor in seduction?"This, is not a sentence" is not a proper sentence. | /r/seduction | 27/10/10 04:21 AM |
| 1 | To all guys who complain about shallowness of women...You believe this, do you? Have you ever done it and seen a difference? | /r/seduction | 27/10/10 02:08 AM |
| 1 | To all guys who complain about shallowness of women...Ever heard of something called confidence? You can act and carry yourself with more confidence due solely to the fact that you believe you look good. The question is where your confidence comes from: within, or an external crutch? | /r/seduction | 26/10/10 10:47 PM |
| 1 | To all guys who complain about shallowness of women...Nice guys don't generally get laid. Depends on your def'n of "nice guy", though. | /r/seduction | 26/10/10 10:46 PM |
| 1 | What's the Seddit consensus on going after girls with boyfriends?I agree with what you're saying, but I've always had a line of thought that I have been toying with: Is it possible for someone to have enough game that they can sleep with most women? I've come to the conclusion that in-the-moment emotions beat long-term emotions (i.e. feelings towards a boyfriend), which beat logic. You don't logic a woman into having sex with you, nor do you get her to love you and then fuck you. You get her to be attracted to you (in-the-moment) and then have sex with her. I… | /r/seduction | 26/10/10 10:30 PM |
| 1 | What's the Seddit consensus on going after girls with boyfriends?lol! How is going to a club, picking up a hot chick, and having wild sex with her automatically considered to be validation? Not sure if you're aware of this, but men enjoy having sex, and new partners can be a lot of fun. You should try it sometime! :D | /r/seduction | 26/10/10 10:24 PM |
| 3 | [Mini-FR] Failed the shit test -> Lesson learnedI vote you either cancel the plans citing that you're too busy, or when she contacts you after the fact and is like "sorry for not cancelling!" or w/e, play it off like you forgot you even had plans. This, of course, runs a risk of looking like you're fronting. Overall, push this out of mind. She's just one of billions of chicks that currently shouldn't have any influence over how good you feel. Find more options and see if she comes around and stops with the shit. | /r/seduction | 26/10/10 10:21 PM |
| 1 | What in the name of Seddit is this, "shit test," all about?I think any science it's boiled down to mainly opinion about what's true and false, if it's controversial. Psych is a lot more of a hard science than people give it credit for. | /r/seduction | 26/10/10 10:07 PM |
| 1 | What in the name of Seddit is this, "shit test," all about?the way you're speaking, it's like evolutionary psychology is one thing, and not an entire field of research and application. As a whole, evolutionary psychology is still going. As well, most people aren't aware of why they do things - not just women. | /r/seduction | 26/10/10 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Hired Gun gameis it, now.. | /r/seduction | 26/10/10 09:53 PM |
| 10 | Is this in anyway salvageable?Act casual; Don't even address the time-lag. If she decides to point it out, say that you had been really busy with some things that recently cleared up. Laugh about how eccentric your mom can be, and show yourself to be socially competent. Then just take it away with all the other good stuff. I do agree with AngryAcronym in that you should also see other girls and not worry too much about this, but I still think it'd be worth a shot to see if you COULD salvage it if given a try. Never say die. | /r/seduction | 26/10/10 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, this pisses men off.Same principles apply, my friend | /r/seduction | 26/10/10 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, this pisses men off.exactly. Not to mention the fact that they're openly manipulative about it and it's accepted. "We're only going on our second date; should I sleep with him or do you think it's too early? I don't want to scare him off by being too easy" etc. is basically the same sort of conversation from the female angle. | /r/seduction | 26/10/10 04:08 PM |
| 2 | THIS is why the community is VITAL to menI totally agree with both of you! //Entirely sarcastic about that. | /r/seduction | 25/10/10 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Well, I gave this a try. Now let's talk about why it's a waste of time. [HB/SARGE/ASD]I would like to see that. But I see waht you're saying with that, as openers are getting ruined.. most of hte stuff I use isn't canned, so it's not much of a problem. Just general approaches, right? Like cocky funny, push-pull, shock and awe, texting game etc. Been looking more for those, myself, as they're more generally applicable. | /r/seduction | 25/10/10 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Dropping the EgoIndeed. I actually wrote a post about that.. sort of. I suppose I just more posted a good video that explains it. | /r/seduction | 25/10/10 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Dropping the EgoBragging would be, as z-bag said, tellling people that you are good at something(s) without being asked about it. Being modest, you could subtly drop a conversational hook (something that makes them want to know more and ask about it (e.g. "I was in the airport and these men detained me. Needless to say, I had to catch a later flight")), or not mentioning it. I'd recommend asking people what they know about something and hope they ask your opinion, or say what you think about the subject once th… | /r/seduction | 25/10/10 06:51 AM |
| 2 | Dropping the EgoIf not average. Everyone judges their ability as "above average" at most things. | /r/seduction | 25/10/10 06:48 AM |
| 1 | Well, I gave this a try. Now let's talk about why it's a waste of time. [HB/SARGE/ASD]I guess they took the "If you can't beat 'em, join 'em" approach. Good for sticking to it despite the doubters! | /r/seduction | 25/10/10 06:40 AM |
| 1 | Well, I gave this a try. Now let's talk about why it's a waste of time. [HB/SARGE/ASD]I'm not sure how you mean we're making it harder on ourselves, as the dissenters usually dismiss this as BS for losers who get easy chicks. Girls who read this will disregard us and think it's BS, then fall for the theories when applied to them. The worst I can see is guys acting like Tyler Durden was depicted in "The Game". Though, they'd actually have to know the stuff decent enough to really do much damage. But, I do see what you mean. The garbage gets upvoted, the good posts get either ignor… | /r/seduction | 25/10/10 06:40 AM |
| 1 | Well, I gave this a try. Now let's talk about why it's a waste of time. [HB/SARGE/ASD]How long have you been lurking seddit and looking into Pick up? | /r/seduction | 25/10/10 03:26 AM |
| 2 | Well, I gave this a try. Now let's talk about why it's a waste of time. [HB/SARGE/ASD]It's a self-reference post, so the karma would be useless, wouldn't it? | /r/seduction | 25/10/10 03:25 AM |
| 3 | Well, I gave this a try. Now let's talk about why it's a waste of time. [HB/SARGE/ASD]He sounds like he could be a natural due to the fact that he thinks those simple sentences will help the most introverted of us. | /r/seduction | 25/10/10 03:23 AM |
| 2 | Well, I gave this a try. Now let's talk about why it's a waste of time. [HB/SARGE/ASD]That is a good point. Sometimes I really wonder why the fuck some threads are so popular.. as I mention here, and the ones that are negative. Your explanation makes more sense than my old one, which was that people just enjoyed the verbal sparring of going against a dissenter. Dale Carnegie is damn good material in general, but if you listen to him entirely, you'll fall into the category of "Nice Guy", aka wimp AFC. I use Carnegie with guys, mostly.. or in professional/friend settings. It's good… | /r/seduction | 25/10/10 03:23 AM |
| 2 | Well, I gave this a try. Now let's talk about why it's a waste of time. [HB/SARGE/ASD]I'm curious as to when I appeared on the scene in that time-line. Yeah, It definitely is about learning how to be a more assertive, desirable version of yourself. I think it's ironic that when I first started getting into this and talked about it with random non-PUA people, they always pointed out that I was being fake or contrived.. which maybe I was at the beginning. But, as time goes on, you become more capable of being who you actually are, without limitations. If you find a private forum th… | /r/seduction | 25/10/10 03:19 AM |
| 3 | Field report and how about this line...is it a boyfriend killer or an attraction killer?It would seem your very long post has scared off the would-be repliers. I'd recommend a TL;DR. Anyway, to address your question, I think that the first one is better. I may be mistaken with this, but I think it leave you coming out smelling fresher because you're showing that you have the ability to take what you want, but have the moral fiber to not take what you feel isn't right to take. Then again, with an HB9+, showing that you'll take what you want regardless of scenario could work, too... … | /r/seduction | 25/10/10 03:11 AM |
| 2 | Well, I gave this a try. Now let's talk about why it's a waste of time. [HB/SARGE/ASD]I've never heard of that phrase, actually. When did this critical mass get reached, and what do you think it implies? ....man that feels like some sort of essay question. | /r/seduction | 25/10/10 02:58 AM |
| 2 | Well, I gave this a try. Now let's talk about why it's a waste of time. [HB/SARGE/ASD]Exactly. Like how we teach people to never apologize at first so that they can get in control when to apologize for when they actually should (being Canadian, I've always had such a huge problem with apologizing when I shouldn't) Also, I'd like to point out that not everyone here is introverted - me being one of the non-intros (though, according to the MBTI, I'm the most introverted of the extroverts (ENFP)) | /r/seduction | 25/10/10 02:56 AM |
| 0 | Well, I gave this a try. Now let's talk about why it's a waste of time. [HB/SARGE/ASD]It's still helping people, but there are constantly waves of new people coming in and asking the same old questions. We should figure out the stereotype beginner questions and have generic answers in the side bar.. then again, we might already with the intro to seddit that I never actually looked at.. | /r/seduction | 25/10/10 02:54 AM |
| 5 | Well, I gave this a try. Now let's talk about why it's a waste of time. [HB/SARGE/ASD]Not to mention the two posts I see so much and am extremely tired of: This stuff works! Here's some basic inner-game that has been posted countless times before! (aka gimme upvotes!) | /r/seduction | 25/10/10 02:51 AM |
| 2 | Well, I gave this a try. Now let's talk about why it's a waste of time. [HB/SARGE/ASD]Somehow, it never clued in to me that there were many more lurkers than there were contributors to this subreddit.. | /r/seduction | 25/10/10 02:49 AM |
| 12 | Well, I gave this a try. Now let's talk about why it's a waste of time. [HB/SARGE/ASD]The thing about wisdom is it is lost on those who do not already understand it. See Plato's Allegory of the Cave. As Einstein said, "I never teach my pupils; I only provide the conditions for them to learn". If we blankly state these things, people will either reject what we say out of hand (as it sounds like some new-age BS), or take away some bastardized version of it. As some people have said on here, pay attention to the more interesting cases, and learn from the newbie posts if you're still… | /r/seduction | 25/10/10 02:47 AM |
| 2 | Is alcohol a big factor in seduction?This. | /r/seduction | 25/10/10 02:37 AM |
| 3 | Strong connection on OKC, she finds someone else. What would you do?Brush it off like water off a duck's back. | /r/seduction | 24/10/10 11:12 PM |
| 2 | Is alcohol a big factor in seduction?I'd say that if you need alcohol in the equation, you haven't done your homework enough. I personally try to go for the sober ones and rarely have any alcohol in me when I go out. I find liquor just slows my ability to think and react, so it just makes me feel off. But to focus for women, I think the community in general thinks that you shouldn't do anything with a girl who is drunk that they haven't done already when she was sober. It only leads to resentment and buyers remorse. | /r/seduction | 24/10/10 11:09 PM |
| 9 | Is it creepy to add her on facebook?Don't add her. Don't get any information about contacting a girl from any source, but the girl themselves. Anything else will set off their stalker sensors. | /r/seduction | 24/10/10 11:03 PM |
| 4 | How to respond to girls who suggest 'group' activities?Don't listen to her. Listen to INTJPUA | /r/seduction | 23/10/10 07:51 PM |
| 4 | How to respond to girls who suggest 'group' activities?A general rule of thumb I've learned in my years of studying psychology is that you can't really accept what people say. Whether you're asking them why they did something, or what they like.. chances are they're not entirely right Example: say you hypnotize someone to turn off a light switch from a cue, and for them to forget being hypnotized. Once they're out of hypnosis and they see the cue, they'll shut off the lights. Ask them why they shut off the lights and they'll give you some reason tha… | /r/seduction | 23/10/10 07:48 PM |
| 3 | Drinks? Later? It worked.You seem to have misunderstood; He beat me to spiking the punch. | /r/seduction | 22/10/10 06:30 PM |
| 2 | Drinks? Later? It worked.I was about to suggest this, but you beat me to the punch | /r/seduction | 22/10/10 05:53 AM |
| 1 | Best txts to send women... Bring them Reddit...Glad to hear it! | /r/seduction | 22/10/10 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Clubs, oh how I hate you.Go caveman on them! | /r/seduction | 21/10/10 07:25 AM |
| 2 | Clubs, oh how I hate you.Chocolate pudding, to be precise | /r/seduction | 21/10/10 07:24 AM |
| 1 | Chemistry?You're in the beginning throws of oneitis and you need to shatter that before you end up wasting more time on this girl. Learn the escalation ladder, then practice it. She probably gave you further dates to see if you'd man up in the end, and because common practice would say so. She seemed to be going off of the BS tv/movie advice of keeping things together til date # ____. You could've easily busted through her defenses, as they simply could've just been ASD. Seems you're new to this, so I'd s… | /r/seduction | 15/10/10 07:27 AM |
| 1 | Chemistry?Agreed. | /r/seduction | 15/10/10 07:25 AM |
| 2 | Online dating...You've got me there! ..I really need to pay more attention to people's names on here.. | /r/seduction | 15/10/10 07:22 AM |
| 3 | Online dating...Your use of caps certainly helped your point. | /r/seduction | 15/10/10 06:45 AM |
| 1 | Want to change your lifestyle? Start small.Yeah, that definitely makes sense. I've seen studies on people thinking about eating a healthy meal, and making them less likely to exercise and more likely to eat junk food, ironically. Just thinking about something makes it feel somewhat real. | /r/seduction | 14/10/10 03:34 AM |
| 5 | Want to change your lifestyle? Start small.Another powerful psychological technique to sticking to your plans: Write it down, and sign it. Writing it down makes it concrete, signing it makes it verifiable that it's your goal. To further it, you could make it public knowledge with your name signed, but in this realm of improvement, that may be detrimental... Unless you frame it in a way where it sounds all PC for everyone (such as "Phil is going to meet a new person everyday this week!", or "Ralph is going to go to the gym and dress bette… | /r/seduction | 13/10/10 09:36 PM |
| 2 | What is seddit's policy on paying for drinks?Don't do it because she asks. Do it because you wants to do it and you feel she deserves it. ...though I suppose that's better than doing it because she told you to do it. | /r/seduction | 13/10/10 09:33 PM |
| 0 | What is seddit's policy on paying for drinks?is that related to gengar? Nevar? | /r/seduction | 13/10/10 08:17 PM |
| 2 | What is seddit's policy on paying for drinks?maybe to the gold diggers.. | /r/seduction | 13/10/10 08:07 PM |
| 7 | Best txts to send women... Bring them Reddit...One I heard somewhere: "Hey! Aliens are coming to abduct all the attractive people! Don't worry, you're safe. I'm just texting to say goodbye" | /r/seduction | 13/10/10 07:01 PM |
| 2 | Seddit, the locator sucks. Can we have a subreddit for finding other sedditors?Do it! | /r/seduction | 11/10/10 09:03 PM |
| -8 | Tales Of Mere Existence: Online Dating and the AFCaka you, OP | /r/seduction | 11/10/10 07:45 AM |
| -1 | Tales Of Mere Existence: Online Dating and the AFCWhy is this posted under seduction? It has very little to do with pickup other than what many of the former AFC-turned-aspiring-PUAs can probably relate to. | /r/seduction | 11/10/10 07:13 AM |
| 3 | "We should hang out sometime." Now what?I agree. To further it, set a time that's good for you and see if it's ok for them. This shows assertiveness and decisiveness. If they can't make then, they will make an alternate suggestion, or they won't. If they don't, they're not interested, do not go chasing them. | /r/seduction | 07/10/10 06:06 PM |
| 1 | "We should hang out sometime." Now what?Be aware not to go overboard with this, though. Just go and get coffee, don't pay for her, don't go overboard love-boatey kind of cheesy shit. Just keep it plain, everyday. You're doing it anyway; you're going to have a fun time regardless. All you're doing is inviting her along for the ride that is your life. | /r/seduction | 07/10/10 06:05 PM |
| 1 | So, what do you say after "Hi"?Definition Pwnd! | /r/seduction | 07/10/10 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else feel like this?Wait a second, how did I get sucked into this? I never said avoid the material that the game is based off of. I still want to hear some of those RJ stories... You have a point with him being only for advanced people, though. | /r/seduction | 06/10/10 05:08 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else feel like this?TD doesn't just use their material.. in fact, I've never seen him follow the same material at all. Then again, I've only seen his Blueprint DVDs. Jeffries has a lot of advanced stuff that is very useful.. and I'm not sure what you think makes him a sick asshole, but I'd be interested to hear. Deangelo does make it main stream, but his interviews with dating gurus is useful, and he stream lines stuff so that you don't have to dredge through everything else sometimes. It's all got its place. | /r/seduction | 05/10/10 05:17 PM |
| 1 | facepalmInteresting.. I'd like to hear your story one day. | /r/seduction | 05/10/10 05:31 AM |
| 1 | Is this creepy?Like say "I see you're busy, so I just wanted to say _______" or "I've only got a minute, so I thought I'd say hello", etc. Just google false time constraints. Mystery, and Ross Jeffries are the two I've seen do it. It's basically letting them know that you're not going to hang around long, in case things go bad. | /r/seduction | 05/10/10 04:46 AM |
| 1 | facepalmYeah, I've already had some moments like that and I'm only 22. How old are you, if you don't mind me asking? | /r/seduction | 05/10/10 04:43 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else feel like this?I guess. I don't think there's a right or a wrong in this situation, but meme's in the PUA community would probably get old fast. | /r/seduction | 05/10/10 04:42 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else feel like this?You can use it if you want, but it's mostly just a bag of fall-back tricks. Use your discretion, obviously. And wow, you almost lost me by referring to Mystery as Erik. | /r/seduction | 05/10/10 04:37 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else feel like this?It may be at first, but it gets easier. I highly recommend throwing yourself into the club scene, though. I used to hate it and avoid it, but now I'm much more comfortable there and can just go to have a good time if I choose. One thing you'll realize while you're there: Most people don't really want to be there. Just take a look around and most people are looking around like they want to leave or are uncomfortable. So, if you're comfortable, you've got that leg up. | /r/seduction | 04/10/10 11:55 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else feel like this?For me, Tyler Durden's Blueprint Decoded helped a lot. The stuff by Deangelo is good because he says you should be on at all times and not just limit being alpha/awesome to the club scene. Ross Jeffries has a youtube account with some useful stuff, and he's all about daytime/non-club scene. Most of the stuff, in general, is geared towards the club, but it's mostly transferable with some minor tweaks. | /r/seduction | 04/10/10 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Is this creepy?I think you could pull it off if you do it casually and confidently enough. Be aware, however, that pulling off day game usually requires a false time constraint. If you don't let the girl know that you're not trapping her, she'll act like an animal backed into a corner and be creeped the hell out. Learned that lesson the awkward way. | /r/seduction | 04/10/10 09:05 PM |
| 1 | facepalmyeah, I don't get why he's putting facepalm on this. I didn't realize you've been at this for so long. How long have you been into the PU community? | /r/seduction | 04/10/10 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else feel like this?Definitely agree with this. It's an introduction. Upvoted. | /r/seduction | 04/10/10 08:40 PM |
| 4 | Anyone else feel like this?Don't stop at the game. Continue into Deangelo, Jeffries, and Tyler Durden. | /r/seduction | 04/10/10 08:40 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else feel like this?Most people, maybe.. But "The Game" is for beginners and is really rudimentary/juvenile pickup. It's a performance; it's not an interaction. That's not to say it isn't effective, however.. It's just not my cup of tea. Edit: Also, the working definition of "Art" and "artist" are both incredibly malleable. If I'm into pickup and I'm an artist in another area, could one call me a pickup artist? :P | /r/seduction | 04/10/10 08:39 PM |
| 3 | Anyone else feel like this?aahahaha Don't worry about him, he's just a grump | /r/seduction | 04/10/10 08:37 PM |
| 1 | How to get to the friend zone?Do not talk about it. Just let it ride. Talking about these things is AFC and gives them the ability to be like "wtf, I'm not into you!" etc. Just deal with them platonically, talk about the women you're actually interested in, talk about non-sexual things, such as bowling. If you hang out, bring other friends with you, including women. | /r/seduction | 04/10/10 05:45 PM |
| 1 | How to get to the friend zone?Then they will still get disappointed AND get him a bad rep with their friends. Doesn't sound like a real solution to me. | /r/seduction | 04/10/10 05:43 PM |
| 1 | fPUA?Is there any particular area you'd want to be expanded upon? Like, daytime pickup, club pickup, etc.? | /r/seduction | 02/10/10 03:26 AM |
| 0 | fPUA?What? I'm saying that you should ask PUA's how it works because they'll probably have better insight into the whole process and be more understanding about things than your average girl or guy. Something I thought about recently is that girls are just as manipulative as PUA's when it comes to playing the game, they just always have done it. For instance, it's not seen as hugely manipulative and wrong when one girl asks another how long she should wait to call a guy, or how long to wait to have s… | /r/seduction | 01/10/10 09:50 PM |
| 2 | fPUA?I don't think the question is all that relevant. As I said here, I think it's more important whether they're a PUA of sorts, or a natural. That being said, I agree with what im_a_walrus_B said. | /r/seduction | 01/10/10 08:22 PM |
| 2 | fPUA?There's a big difference between asking women what they want and PUA's. Women typically have an intrinsic understanding about the system, whereas PUA's have a somewhat in-depth understanding of the system through breaking it down. My point is that asking women what they like/react to is like acting a natural how he does something; Neither of them understands, they just act. | /r/seduction | 01/10/10 08:20 PM |
| 3 | How NOT to text a girlMy god, that is painful to read. This site has some pretty good advice on the topic. | /r/seduction | 01/10/10 05:16 AM |
| 1 | Ok, so... How the heck do you play the game in an ongoing long-term relationship?? Any pointers hugely appreciated...I agree that that sort of thing is dickish. Sometimes you should playfully say you're not holding her stuff, other times you could just be nice and do it. I disagree, however, that the entire PUA approach should be jettisoned. You should always keep the more positive aspects alive and thriving. | /r/seduction | 01/10/10 01:59 AM |
| 3 | RooshV paints a bleak picture of the future of GameRooshV and Roissy both seem to be in the same vein of extremeness. Reading their stuff sometimes feels like a weird variant of Rush or O'brien. From what I've read, it's partially useful, but takes the asshole game waay too far. I'm not sure what their long-term game is because it's like they plan to constantly be fucking random women forever and that'd be that. If that was the case, it seems like they're going to spend excessive energy, indefinitely, and be disliked by many. | /r/seduction | 01/10/10 01:39 AM |
| 7 | RooshV paints a bleak picture of the future of GameThis seems like garbage. There will always be dooms-dayists around, and Rooshv seems to have jumped on the bandwagon. Times will change, yes, but I don't think things will radically go this down hill. The game has changed only modestly in the past few millenia and it won't go so radically different again. There are still social pressures keeping women from being "sluts" etc. | /r/seduction | 30/09/10 09:03 PM |
| 11 | Ok, so... How the heck do you play the game in an ongoing long-term relationship?? Any pointers hugely appreciated...Random reinforcement FTW. | /r/seduction | 30/09/10 06:39 PM |
| 6 | Ok, so... How the heck do you play the game in an ongoing long-term relationship?? Any pointers hugely appreciated...Note: Keep at your discretion as the relationship matures. It's ok to do small breaks in alphaness at times, but only if you maintain a solid, general front of alpha. Do not follow her around like a lost dog; Keep the reigns of control firmly in your grip. Use sex to control her, instead of the converse. Let her know you're busy when you are, etc. etc. It's a really precarious game. | /r/seduction | 30/09/10 06:19 PM |
| 1 | Top PUA Gurus embarrass themselves on live TV | Are you paying money or learning stuff from these guys?Downvote. These are not top PUA Gurus. I have no idea who most of these guys are. This taught us nothing. | /r/seduction | 29/09/10 07:26 PM |
| 1 | "Nope" instead of a kissI thought this and alexryane's comments were the best | /r/seduction | 29/09/10 05:08 AM |
| 8 | From hot to cold, what did I do wrong?I text her a few days later and we have a good conversation. Do not have full-out conversations via text. Short, witty, charged communication is optimal. ask if she would like to join Do not ask if she wants to join. Frame it so that it's the best thing ever, you're doing it anyway. She can stay home and be a loser if she chooses, but those are the only two options. After the hug and the blow-off, I would've ignored her and waited for her to come to me. At the very least, waited a few days and s… | /r/seduction | 27/09/10 06:47 PM |
| 3 | Gentlemen, I present to you Seddit's Weekly Challenge #1I really love this thread's idea. Why didn't we think of this sooner?! | /r/seduction | 27/09/10 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Gentlemen, I present to you Seddit's Weekly Challenge #1Why not try for all levels? You have all week! | /r/seduction | 27/09/10 05:17 PM |
| 1 | We all know guys like this. Way too true to be funny!I know some of both. Wouldn't this be funny because it's true? not.. the other way around..? | /r/seduction | 26/09/10 08:18 PM |
| 7 | Don't be this guyoh man, now you definitely need to write a field report on that! Those are the best to read! :P | /r/seduction | 26/09/10 08:05 PM |
| 3 | Don't be this guyhahah Yeah, I get it. I was kidding | /r/seduction | 26/09/10 07:41 PM |
| 1 | r/seduction, I can get a girl into my bedroom, but then I totally freeze up. I need some advice.The last 5 or so files in this set are particularly helpful for escalation. | /r/seduction | 26/09/10 07:32 PM |
| 0 | Don't be this guyaahahah, insecure much? :P edit: btw, i'm going to read your FR now edit 2: Nm, your field report must've been on a different account. Or you really are a troll of some sort.. | /r/seduction | 26/09/10 07:27 PM |
| 2 | Don't be this guywait.. so trying hard is a bad thing?! | /r/seduction | 26/09/10 07:27 PM |
| 1 | 80% of Pickup, EncapsulatedI used a meme?? :O | /r/seduction | 26/09/10 06:49 PM |
| 2 | Rate these online openers and guess how they wentAgreed. | /r/seduction | 25/09/10 10:09 PM |
| 7 | Rate these online openers and guess how they wentI agree with all but #4 | /r/seduction | 25/09/10 10:09 PM |
| 1 | I cannot attract a woman, which makes me feel bad about myself, which makes me even more unattractive. How am I supposed to stop feeling bad about myself, and gain self-confidence?It's perfectly acceptable to decide your own worth, mate. Others will try to define what you're worth, but so long as you reject it and hold the frame that you're valuable, everything generally works out. You'll notice people pay more attention to you when you walk up straight, etc. and all that's associated with thinking you're valuable. Carry yourself like you're capable of making anybody - especially women - feel good, and you will be more capable of it. The reason your analogies fail is that… | /r/seduction | 25/09/10 05:11 PM |
| 1 | I cannot attract a woman, which makes me feel bad about myself, which makes me even more unattractive. How am I supposed to stop feeling bad about myself, and gain self-confidence?For point three: your external state will reflect your internal state, and vice versa. You can't directly control your internal state, but consciously changing your external state to that of the body language of someone who's happy will influence your internal. That's what reading body language is all about, really. Their physical orientation reflects how they're feeling. | /r/seduction | 25/09/10 05:05 PM |
| 1 | I cannot attract a woman, which makes me feel bad about myself, which makes me even more unattractive. How am I supposed to stop feeling bad about myself, and gain self-confidence?This stems further than attracting women, my friend. Have you ever heard the phrase: happiness is not having what you want, but wanting what you have? It's quite true, but that's not to say you should give up on women and be satisfied with what you clearly are not satisfied with. The problem here is that you need to be happy with who you are and satisfied with who you are before women will give you the time of day. Pickup is all geared towards people in your situation, so you should make the bes… | /r/seduction | 25/09/10 05:03 PM |
| 1 | 80% of Pickup, Encapsulatedlol. I saw the first post, but I never bothered to look at it because it seemed like there'd be way too much typing involved to help. Because of your comment, I'm going to go and look at it and the rest of his posts... seems like it could be fun! | /r/seduction | 25/09/10 04:58 PM |
| -1 | 80% of Pickup, EncapsulatedImproper use of "Begging the question". Begging the question is begging people to show their proof. | /r/seduction | 25/09/10 04:56 PM |
| 1 | 80% of Pickup, EncapsulatedI like your everything you said. Everything, except where you sah that he wants a woman who "actually is of higher value". Higher-value is purely perceptually based - it's subjective and not objective. Someone can have every objective thing that should make them higher value, but can still be a wuss. If there was such an objective measurement, we couldn't be happy in relationships. The happiest relationship would be two people who both view their partner to be higher value than themselves. | /r/seduction | 25/09/10 04:56 PM |
| 2 | 80% of Pickup, EncapsulatedQuite right. It's difficult telling people you're into pickup or you're a PUA when they just assume that means you're all about picking up girls, using them, and leaving them feeling dirty. Though, I can't find a better way of putting it other than saying I study social dynamics and leadership. | /r/seduction | 25/09/10 04:53 PM |
| 5 | What's the best way I should respond to a LBJF text?Ah, interesting take. Btw, I love how Cindy really takes the lead in the conversation | /r/seduction | 23/09/10 04:02 AM |
| 1 | What's the best way I should respond to a LBJF text?Very good advice. What, in particular, are you referencing from the "Sexual Prizing Theory" stuff? | /r/seduction | 22/09/10 11:57 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of "zeta game"?Exactly. Training wheels for the socially inept. | /r/seduction | 22/09/10 11:52 PM |
| 1 | What not to doIsn't it bollywood? or does tollywood exist, too? | /r/seduction | 22/09/10 10:48 PM |
| 2 | What not to doHere's where your metaphor fails: with the bad, non-native speaking student, you were readily trying to pick things up and weren't sure if they knew what they were saying or not. That is to say, you were trying to learn from them. Social Cognitive theory states that we can learn by observation, yes. BUT, and this is the main thing, we also learn what not to do when people are witnessed being ridiculed for their behaviour. In this particular example, I'm obviously ridiculing the man in the video … | /r/seduction | 22/09/10 10:45 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of "zeta game"?I think they mean socially well-balanced. Being decent with people.. | /r/seduction | 22/09/10 02:09 AM |
| 2 | What do you think of "zeta game"?I'd expand it further - it helps you project your personality more, just like a vocal coach would teach someone to project their voice. You can weild it more skillfully and open anybody up to conversation. A good compliment to PU is Dale Carnegie, but I only really mix the two when dealing with men and children. (The conversational side of pickup; to get anyone talking). As you're basically saying: You've got to fake it to make it. Ironically, faking alpha is beta. But you have to keep doing it … | /r/seduction | 22/09/10 02:03 AM |
| 1 | What do you think of "zeta game"?There is quite a bit of doubt in the book near the end, I'd say. Pretty much near the end they become clones of the big personalities, sarge-out their immediate area, and he ultimately throws the game aside for the bandmate girl. It's pretty much all called into question by the end and leaves you wondering what is the next step. Basically, I see this as the end of canned material. It's very algorithmic and soulless.. very rigid. I say we be like water: flow with what comes, be unyielding to what… | /r/seduction | 22/09/10 02:02 AM |
| 1 | Spontaneous Erectile Dysfunction at the worst time! (Crosspost from r/sex)Not afraid of potential interactions, are we? | /r/seduction | 22/09/10 01:56 AM |
| 1 | Spontaneous Erectile Dysfunction at the worst time! (Crosspost from r/sex)That's some shit luck. Well, at least you know what the problem is and you're able to throw down if she's still down! Thanks for the heads up, awesome situation you've got there (E.D. aside) | /r/seduction | 22/09/10 01:56 AM |
| 2 | New to all of this - my first FRAwesome! You're definitely, at least partially, a natural. One word of advice, and I'm speaking from experience here: Try to not use the canned stuff that Mystery puts out there.. Particularly the stuff in "The Game" itself. It was on the best sellers list and a lot of people have read it. I got called out one time for using the opinion opener and never went back. I'd thoroughly recommend getting (via legit, or torrent) the "Blueprint Decoded" series by Tyler Durden. It's an adrenaline shot righ… | /r/seduction | 21/09/10 11:47 PM |
| 8 | New to all of this - my first FRI really like your writing style. Quite entertaining and keeps you reading. One thing I'd like to point out is that I'd consider you a PUA. Anyone in the pick-up community that goes out and actually does stuff (as opposed to keyboard jockeys) should be able to call themselves that. The difference between us and what you probably have in mind is the mPUA's - the master pickup artists. Arbitrary designations, anyway. I have a question: How long have you been looking into this, and how long have yo… | /r/seduction | 21/09/10 05:52 AM |
| 2 | Your average 19 year old virginDon't be afraid of lying if it will get you laid Don't check your morals at the door. FTFY | /r/seduction | 20/09/10 06:32 PM |
| 2 | The Real Assanova: Always Be Fuckingit's going to make you a lot happier I suppose you're banking on that, aren't you? Happiness shouldn't be coming from without, man. Though, I do agree with what you're saying in the rest of your post. | /r/seduction | 20/09/10 05:21 AM |
| 1 | How to isolate?I generally just say "Hey, give me your number". I've mostly pulled that on facebook, and it has worked everytime I've done it. | /r/seduction | 20/09/10 01:46 AM |
| 1 | How to isolate?I like deangelo's approach to this better. You simply say "Come on, let's go" to her, then she'll follow. When she asks where you're going, you look at her like she's a dork and say "..Just come on" and lead her to do whatever you were going to do. I'd recommend that one, or being a little more overt by saying "Hey, i'm gong to do this. Come on". Final variant: make it a choice where the answer is obvious (e.g., "I'm going to get coffee. Come if you want some stimulating conversation with awesom… | /r/seduction | 20/09/10 01:44 AM |
| 1 | Running out of ideasGet a good wing, or just a general group of friends, and cold approach at bars. This is generally what PU is oriented towards anyway.. depends on who you look at, though. | /r/seduction | 20/09/10 01:40 AM |
| 1 | One thing I've noticed about Seddit Field Reports...I'm not suggesting we lie to ourselves about hte ratings of our girls; I'm suggesting exactly the opposite. What I'd rather is that we have it a bit more accurate, by expanding the scale. You're probably right about hte standard distribution of attractiveness for a single person's perception, but I think you fail to realize that attractiveness varies from person to person, so there may actually be greater than 5% of girls are above a 7. Of course, to a single observer it would follow exactly a s… | /r/seduction | 18/09/10 06:36 AM |
| 5 | Building compliance / asserting dominanceI like the first one a lot. Building the tension, and showing higher value by being the only one comfortable with the silence. | /r/seduction | 17/09/10 04:17 PM |
| 0 | Any tips on maintaining a "Friends with benefits" situation?I can attest to this. | /r/seduction | 17/09/10 02:47 AM |
| 1 | Any tips on maintaining a "Friends with benefits" situation?I didn't look at your articles, but oxytocin is released on orgasm. It's a emotional bonding neurochemical. Phenylethylamine is also mixed in there somewhere at somepoint, which is the love chemical. | /r/seduction | 17/09/10 02:47 AM |
| 1 | Strange but interesting tactic. Can you awesome PUA guys give me your thoughts/ opinions.Yep, I prescribe to that as well. S'good news. I think it comes off like it's just another check on the list of things to do at the bar if you grab it and go. Kind of like putting coffee at a later time suggests something a little more suspicious to women. As pointed out here | /r/seduction | 16/09/10 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Please help! Honestly.Why refrain? that's the best line ever. | /r/seduction | 16/09/10 09:17 PM |
| 3 | Strange but interesting tactic. Can you awesome PUA guys give me your thoughts/ opinions.I first heard of this through deangelo. | /r/seduction | 16/09/10 05:16 AM |
| 16 | Strange but interesting tactic. Can you awesome PUA guys give me your thoughts/ opinions.He just wants your sex!!!! | /r/seduction | 16/09/10 05:15 AM |
| 3 | Strange but interesting tactic. Can you awesome PUA guys give me your thoughts/ opinions.Agreed. Surprise is a good persuasion tactic (as put in the book "Persuasion" by Cialdini), but I'm thinking that once the initial compliance is done, they'll be like "wait, I didn't want to do that.." and not reply. | /r/seduction | 16/09/10 05:14 AM |
| 1 | What is a good time to get coffee?This. I like this a lot. | /r/seduction | 16/09/10 04:55 AM |
| 2 | One thing I've noticed about Seddit Field Reports...Good times. | /r/seduction | 14/09/10 05:49 PM |
| 1 | One thing I've noticed about Seddit Field Reports...You mean the Laurier chicks? I dunno man.. Rev's where it's at. | /r/seduction | 14/09/10 05:14 AM |
| 1 | One thing I've noticed about Seddit Field Reports...That's only if you like plastic | /r/seduction | 14/09/10 05:13 AM |
| 2 | One thing I've noticed about Seddit Field Reports...I think we should make a larger rating system, as 1-10 is pretty narrow. Generally, I see <5 are unapproachables. So, really, 6-10 are the only ones we're likely to list. That being said, half of the rating system is largely ignored. <5 should just be UB (ugly bitch) to counter the HB, and leave it at that. There was a HB4 and 2 UBs. HB4 would be the former HB7.5. Greater sensitivity in the system for greater rating accuracy. Then again... It's all purely subjective. Why would you approach a gir… | /r/seduction | 13/09/10 09:12 PM |
| 6 | One thing I've noticed about Seddit Field Reports...Wow! Me, too! Waterloo area?! | /r/seduction | 13/09/10 09:08 PM |
| 1 | ONS Advice NeededJust act like normal, and don't pay particular attention to her. Just say hi, and do your thing. Things'll work themselves out. | /r/seduction | 11/09/10 11:50 PM |
| 1 | r/seduction has changed my lifeMeh. It was more just a cheap attack back at you. Didn't feel like refraining. Though, we do realize that there are naturals out there. I am a natural, actually. I just like to analyze things and see the breakdown - especially when it both makes perfect sense, and enhances my ability. PU theory actually comes from both trial and error, and watching natural's at work, btw. | /r/seduction | 10/09/10 09:18 PM |
| 1 | r/seduction has changed my lifeExactly right. You got us spot on. Say hello to your ugly, dominating wife/gf for me. | /r/seduction | 10/09/10 02:01 AM |
| 1 | r/seduction has changed my lifeSolid. | /r/seduction | 10/09/10 02:00 AM |
| 1 | r/seduction has changed my lifeI just kept laughing about how awkward it was going to be and how much I was going to crash and burn. Literally, I laughed out loud at it and thought about the possible funny stories that would come from it. I just kept thinking that I have nowhere to go, but up. | /r/seduction | 10/09/10 01:59 AM |
| 1 | [Update] Date with girl I'm not attracted toNeed? Downvote | /r/seduction | 09/09/10 10:00 PM |
| 1 | ONS Advice NeededThis is all fantastic advice if it were that simple. In reality, it's going to be very difficult for him to get to that level of inner game over night. I'd recommend what has been recommended by anonym123 and others: Forget about her and see other girls. Don't dwell. | /r/seduction | 09/09/10 09:44 PM |
| 1 | So, I got a girl's number last night. Here's my story.Yeah, I suppose that's one way of looking at it. I just don't really like buying into that whole schema that comes with it. I'd rather just do what I do and keep her guessing. | /r/seduction | 09/09/10 02:01 AM |
| 2 | Didn't get her number, but did find her on Facebook. Where to go from here?ahahah that's true. Depends what he does with it, but i don't add someone, generally, unless i knwo them well or i ask them if they have it and give me the information. | /r/seduction | 09/09/10 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Ok reddit men, I am a victim of the DiCarlo Ladder of Escalation. Help out your rediitor sister!shouldn't him playing alpha male attract you more than anything? Though, he may be putting it on a bit thick. It's hard to tell. | /r/seduction | 08/09/10 07:18 AM |
| 2 | Ok reddit men, I am a victim of the DiCarlo Ladder of Escalation. Help out your rediitor sister!I'm not entirely sure what you mean when you ask our thoughts on the IOI. You mean his IOI's he's giving you? It would seem that he has an idea of what he's doing, and it's clearly working. All I can see for you to do at this point is to just wait and see if he messages. Since nothing's set in stone, just do what you would usually do. By that, I mean to go out, see people, etc. Don't put your eggs all in one basket. (cliché, yes, but it holds for a reason) | /r/seduction | 06/09/10 08:28 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Operation: Destroy AAEsp if it's one of the universities "less respected" programs. I'm at UWaterloo and here that probably wouldn't fly with anything in environmental studies or arts. We're looked down on enough.. but then again, it could become playful teasing. Use at your discretion. | /r/seduction | 06/09/10 08:12 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Operation: Destroy AAShit, that's some fancy trickery, man. You should teach an old box-monkey how to do it! | /r/seduction | 05/09/10 08:38 PM |
| 1 | So, I got a girl's number last night. Here's my story.Personally, I'd just text her. A good outline on what to text is here. Just play it cool, and get her feeling positive emotions while thinking about you. Cut it short after a while, then after a few hours after the exchange, give her a call and set something up. As for the answering machine, I'd ignore it the first bit. Not a fan of answering machines. Also, I'd recommend against calling her phone while in the bar. This shows your lack of confidence by signifying that you both care whether she g… | /r/seduction | 05/09/10 07:49 PM |
| 2 | So, I got a girl's number last night. Here's my story.Do not use the word "Date" in the message. You're going to hang out and have fun. Setting hte frame as a date will only be to your detriment. You're a cool guy doing cool things with cool people. She's just coming along for the ride. | /r/seduction | 05/09/10 07:45 PM |
| 11 | I'm going to try all these tips I've been getting from you allI think you need to change your language in this post. WHEN you talk to a girl, you'll report back. There is no if in that situation, no room for failure. You are going to do it, no matter what. Yes, italicised to hell. | /r/seduction | 05/09/10 07:41 PM |
| 7 | Ummm, giving a mixtape to a girl you've barely ever talked to. Creepy or No?Possibly, but it's such an AFC move. The basic message sent: Here, I did all this work for you even though I hardly know you. Get to know me a little, show me some lovin, and I'll be your whipped dog forever! :D | /r/seduction | 05/09/10 07:37 PM |
| 4 | [FR] Operation: Destroy AAHe's got a point, though. Not to downplay your victory, but I challenge you to do it again, sober. | /r/seduction | 05/09/10 07:32 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Operation: Destroy AACould just use "lame". or "boo" or "oh, ew". Though, the latter two sound semi girly, they can be pretty funny. | /r/seduction | 05/09/10 07:31 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Operation: Destroy AAShit, Chopin.. You're still kicking? Didn't you kick it a while back? ...good advice though. | /r/seduction | 05/09/10 07:30 PM |
| 18 | Didn't get her number, but did find her on Facebook. Where to go from here?You better watch out man, this could be entering creeper territory. | /r/seduction | 05/09/10 02:40 AM |
| 1 | How to cancel the second date due to a family emergency?Then move on. Who needs someone with a stick up their ass? | /r/seduction | 05/09/10 02:22 AM |
| 1 | How to cancel the second date due to a family emergency?Try to Make up for it in a special way Why exactly are you suggesting this? And what do you have in mind? This seems like you need to make it up, when it's neither party's fault. Explaining should be enough. | /r/seduction | 04/09/10 02:02 AM |
| 1 | Hey Seddit. Just wanted to share this with you. It's /r/2XChromosomes giving their opinions on pick-up. At the very least, take the discussion as another viewpoint on how to be confident, but not an asshole. The discussion on negs in particular is helpful.I agree with everything you say there, but I think you may be wasting your breath. | /r/seduction | 03/09/10 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Text game: "I'm just going to not speak to you then..."I think MageYouLook's response is better. But thanks! | /r/seduction | 03/09/10 02:04 AM |
| -1 | Text game: "I'm just going to not speak to you then..."Everyone has something to offer you, fool. Everyone. | /r/seduction | 02/09/10 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Text game: "I'm just going to not speak to you then..."That I can partially agree with - telling them how it's going to be, I mean. Partially because you're not playing the game as much. Often times they'll be like "what do you want?" and you can further the game a bit by taking it really far or dictating how it'll be. Don't be hatin' on the smiley faces just because you don't understand them. how old are you, 50? | /r/seduction | 02/09/10 09:28 PM |
| 7 | Text game: "I'm just going to not speak to you then..."I'd just say "Woah woah! No need to punish yourself like that! You just haven't sold me on that bar. What'll I get for going there? :P" | /r/seduction | 02/09/10 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Text game: "I'm just going to not speak to you then..."I agree. If you want to go, then go. BUT only on the condition that she does something to get you to go. Like, when she's trying to petition you to go, say "what's in it for me? :P" Also, I agree he does go a little overboard with smileys, but htey're necessary to denote a mood that he's not being an overly pompous jackass. He's just playing. | /r/seduction | 02/09/10 06:53 PM |
| 4 | Married woman expressing IOI. How to proceed?Don't. | /r/seduction | 30/08/10 06:44 AM |
| 1 | Challenge: Where would you find a lot of girls in a new city, with no friends, excluding clubs/bars/school/college?Cafe's. Book stores... showing up at random parties. | /r/seduction | 30/08/10 01:18 AM |
| 3 | Tips for my wingwoman?She just needs to come up with you to the group and be cool. She is not to promote you like you're a product. This gives off an awkward "He's great, but I don't want him" vibe that makes them question why she doesn't want them. Ultimately, she's just a wingperson. The same as a wingman. She is to help you isolate the target by keeping the rest of the group entertained. | /r/seduction | 29/08/10 07:02 PM |
| 1 | How do I speed up the process with a girl that won't put out?Those are all bullshit, except possibly the sexual hang-ups. They can all be bypassed so long as you build enough attraction. There are a few ways to get around this, like introducing sexual topics, misinterpretations, or "quoting" people. Quoting is a Ross Jeffries technique where you can say extremely overt/crass sexual remarks and get away with it, while still having her think about such things in the context of you (E.g. "You wouldn't beleive what I heard this guy say at the bar yesterday! H… | /r/seduction | 29/08/10 06:59 PM |
| 2 | Girl hit youWhy can't you playfully punch her back? Safe places should be fine, so long as you really don't whale on her (which would consist mostly of thigh, hips, stomach, and shoulders). Wrestle her to the ground and try to pin her. Tons of kino, and you can assert your dominance. If you dont' think you could beat her at pinning, take a couple lessons in judo or a similar grappling-focused martial art. | /r/seduction | 29/08/10 06:55 AM |
| 1 | Into girl with boyfriend, not sure if it's a LTR. Advice on how to approach this?Don't. | /r/seduction | 29/08/10 06:48 AM |
| 0 | Woman gets a major neg from chauvaunist; cross posted from r/funnyFo sho | /r/seduction | 28/08/10 11:05 PM |
| 11 | Woman gets a major neg from chauvaunist; cross posted from r/funnyYeah, I wish he'd pointed that out. I'd be at the end of the line! Then I'll see you eventually! ;) | /r/seduction | 28/08/10 07:23 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Finding a girl at a college party with the ex girlfriend present.My thoughts: -Great job! and -Don't apologize. The post wasn't long, and even if it was, we're the suckers who're reading it. No harm, no foul. | /r/seduction | 28/08/10 06:07 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Finding a girl at a college party with the ex girlfriend present.I disagree. Sometimes you'll just look around, and bam! eye contact. Can't be helped. | /r/seduction | 28/08/10 06:05 PM |
| 45 | Woman gets a major neg from chauvaunist; cross posted from r/funnyI think our definition of neg is getting a bit too broad. That's simply an insult. Neg is supposed to be a negative compliment, not a blatant "you're fat" joke. | /r/seduction | 28/08/10 06:00 PM |
| 4 | Do you write notes in a diary?First off, stop calling it a diary. Diaries are for little girls and princesses. You're making logs in your journal. Secondly, I agree that this could help. Keep it up! | /r/seduction | 28/08/10 08:04 AM |
| 3 | Guy gets rejected 30 times in 2 minutes.I don't think it even achieves that because his goal was never to succeed. He purposefully blew it every time. It's basically an excuse to fail because his ego was never on the line. AA is a fear of failure, but you can't fear failure when that's the goal. | /r/seduction | 26/08/10 11:50 PM |
| 1 | Online Dating WTF Moment - Low Contentoh yeah? How about talking about your own stalkers? "entering her domain and showing mastery over it" etc. | /r/seduction | 25/08/10 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Is game fucked up for short guys?Very good response. if you care that you are short and think that it matters then it does. I've met girls who say they will only date tall guys who end up falling for short guys. | /r/seduction | 25/08/10 01:50 AM |
| 0 | Online Dating WTF Moment - Low ContentWhat's wrong with asking for advice when you're unsure of something? I agree with the "worshiping her" part, but not really with your read of the "stalker" joke, or thinking that you can trust exactly what they say. He shouldn't be worried, it just seems like she's some oddball who he accidentally validated. | /r/seduction | 25/08/10 01:25 AM |
| 1 | Sedditor LocatorRewatch! | /r/seduction | 17/08/10 06:51 AM |
| 0 | Dudes, progress. My first Azn?!Alright, can't fault you on that. S'all good. | /r/seduction | 17/08/10 05:55 AM |
| 1 | Another man is about to discover r/seduction shortly. This is so sad. [crosspost to r/self]yep. | /r/seduction | 17/08/10 05:52 AM |
| 0 | Dudes, progress. My first Azn?!Actually, it is only a racial slur in the states. | /r/seduction | 17/08/10 12:40 AM |
| 0 | Dudes, progress. My first Azn?!"Oriental" is only considered an label impolite in the US. It's as impolite as calling someone Eastern European or Scandinavian. | /r/seduction | 17/08/10 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Dudes, progress. My first Azn?!lol. Pretty sure that was intended to be a subtle joke. I enjoyed it | /r/seduction | 17/08/10 12:38 AM |
| -1 | Dudes, progress. My first Azn?!I can vouch for the great skin. At least with the few that I've been with. | /r/seduction | 17/08/10 12:37 AM |
| -1 | Dudes, progress. My first Azn?!Oriental is more accurate. Asia is a big place, man. | /r/seduction | 17/08/10 12:37 AM |
| 5 | Sedditor LocatorFor sure. | /r/seduction | 17/08/10 12:35 AM |
| 1 | Sedditor LocatorI'm surprised he was teaching the opinion opener.. that one has been done to death thanks to "The Game". | /r/seduction | 17/08/10 12:34 AM |
| 1 | Sedditor LocatorHe's got pro inner-game. Watch the "Blueprint Decoded" series and you'll be glad you did. | /r/seduction | 17/08/10 12:34 AM |
| 3 | Sedditor LocatorThat's up to their discretion, then. Too bad, though. | /r/seduction | 17/08/10 12:32 AM |
| 4 | Sedditor LocatorWaterloo | /r/seduction | 17/08/10 12:31 AM |
| 2 | Another man is about to discover r/seduction shortly. This is so sad. [crosspost to r/self]Happy /r/birthday! Yeah, this guy's up against a natural. Though, the douche variant of the natural that usually deters AFC's from learning seduction. The whole "But I don't want to be an asshole!" stuff. | /r/seduction | 17/08/10 12:29 AM |
| -1 | Dudes, progress. My first Azn?!Fuck YEAH | /r/seduction | 16/08/10 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Crash and BurnThat doesn't seem too bad, but as they've said around here before, the goal is to do the opposite of what an AFC would do, sometimes at least. So, in this circumstance, it might've been better if you danced around and were like "yeah, if only you had someone willing to sleep with you around! :P" and feigned like you weren't interesting (in a teasing way of course). Then again, circumstance seems like what you said was fine. | /r/seduction | 15/08/10 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Cocky/Funny questionlol, that's pretty great, the driving story. | /r/seduction | 14/08/10 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Is it possible to retry a past "dating failure"? (for lack of a better phrase)Do it up. Past failures are fine so long as you didn't seriously fuck up. With enough time, you can re-open and try again, no problem. | /r/seduction | 14/08/10 01:22 AM |
| 1 | Is it possible to retry a past "dating failure"? (for lack of a better phrase)Why not? He's not losing anything, other than 5 min of his time. | /r/seduction | 14/08/10 01:21 AM |
| 1 | Should I tone down the cocky funny when I'm with friends?Yeah, exactly. Then do some flash backs to previous jabs :P | /r/seduction | 13/08/10 09:21 AM |
| 2 | Dating Site: Herway.comVery good point. This is an affront to our Community. | /r/seduction | 13/08/10 04:42 AM |
| 2 | Dating Site: Herway.comVirtual Field Report, Huzzah! | /r/seduction | 13/08/10 04:42 AM |
| 1 | FR Very negative but I'm hoping that someone will read this and tell me what I need to do.Yeah, that sounds pretty good. The last bit, that is. | /r/seduction | 13/08/10 04:34 AM |
| 1 | FR Very negative but I'm hoping that someone will read this and tell me what I need to do.I agree Edit: also, it's not magical or miraculous, people are just able to see that you are being insanely insecure. Studies have shown (no link,and I don't remember how) that people tend to treat you worse when you're already having a bad day than normal or good days. This is because you're putting out bad vibes that people pick up subconsciously. | /r/seduction | 13/08/10 04:21 AM |
| 1 | FR Very negative but I'm hoping that someone will read this and tell me what I need to do.Maybe he should scatter himself more. Scatter that scared little boy far, far away! Or maybe his shadow will come and swallow him whole if he does that.. Jung`s concept of Shadow, I mean. I know that every time I've tried to go out without drinking I have failed. What will make this time different? Yeah, I don't think anyone will be asking that question of you. This is a situation where the quote "Insanity is doing the same thing and expecting different results" does not apply. At least not with… | /r/seduction | 13/08/10 03:52 AM |
| 0 | FR Very negative but I'm hoping that someone will read this and tell me what I need to do.I thoroughly agree. lol`d | /r/seduction | 13/08/10 03:38 AM |
| 3 | Should I tone down the cocky funny when I'm with friends?How do you handle it when people strike back at you? Becuase I've found that when you're cocky-funny, people undoubtably challenge what you say and put you down, also in a joking way. Personally, I act like water and just flow with it, weave around it and say stuff like "Yeah, you caught me! I was just stalking people around this party. Was I that obvious? :P" and it seems to go over pretty well. | /r/seduction | 12/08/10 10:57 PM |
| 2 | Should I tone down the cocky funny when I'm with friends?For sure. I think the word you're looking for is "Petty" | /r/seduction | 12/08/10 10:51 PM |
| -2 | Are Women in Heat Today or Something?My god! You're so wise! Bow before the great one! | /r/seduction | 12/08/10 10:29 PM |
| -1 | Are Women in Heat Today or Something?it wasn't the sex that was misogynistic, it was the fact that you're saying they only want us so they can get pregnant and steal from us, jackass. | /r/seduction | 12/08/10 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Are Women in Heat Today or Something?that is a damn bizarre comparison.. upvoted. | /r/seduction | 12/08/10 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Are Women in Heat Today or Something?lol, even if that is a a real story, it's pretty hilarious | /r/seduction | 12/08/10 07:56 PM |
| 3 | Are Women in Heat Today or Something?Not misogynistic at all. Such a good frame. | /r/seduction | 12/08/10 06:26 PM |
| 5 | Are Women in Heat Today or Something?Oh no, it's hard to walk with my money weighing my pockets down! | /r/seduction | 12/08/10 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Crash and Burnouch. What did you say in your "proposition" exactly? | /r/seduction | 12/08/10 05:35 PM |
| 2 | Crash and Burnahaha he might've been Canadian, but we've got our fair share of douches up this way, too. | /r/seduction | 12/08/10 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Crash and Burnboth were a few years ago, too.. I give him the benefit of the doubt. | /r/seduction | 12/08/10 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Crash and BurnI put this up before, but it's my worst crash and burn, so I'll just throw it in with the collection: While out at a club, my friend texted me a challenge, which was rather easy, to go up to the first girl I saw who was wearing red and ask them "Katy Perry or Lady Gaga", walking if they picked Perry and staying if they picked Gaga. I happened to be looking at this girl in a red dress, very curvy, who clearly thought she was a 9 or 10, but to me was a HB7. I walk up to her and her friend (HB6) an… | /r/seduction | 12/08/10 05:23 PM |
| 2 | Crash and BurnFunny thing about legitimate excuses from girls getting picked up... they often aren't. | /r/seduction | 12/08/10 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Crash and BurnThey also have two vaginas. | /r/seduction | 12/08/10 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Looking for advice on #closing girls at work.hahah sounds pretty funny. I think you might be able to make it work if you're charming enough. | /r/seduction | 12/08/10 04:19 PM |
| 4 | Food for thought, Vol. 2happiness and confidence comes from positive experiences, depression comes from negative experiences. I don't agree with this. Happiness, as I currently accept it, is wanting what you have, not having what you want. To add to that, and take a bit from yours, I'd say it is the perception of having good experiences because even a potentially bad experience can give you something to take away from it, and your interpretation will designate its positive/negative quality. Vice versa for depression, e… | /r/seduction | 12/08/10 03:27 PM |
| 1 | The greatest REAL infield PUA footage and explanation of why it's so good. Watch these guys fail over and over and over again like champs.You've got some valid points in there, Throwaway. | /r/seduction | 11/08/10 09:54 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Happened at the bar the other night - was this alpha or beta of me?Interesting. I recently picked up a 26ish year old (she wouldn't say, but said it was in that neighborhood (yeah, i dared to ask the faux pas question)). So, we'll see if this particular one is any different from my age group (22). | /r/seduction | 11/08/10 09:53 PM |
| 2 | Failed endgame/Came on too strongly.True. It might be best to cut and run for now as it is, since you seem a lot more invested in this than she probably is. Go meet some new girls and stop worrying about her. She'll probably come around. | /r/seduction | 11/08/10 05:39 AM |
| 1 | The greatest REAL infield PUA footage and explanation of why it's so good. Watch these guys fail over and over and over again like champs.quite right. | /r/seduction | 11/08/10 12:50 AM |
| 3 | The greatest REAL infield PUA footage and explanation of why it's so good. Watch these guys fail over and over and over again like champs.I think you've got too narrow a frame, my boy. There are times she may just not have noticed you, but you find her attractive. What then? Ignore her and passively leave yourself at the whim of fate, or take control of the situation and assert your dominance of it? The answer is clear. | /r/seduction | 10/08/10 10:08 PM |
| 5 | Seddit... why the games?You seem to be saying: why can't we be ourselves? I'm myself and it works for a bit, then fails! As Ross Jeffries has said, when you say "I don't want to be something I'm not", you're giving away all of your capacity to change. You are cementing yourself into what you currently are, and cannot change with new times or information because that would be something you are not currently. | /r/seduction | 10/08/10 10:05 PM |
| 7 | Seddit... why the games?I have an analogy for you: Suppose you and a chess grandmaster play chess a lot. The GM rapes you every goddamn game, so bad that you hardly even get to play and you learn very, very little. You attempt to analyze what went wrong, how you can improve, and you come up juvenile, uneducated explanations of a game you don't fully understand. After realizing how bad you're being walloped each time, you resolve to get better. You seek out strategies that work, you practice them, you learn when they ap… | /r/seduction | 10/08/10 09:56 PM |
| 5 | The greatest REAL infield PUA footage and explanation of why it's so good. Watch these guys fail over and over and over again like champs.your name is accurate! | /r/seduction | 10/08/10 09:40 PM |
| 1 | The greatest REAL infield PUA footage and explanation of why it's so good. Watch these guys fail over and over and over again like champs.Yeah, he fails sometimes by not sticking it through. He needs to find a way to get them to actually stop so he's not following them. Then again, this is entirely a farce on purpose. | /r/seduction | 10/08/10 09:39 PM |
| 0 | The greatest REAL infield PUA footage and explanation of why it's so good. Watch these guys fail over and over and over again like champs.what?! Noooooo wayyyyyy | /r/seduction | 10/08/10 09:39 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with her challenging my suggestions for dates?Right and, to further this, She's still asking! Which means you're in charge, you have the power to say "no, fuck you". Clearly, that wouldn't be a smart move, but the underlying situation is that you have the power and she's asking for permission. It would be entirely different if she said "Not Coffee. We're going to the bar", which would be her taking the reins, as you suggested. I also wanted to point out the awesomeness of MageYouLook's responses.. This one in particular: but I couldn't turn… | /r/seduction | 10/08/10 09:08 PM |
| 1 | [FR] "Lunch" with Coffee GirlYeah, I suppose so. I'm currently in a situation like that and I'm torn as to how to handle it. So far, I seem to be doing what you suggested, so we're on the same page :D | /r/seduction | 10/08/10 07:57 PM |
| 1 | [FR] "Lunch" with Coffee GirlI suppose that is a general tenet of PUA is to be different. Good point. | /r/seduction | 10/08/10 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Two Things Every PUA Needs at his Houselol good | /r/seduction | 10/08/10 06:20 AM |
| 1 | Advice needed: patching up a relationshipNow that I can agree with. The only problem I had when you said it was a case of stupid, really. As you said, he's a man in love and he's stuck in a position, so I don't think he can be entirely faulted for what he's doing. Thanks for the compliment. | /r/seduction | 10/08/10 03:19 AM |
| 1 | [FR] "Lunch" with Coffee Girllol, you sly dog. I think, though, that her talking about another guy is her disqualifying you from her dating pool, so the power's in her hands. Anti-PUA. Maybe this is why this one girl I'm with is still down with me, despite me talking about other girls I'm seeing.. | /r/seduction | 10/08/10 03:18 AM |
| 1 | [FR] "Lunch" with Coffee GirlTrue, but as I've said around before, you could just be a more viable option. She could be perfectly happy with her current guy, but you're better. There is a minimum standard people need before they leave their bf/gf. So long as their current is above that standard and you aren't HUGELY better, she'll stay with him. Say she requires a 6, he's a 7, and you're an 8.5, for argument sake. She will talk bad about him to you to get your attention. On the other hand, talking about other men to you mea… | /r/seduction | 10/08/10 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Advice needed: patching up a relationshipAs I see it, it's not our decision about whether you should bother with her or not, as some guys are treating this like. To address your question: If you treat this like a case of oneitis, it might work in your favor. That is, see other women and get some space, as she's going to need it. The more you interact with her in a non-sexual/relationship way, the more of a "friend" you'll become. You both likely need some space to sort things out. But, listen, seeing other girls isn't to make you get o… | /r/seduction | 10/08/10 12:56 AM |
| 1 | Advice needed: patching up a relationshipThat's quite callous and cold, man. Quit being a jackass. | /r/seduction | 10/08/10 12:53 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Happened at the bar the other night - was this alpha or beta of me?Very good, Goody | /r/seduction | 10/08/10 12:51 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Happened at the bar the other night - was this alpha or beta of me?It's all a matter of taste, man. My 10 could be your 6, right? I say we just leave the label as we originally stated it and ignore anyone that argues with you about it. It's all subjective. | /r/seduction | 10/08/10 12:50 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Happened at the bar the other night - was this alpha or beta of me?bingo | /r/seduction | 10/08/10 12:48 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Happened at the bar the other night - was this alpha or beta of me?I'm not sure I agree with that. The movie scene of "that gentleman over there bought you this drink" seems like a pussy move. Just go up and talk to her. You could ask her what she's drinking and make that a conversation point, but buying a drink isn't necessary. I agree, though, that there are times it's cool to buy a girl a drink. If she's earned it by being cool or told a good joke or something, go for it. | /r/seduction | 10/08/10 12:48 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Happened at the bar the other night - was this alpha or beta of me?Honestly, I don't think she's out of your league. Seems like a decent fit from my perspective, especially if you just act cool. Not to knock her or anything. | /r/seduction | 10/08/10 12:46 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Happened at the bar the other night - was this alpha or beta of me?Man, transformation | /r/seduction | 10/08/10 12:44 AM |
| 3 | [FR] "Lunch" with Coffee Girl"oh then you should make it for me sometime." That's try hard? | /r/seduction | 10/08/10 12:41 AM |
| 1 | Two Things Every PUA Needs at his Houseif you think an electronic game of 20 questions is what you need to get women back to your place, I'd suggest you seriously work on your game. Just sayin' | /r/seduction | 09/08/10 11:51 PM |
| 1 | This girl is SOOO hard to talk to!No problem, Here to help! | /r/seduction | 09/08/10 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Seddit - just found out you were here. Wanted to celebrate my two f-close Saturday night.This is true! :D | /r/seduction | 09/08/10 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Seddit - just found out you were here. Wanted to celebrate my two f-close Saturday night.Yeah, but terribly, unless he's gay. | /r/seduction | 09/08/10 07:58 AM |
| 7 | PUA Fashion: Rolled up jeans, Yaiy or Nay ?I vote Nay. | /r/seduction | 09/08/10 07:48 AM |
| 1 | Seddit Wiki: Here it isAdded a section about different types of game in the table of contents and content in one of the pages. | /r/seduction | 09/08/10 03:02 AM |
| 3 | FR: Assorted PackYeah, I thought of something after the fact: "Woah.. did I just..? I think I did! I just entered into the no fun zone! Oh man, I've gotta get outta here!" then eject. Oh, and for the interview, I thought it'd be better to ask what paper she works for instead of plainly stating that it felt like I was being interviewed. "What paper do you work for?" "what?" "Oh, I just assumed you worked for a paper because you're interviewing me :P" | /r/seduction | 09/08/10 01:58 AM |
| 1 | Should I use canned material?Meh. I open with "Hey, How are you?" then break into a story or w/e. | /r/seduction | 09/08/10 01:57 AM |
| 1 | This girl is SOOO hard to talk to!Two Suggestions: Conversation hooks: You leave something intriguing open-ended, and make them ask about it. If they never do, don't go back to it; let it linger there in their mind. E.g. The other day I was in the airport leaving to Europe and these men came up and said "Excuse me, Box-Monkey, but you need to come with us. We have something very important to talk to you about". I ended up missing my flight and having to reschedule, while my traveling companion taunted me via text because they go… | /r/seduction | 08/08/10 09:22 PM |
| 2 | Should I use canned material?Canned stuff is a good way to begin and get some experience, but eventually you need to learn how to do things yourself and just put yourself out there a bit. You want to be like water; fluid, unyeilding, and dynamic. If you do get into canned material, be careful to learn why this stuff works and not just blindly following it. The goal should be to be able to work with whatever the environment gives you, but that's much easier said than done. | /r/seduction | 08/08/10 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Sorry for the enthusiasmlol yeah, beat them to the punch! | /r/seduction | 08/08/10 09:14 PM |
| 1 | FR: Cut it too short?Thanks. I find it hilarious that I can give advice like this, but when It involves me or being actually in the situation, I blank a lot more. | /r/seduction | 08/08/10 09:13 PM |
| 2 | FR: Assorted PackHahah Thanks, but I'm far from AA-less, man. Last night I planned to do the Apocalypse Clopener (closer/opener), but had a really hard time getting past AA. It can make a resurgence if you're not careful, but we'll get there with time. | /r/seduction | 08/08/10 09:12 PM |
| 2 | Need help converting an FClose into a fuck buddyVery good. Delay gratification for a bigger, better reward in the future. I'd suggest side-tracking yourself a bit by hitting the scene with a decent wing. Work on that AA! :D Edit: Also, this has helped me see the problem with one of the girls I've been seeing lately. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 08/08/10 09:04 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Apocalypseaahaha, that's hilarious | /r/seduction | 08/08/10 08:41 PM |
| 6 | [FR] ApocalypseMan, that's still a pretty good result, I'd say. I was going to do it myself tonight, but lost my nerve and I'm kicking myself for not having done it. You've given me even more inspiration to do it, though, so thanks. | /r/seduction | 08/08/10 07:28 AM |
| 1 | What's the shit test?Nice. How does one become a contributor of this site? | /r/seduction | 06/08/10 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Does jealousy help or make things worse at the beginning?Jealousy is the fear of losing what is already yours to someone or something else. Envy is wanting something you've never had. | /r/seduction | 06/08/10 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Seddit Wiki: Here it isLame, can't become a site member. | /r/seduction | 06/08/10 11:03 PM |
| 4 | What's the shit test?You really played up that shot pun hahahah I'd say simply saying "Ladies first" to that shit test would work. | /r/seduction | 06/08/10 10:41 PM |
| 1 | What's the shit test?I agree. | /r/seduction | 06/08/10 10:38 PM |
| 1 | What's the shit test?I think you double pasted that... Or did I really repeat myself? But yeah, man. Vibe with it. | /r/seduction | 06/08/10 10:38 PM |
| 1 | What's the shit test?I guess you could look at it to see if you're worth their time or not. The sisters thing could be that they're just seeing how he handles whether that "fact" and whether he starts drooling or not, like some guys would. Smart/witty remarks can pass you, and a neg would probably fall under that category. Most shit tests are to be ignored, really. You just pretend it wasn't said and keep acting like it wasn't. It's a square peg trying to fit into a round hole; it doesn't fit into your reality of ho… | /r/seduction | 06/08/10 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Seddit, what are your personal moral rules?face palm fuck. And I'm a mild grammar nazi... Yes, that's a person who is renting from me that I really like to live near. That's what I meant! | /r/seduction | 06/08/10 09:35 PM |
| 1 | I effed myself. [8]kind of reminds me of pascal's wager, eh? | /r/seduction | 06/08/10 07:48 AM |
| 2 | I effed myself. [8]Oh, you little scamp. ruffles hair | /r/seduction | 06/08/10 07:46 AM |
| 1 | I effed myself. [8]two def'n on urban dictionary. | /r/seduction | 06/08/10 04:42 AM |
| 2 | I effed myself. [8]Sadly, I'd have to agree that this is the only way for you to move on. | /r/seduction | 06/08/10 04:41 AM |
| 10 | What's the shit test?Guys, be nice to the newbies. A shit test is what a girl throws your way to see how you handle it. Fail and you're no longer really an option for them, pass and it improves your status. I'm not sure how they differ from congruency tests, but a congruency test is to see if you walk the walk as well as talk the talk. To put it another way, you go in with outter game, they throw it in your face to see if you can handle it (i.e. your behaviour is consistent with what you think). E.g. you go in actin… | /r/seduction | 06/08/10 04:35 AM |
| 1 | Trend of people forcing outer game when they should be practicing inner game?Huh? I have no idea what you're talking about. | /r/seduction | 06/08/10 03:17 AM |
| 3 | Change the Acronym "LJBF"If she was giving out IOI's, why would you have AA? Man up! | /r/seduction | 06/08/10 03:17 AM |
| 1 | Where's a good website to buy affordable fake watches, and other peacocking stuff? I'm now ready to admit that the guys with cheesy jewelry are attracting more girls.Value village. get off your ass | /r/seduction | 05/08/10 09:22 PM |
| 2 | Change the Acronym "LJBF"Pretty sure you're just going to lose points on this post. | /r/seduction | 05/08/10 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Trend of people forcing outer game when they should be practicing inner game?I like the analogy | /r/seduction | 05/08/10 09:10 PM |
| 2 | Trend of people forcing outer game when they should be practicing inner game?Bullseye, SilverIngot | /r/seduction | 05/08/10 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Transitioning - how to move from opener to attracting?Depends on what you've got. I started with strange news stories that I thought were funny (though, try to avoid ones that have to do with killing or rape, obvs (actually I was dumb enough to talk about a man killing his wife, but I didn't crash and burn as hard as you'd think)). I also just told general stories from my past (even mundane ones can be alright if you put some flare into them). One common one is the worst date I'd ever been on, which opens a dialogue where you can tease them about h… | /r/seduction | 05/08/10 06:39 PM |
| 6 | OMG, Seddit, this just happenedSure, or "Man, do you always get that trashed? You're lucky I came along, I think you owe me an apology" Anything with response value. If you know her actual apartment and you're feeling audacious, you could go over and see what's up. | /r/seduction | 05/08/10 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Seddit, what are your personal moral rules?Oh, I didn't know that. Yeah, that's a tenant I strive to live by. | /r/seduction | 05/08/10 07:30 AM |
| 1 | convince my BORN AGAIN girlfriend to have sex with me???I agree with this fool. | /r/seduction | 05/08/10 07:06 AM |
| 9 | OMG, Seddit, this just happenedStay out of your head and just.. do. I'd just text her something within the next day about how trashed she was. Don't ask if she remembers you. Set something up and go with it. Not sure the relevance of the japanese girl, btw. | /r/seduction | 05/08/10 07:02 AM |
| 1 | I think this is probably Roosh's worst condemnation of American women yet...and somewhat propoganda about homosexuality being a choice | /r/seduction | 05/08/10 06:57 AM |
| 1 | I think this is probably Roosh's worst condemnation of American women yet...It's pure shit, man. If he actually believes what he's saying, he's pretty ignorant. I agree with silverchair. He's generally pretty crass, but this is over the line a bit. | /r/seduction | 05/08/10 06:57 AM |
| 1 | Pyramid of PickupOh DW, you're like the overbearing father who does the "that's good, but do better" compliment frame. | /r/seduction | 05/08/10 06:48 AM |
| 8 | Trend of people forcing outer game when they should be practicing inner game?I gotta say I completely disagree with imisunderstandyou. It is about being a better person in general, becoming alpha, getting your damn life in control. As I see it, a main goal is to be able to have sex readily available so that it can no longer be used as a bargaining chip. You can leave the relationship without fear of doing without (like a lot of guys I've met have done). They cling to the bad relationship because they don't know where their next "meal" will come from, and this is a terrib… | /r/seduction | 05/08/10 06:46 AM |
| 3 | Contempt to affectionBasically. Freud's Reaction formation: an unacceptable want, so your mind creates the exact opposite approach to it. Poor quazzy, unacceptable to like him. | /r/seduction | 05/08/10 06:38 AM |
| 1 | Guys with questions! Please Read: The BEST pick-up advice you will ever read -- covers all of your questions about 'I met a girl, What should I do?'I think that's generally true, but I'm trying to learn good persuasion strategies and tweak my approaches to see if I can bring some around. Seems to work.. for some, I suppose. | /r/seduction | 05/08/10 06:25 AM |
| 1 | My favourite "trick" to get the kiss.Oh, I dig | /r/seduction | 05/08/10 01:29 AM |
| 1 | Seddit, what are your personal moral rules?You're why we're labelled as manipulative sociopaths. Good job! | /r/seduction | 05/08/10 01:05 AM |
| 1 | Seddit, what are your personal moral rules?Campsite rule? | /r/seduction | 05/08/10 01:04 AM |
| 1 | Should I stop referring newbies to DW's post about asking for advice in advance?Well, glad it works for some people! I've recently been battling with my freinds to try and reform their frames, but they're pretty solid in "but women don't like X. I have X. I lose". Keep up the good work, man. I'm relatively new, myself. | /r/seduction | 05/08/10 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Asking out a friend I've had for years. Tips?Kino, DHV, don't be clingy, invite her to things by saying "hey, i'm going here. You should come if you want to have fun" or whatever. Don't go out of your way to see her. Act confidently. Escalate Kino and be honest if she ever asks where you see this going. | /r/seduction | 05/08/10 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Should I stop referring newbies to DW's post about asking for advice in advance?Yeah, it's like psychology. People ask "but how can you say anything about people?! We're all different, fool!" to which I always want to slap them. It's not about the individual, but about the whole - the trends. | /r/seduction | 05/08/10 12:00 AM |
| 2 | Should I stop referring newbies to DW's post about asking for advice in advance?I see your point, but I don't think it's quite that harsh. It's like "here's how you do it, now try." then they say "But I don't want to fall down! How do I not fall down?! Tell me how!!" and you already did. They just need to get the neural networks built on their own by actually doing. Once they fall, you can say "ok, you fell because you weren't leaning into your turn" or some shit. We can't predict every mistake they'll make, and they'll be getting far into their head if we did tell them eve… | /r/seduction | 04/08/10 11:57 PM |
| 2 | Should I stop referring newbies to DW's post about asking for advice in advance?"just be confident" is such unconscious competent advice. It helps no one because conscious incompetent individuals have always been trying to do that, but failing. Core beliefs are very difficult to change, so simply saying "be confident" won't help. Really, they need to get out and do, while trying to digest the theory. | /r/seduction | 04/08/10 11:54 PM |
| 1 | Should I stop referring newbies to DW's post about asking for advice in advance?I am kind of torn in my decision. mnmn makes a good point that we're just being jerks like "READ THE SIGN!!" instead of actually interactively helping. On the other hand, it has been said in a way, many times, and continually repeating ourselves is getting tiring. Overall, I suppose giving a quick bit of advice and then linking might help, but just linking should be fine in the end. | /r/seduction | 04/08/10 11:53 PM |
| 2 | Guys with questions! Please Read: The BEST pick-up advice you will ever read -- covers all of your questions about 'I met a girl, What should I do?'Just gotta destroy the frame. I've been trying to teach my friends about this but they're so concretely stuck that "I'm short, I can't get her" or other BS confidence breakers. | /r/seduction | 04/08/10 11:50 PM |
| 1 | Should I stop referring newbies to DW's post about asking for advice in advance?No silvercoin, it's alright for you. | /r/seduction | 04/08/10 11:48 PM |
| -4 | Two Things Every PUA Needs at his HouseGreat heads up Edit: What's with the haters? What's to dislike about this post? | /r/seduction | 04/08/10 11:46 PM |
| 2 | Two Things Every PUA Needs at his HouseAKA gentlemanly | /r/seduction | 04/08/10 11:25 PM |
| 6 | Transitioning - how to move from opener to attracting?I find that telling a story after walking up and breaking hte ice is pretty good. Avoids interview mode, doesn't show too much interest other than you're looking to have a good time and tell a story. Typically breaks the tension if you tell it confidently and ignore any negative feedback. Just keep talking like they fucking love what you're saying and they actually will change if they're a bitch. Such a breakthrough, this girl wasn't having me at all and I told a story. By the end of the story, … | /r/seduction | 04/08/10 11:00 PM |
| 2 | My favourite "trick" to get the kiss.Explain how it's approval seeking. | /r/seduction | 04/08/10 10:46 PM |
| 1 | My favourite "trick" to get the kiss.yeah, he definitely deserves some upvotes. | /r/seduction | 04/08/10 10:45 PM |
| 2 | My favourite "trick" to get the kiss.Oh man, those are both good. Though, I never buy girls drinks.. I'm tempted to try that one. | /r/seduction | 04/08/10 10:44 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Mission 5: Coffee Girl's Gay BoyfriendTBH I read the first line and then commented. Maybe I'll read it now.. | /r/seduction | 04/08/10 10:17 PM |
| 1 | I upload an attractive picture of myself onto OKCupid and an awful photo of myself speaking publicly. The photos tie and I the public speech one gets more attention from 18-22 year olds. Food for thought.Golden! | /r/seduction | 04/08/10 08:18 AM |
| 1 | [SP]: Bringing new women into my world.Just gotta start putting yourself out there. Bring an experienced wing-man to the bar, a group of friends, or just approach people. That's right, approach people, as opposed to just women. Talk to everyone. | /r/seduction | 04/08/10 08:16 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Mission 5: Coffee Girl's Gay BoyfriendSounds crappy | /r/seduction | 04/08/10 07:58 AM |
| 15 | I upload an attractive picture of myself onto OKCupid and an awful photo of myself speaking publicly. The photos tie and I the public speech one gets more attention from 18-22 year olds. Food for thought.To me, it seems like the public speaking in is the clear winner for women. Now, think about the contexts: one is you, with a mic, addressing an unseen group of people. People will presume there's a large number, since it appears to be outside. The picture of a leader, really. You're addressing people and you're doing something that most people are terrified of AND you seem comfortable doing it. Picture two: you're inside, on your way out and surprised. Presumably it's only you and the person hol… | /r/seduction | 04/08/10 07:41 AM |
| 2 | I upload an attractive picture of myself onto OKCupid and an awful photo of myself speaking publicly. The photos tie and I the public speech one gets more attention from 18-22 year olds. Food for thought.lol, you think it's the drink? | /r/seduction | 04/08/10 07:27 AM |
| 1 | Seddit, what are your personal moral rules?lol | /r/seduction | 04/08/10 07:25 AM |
| 2 | Seddit, what are your personal moral rules?There's something about us being manipulative sociopaths? Sweet. I assume this has to do with what we won't do with regards to pickup. I will *not*: -lie or make excuses because I have nothing to be embarrassed about -go for a girl who's got a boyfriend, fiance, or husband if I have previous knowledge, though sometimes it's tempting. -stay if I think I'm doing damage to them in some way, or they're doing it to me -If I F-close, I leave the option open for them to contact me and I'm fine with it,… | /r/seduction | 04/08/10 07:17 AM |
| 1 | Bus Body Language OpenerAaahahah I missed that, too, somehow. | /r/seduction | 04/08/10 03:40 AM |
| 1 | Living with a female roommate for two weeks, how do I get my game on?I hold the position that doing anything with alcohol that she wouldn't do completely sober will lead to resentment, embarassment, and awkwardness. Maybe a drink or two, but nothing more. | /r/seduction | 03/08/10 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Living with a female roommate for two weeks, how do I get my game on?Yeah, you got me there. | /r/seduction | 03/08/10 10:35 PM |
| 2 | Killing off the 'nice guy'Even if you don't actively know the answer yourself, our minds are problem solving machines. By posing the question and just letting it resonate, eventually you'll figure it out. So the theory goes. | /r/seduction | 03/08/10 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Bus Body Language OpenerI think I'm going to have to agree with RockerSocker2. Your last bit of that absolutely destroys anything you might've had going. You're going into science/asexual territory here. Well-charted no-sex waters. Also, there's a typo at the start wehre you said "readers" instead of "riders". Personally, I find that pointing out body language and reading body language usually gets people self-conscious and weirded out. I find indirectly addressing it is best. You might just to better if you say "Hey, … | /r/seduction | 03/08/10 10:54 AM |
| 1 | Living with a female roommate for two weeks, how do I get my game on?Just be confident and don't be ashamed of anything. Embarrassment and awkwardness only exist as long as you let it. As he stated, kino escalate | /r/seduction | 03/08/10 10:27 AM |
| 3 | Living with a female roommate for two weeks, how do I get my game on?Is this our general reply when people have specific questions? If so, we might as well just disband. | /r/seduction | 03/08/10 10:25 AM |
| 2 | Killing off the 'nice guy'better yet, try some NLP: ask yourself "When will I stop my beta tendencies?" | /r/seduction | 03/08/10 07:46 AM |
| 0 | Do women expect a kiss on the first date?Succinct. Quite nice. | /r/seduction | 03/08/10 07:34 AM |
| 7 | Do women expect a kiss on the first date?Yeah, and to make her have that lingering "?" in her head is just awesome. She's like a block in Mario waiting to be bumped. | /r/seduction | 03/08/10 07:32 AM |
| 2 | Text Messages DyingMy read: Convo 1: you're putting in way more effort than her, you arne't saying anything with real response value or involving her, and you left her hanging. Try opening with something that relates to the night before and is both something playful and something she wants to respond to. Make a cheeky question or something. Convo 2: You're writing essays, again. Try to be james bond. You say cheeky, sly things and only occasionally throw in a ;) or :P or, if you dare, a ;P. That being said, use th… | /r/seduction | 03/08/10 07:07 AM |
| 1 | Text Messages DyingI agree with your eval of convo 1. Convo 2, I think he was asking how long it took her to write it because of the length of the message,not the time between them. Other than that, agree. | /r/seduction | 03/08/10 07:00 AM |
| 5 | Guys with questions! Please Read: The BEST pick-up advice you will ever read -- covers all of your questions about 'I met a girl, What should I do?'Retroactive advice, essentially. This should go into the Seddit's beginner package. I'll have to read that full article when I have time, but it looks like a good read. | /r/seduction | 03/08/10 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Not going so great with the HB9. Mistakes to learn from. Thinking of doing something stupid.Good call. | /r/seduction | 03/08/10 12:03 AM |
| 2 | Not going so great with the HB9. Mistakes to learn from. Thinking of doing something stupid.Don't even give that. Showing too much, unless she explodes at you like she did at the start of this. Don't accept her apologies. Game over for her, take the power - and your pride - back. | /r/seduction | 03/08/10 12:02 AM |
| 3 | Not going so great with the HB9. Mistakes to learn from. Thinking of doing something stupid.Agreed. At this point, lack of escalation (in fact, lowering), you're an object for her to toy with. You are the ride. It's like in highschool or Uni/college when people would use people for rides. Move on. | /r/seduction | 03/08/10 12:01 AM |
| 1 | [FR] A nine day rollercoaster ride with an HB9, some mistakes and lessons learnedIn his defense, he did do that the one night when he was tired. And he wasn't afraid to bail when the line was too long. | /r/seduction | 02/08/10 11:52 PM |
| 2 | Asked me to see movie with her. Is this a date?I second that | /r/seduction | 02/08/10 11:37 PM |
| 2 | Asked me to see movie with her. Is this a date?Date on! Neg her, do a switch back, push-pull, go for a DHV, then throw a hail-mary into the end zone! Tie Breaker! | /r/seduction | 02/08/10 11:35 PM |
| 1 | After a long chat with an old friend, I've realised the few things stopping me from being a natural. Please help Seddit, I'm so close.You are quite the genial lad. I Concur. | /r/seduction | 02/08/10 09:49 PM |
| 2 | Two guys who were trained by a PUA bootcamp fail miserably when they try out a speed dating event."Man, they gypped me on this water! They said it was unlimited!" | /r/seduction | 02/08/10 08:43 PM |
| 1 | After a long chat with an old friend, I've realised the few things stopping me from being a natural. Please help Seddit, I'm so close.I disagree. | /r/seduction | 02/08/10 08:42 PM |
| 8 | Two guys who were trained by a PUA bootcamp fail miserably when they try out a speed dating event.4) he was enjoying his beverage thoroughly. So much so, he was ghost drinking it. | /r/seduction | 02/08/10 08:26 PM |
| 0 | After a long chat with an old friend, I've realised the few things stopping me from being a natural. Please help Seddit, I'm so close.I think that'd really hurt the confidence in asking, and your overall body language would likely resemble the internal doubt. Just assume she'll give it to you, as most women will if you're cool. | /r/seduction | 02/08/10 08:07 PM |
| 0 | After a long chat with an old friend, I've realised the few things stopping me from being a natural. Please help Seddit, I'm so close.You're being a bit narrow here, man. Women aren't men. They're much more cerebral when it comes to attraction. If you're the most beautiful man in the world, but you're a clown... No sex. You have to build anticipation, suspense, and sexual pressure. Kino is a big component in that. | /r/seduction | 02/08/10 08:05 PM |
| 1 | After a long chat with an old friend, I've realised the few things stopping me from being a natural. Please help Seddit, I'm so close.TAPUA's suggestion is great, but I find the "FUCK OFF!!" just so hilarious, I'm goign to use that next time. Worst that happens, typically, is people are like "why.. are.. you.. talking to me??" and then you tell a story and ignore that, which breaks that shit wide open like an axe to wood. | /r/seduction | 02/08/10 08:02 PM |
| 2 | Whats the most procative thing you've ever said to a woman that has paid off?You open up by asking what they think of lust at first sight because you've got a friend who whole-heartedly believes in it (and most people really do have a friend like this..). You then say that you're not sure of love at first sight, but believe in lust at first sight. You then ask them what, to them, lust feels like, getting them to describe it (pay attention to the hand motions they associate with each feeling (aka the anchors)), then reiterate them back with the same hand gestures, and cyc… | /r/seduction | 02/08/10 06:05 PM |
| 2 | (FR, kinda) AFC tests social dynamics stuff with family friendsSounds great, man! Keep up the good work! | /r/seduction | 02/08/10 03:50 AM |
| 1 | Looking for tips on a girl that may not respond to traditional PUA techniques.Despite skinny's funny comment, I think standard PU approaches will work. Silvertongue has a point: it's all into the interpretation and delivery of the PUA. Build enough rapport, be cocky funny, misinterpret her things in sexual/funny ways (not too groty, but some guys have recommended that to me), kino with her (a must or you will risk LJBF), and look at the kino escalation ladder. Hope this helps. | /r/seduction | 02/08/10 02:14 AM |
| 2 | Looking for tips on a girl that may not respond to traditional PUA techniques.I don't think physical attraction is all that big of a drawback if you're charming enough. He probably didn't build enough comfort, and/or was far too aggressive with it. Maybe he's terrible at kino escalation (Go straight for the pants!) or tried something really weird (in her eyes) | /r/seduction | 02/08/10 02:11 AM |
| 1 | Looking for tips on a girl that may not respond to traditional PUA techniques.You're quite the impersonator. | /r/seduction | 02/08/10 02:09 AM |
| 1 | Whats the most procative thing you've ever said to a woman that has paid off?Well, the first was a girl that I've known since grd school and was seeing if I could destroy the friend-zone that we had going on, which I believe I have. I actually don't really want to sleep with her, but I'm pretty sure it's now a possibility. The 2nd is another similar case from highschool. TL;DR: no, but these were not club sets, either. | /r/seduction | 31/07/10 09:21 PM |
| 2 | Asian guys - do you find it harder than white guys to pick up chicks? -Now that seems more in line with what I've seen you say. I fully agree, then. | /r/seduction | 31/07/10 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Going bowling later today, any tips for a beginner?Just like anything, you've gotta do it to get better, no amount of reading will help without experience, right? | /r/seduction | 31/07/10 08:40 PM |
| 18 | Going bowling later today, any tips for a beginner?Don't let your toe go over the line, throw the ball slightly off center of the lead-pin. If you're right handed, aim a little to the right of it; if you're left handed, aim a little to the left of it. Use the arrows near the line as a marker of where you want to start your throw. Edit: Spelling | /r/seduction | 31/07/10 07:54 PM |
| 2 | Asian guys - do you find it harder than white guys to pick up chicks? -It's not a good place to be in, man. I feel for you. I'd say a good bulk of PU is to learn to accept yourself and to be confident, which everyone can use. As a friend of mine said, "Confidence is never wrong!". It's good that you're in therapy, and I hope it helps you. The only recommendation I can give to you now is to be a little more open-minded. What you're saying is true to your experience, just as what we're saying is true to ours. From this, you can see that there are other possibilities … | /r/seduction | 31/07/10 07:53 PM |
| 0 | NEG?I'll accept that. | /r/seduction | 31/07/10 07:45 PM |
| 0 | NEG?Wait, are you male or female? Women initiating the "neg" of stalker to men would be a terrible thing. If the guy initiates, I feel it's digging into Jeffries approach of entering their reality and showing dominance over it, as well as flipping the script. You're demonstrating, if you do it right, that you, too, have had stalkers and don't need another one. Any particularly attractive woman has probably had one or two along the way. | /r/seduction | 31/07/10 07:33 PM |
| 2 | Asian guys - do you find it harder than white guys to pick up chicks? -You seem to have encased yourself in a frame so self-perpetuating and impenetrable from the outside that this whole thread is a colossal waste of time on everybody's part. Yet... I can't help but read it.. | /r/seduction | 31/07/10 07:24 PM |
| 2 | Asian guys - do you find it harder than white guys to pick up chicks? -Wealth? Common man, wealth isn't necessary and from what I've seen you post, you seem like you'd know this. It's not about what you buy or flash around a woman, it's how you make her feel. As Durden put it, Wealth will get a niche set of women just like being extremely jacked will get women. Some women are extremely turned on by it, but it's not a selling point for others. In my opinion, using wealth seems to be a cover-up for your insecurities and forces you to qualify yourself. | /r/seduction | 31/07/10 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Asian guys - do you find it harder than white guys to pick up chicks? -How the hell does this have a positive rating?! | /r/seduction | 31/07/10 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Asian guys - do you find it harder than white guys to pick up chicks? -Props | /r/seduction | 31/07/10 07:18 PM |
| 2 | The Hardest Pickup Situation (Advice necessary)Yeah, don't neg a random customer. I'd suggest having them qualify for you or flipping the script on them (act like they're pursuing you). | /r/seduction | 31/07/10 07:11 PM |
| 3 | Got the phone number, now what?It would seem like you're asking for quite a bit. And by that, I mean that you're literally asking when you should be either telling or suggesting. "Hey! Let's get coffee sometime. Here, put your number in my phone and we'll set something up later" Asking leads to an easy out on her part, and it's much more passive than it is leading. Both will increase the likelihood of her saying "No" | /r/seduction | 31/07/10 07:06 PM |
| 0 | What excites you?Zing! | /r/seduction | 31/07/10 06:55 PM |
| 3 | The female wing man (wing woman/girl?) is the greatest gift God has ever given.From my experience so far, I'm in line with you two more than the OP. So, I typically just go in solo and have her watch from a distance to see what the body language is saying. I use her special female social perspective to make sure my reads of situations are good. Are those girls single or taken? Good, I thought so. etc. Though, if you could find one who was a good support.. man, that'd be liquid gold. | /r/seduction | 31/07/10 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Whats the most procative thing you've ever said to a woman that has paid off?I did a "Lust at first sight" conversation hypnosis routine. Another thing was breaking up with a girl I just met in a joking way. Pulls role-playing into the dynamic and they seem to love that shit. | /r/seduction | 31/07/10 06:50 PM |
| 4 | Whats the most procative thing you've ever said to a woman that has paid off?I think he means the latter. | /r/seduction | 31/07/10 06:48 PM |
| 2 | What excites you?Glad to see your input, it brought a new perspective to the table. I never really thought about how women feel when they get picked up.. but I'm 6'7 and in normal BMI range, so it's usually pretty easy and fun. Man they freak out sometimes, in a good way :P What excites me, currently, is the thrill of the chase. It's just the really dynamic strategy involved that kind of gets me going. Of course, hooking up is fun, but it's the lead-up challenge that decides how worthwhile the end is. Kind of a … | /r/seduction | 31/07/10 06:47 PM |
| 4 | What excites you?So eloquent... | /r/seduction | 31/07/10 06:43 PM |
| 17 | Asian guys - do you find it harder than white guys to pick up chicks? -Apparently, Beggars can be choosers... | /r/seduction | 31/07/10 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Asian guys - do you find it harder than white guys to pick up chicks? -You life weights, which causes micro-tears in the muscle and teach the muscle that it needs to fix them and then some. It does this, and your muscle fibers are thicker, but you have the same number of muscle fibers as you started with. You need a calorie excess to do this. To lose fat, you need to eat less than you burn. You need a calorie defecit to do this. Our bodies aren't efficient enough to build muscle while losing fat unless under extreme circumstances of going from sedentary to active, … | /r/seduction | 31/07/10 06:38 PM |
| 1 | NEG?Possibly, but depends when and how you drop this. Could blow up, but hasn't for me yet. | /r/seduction | 31/07/10 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Should I take a PUA bootcamp?How much is it? And if you think it's worth it, why are you asking us? | /r/seduction | 31/07/10 05:56 AM |
| 3 | Quick question: When did you start having an "I don't give a fuck" attitude when it comes to sarging and playing the game?Def'n of Bravery: It's not being without fear, but doing the right thing despite it. | /r/seduction | 31/07/10 05:31 AM |
| 1 | Lying when demonstrating higher valueSilverback's right | /r/seduction | 31/07/10 05:30 AM |
| -1 | My story.Mind the current, young lad. | /r/seduction | 31/07/10 04:18 AM |
| 1 | My story.Yeah man. Next time, you should man up. Seriously. | /r/seduction | 31/07/10 04:18 AM |
| 2 | My story.Believe me, there are fucked up people just like that. I lived with someone quite similar to him in his acceptance of alternative frames and use of bad logic (Particularly strawmen). | /r/seduction | 31/07/10 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Asian guys - do you find it harder than white guys to pick up chicks? -You aren't from waterloo, ontario, That's for sure. Lotta mixed race couples with asian guys. | /r/seduction | 31/07/10 03:20 AM |
| 1 | Asian guys - do you find it harder than white guys to pick up chicks? -LOL! you're an engineer aren't you? I have a friend just like you who loves strawman attacks too! You don't care about reality, I presume? | /r/seduction | 31/07/10 03:19 AM |
| 1 | Asian guys - do you find it harder than white guys to pick up chicks? -Man, you don't seem to even have a very strong grasp on how weight lifting works... You can condemn the "criticism" if you want, but it has wisdom in it. Attitude always helps or hurts you. Yours is seriously bogging you down. | /r/seduction | 31/07/10 03:12 AM |
| 1 | Hey seddit: Can you help person X with problem Y?!Quite right. It's a skill-set that's applicable to more then just picking up women. | /r/seduction | 31/07/10 03:04 AM |
| 1 | Hey seddit: Can you help person X with problem Y?!It seems to be more of a numbers game. We know the general good approaches, but doesn't mean it'll work on everyone. You have to use your own discretion. Look at the ending of the book "The Game" as an example of how he was pushing her away by playing. Then again, I'm pretty sure that was dramatized to make it have a more satisfying and impactful ending. | /r/seduction | 31/07/10 03:02 AM |
| 5 | Stood up and burnedI agree. You were being far too accommodating, but I'm pretty sure that every guy on here has done this at some point or another in their life. Live and learn, right? Right?! | /r/seduction | 31/07/10 02:53 AM |
| 0 | NEG?When they ask something about you, ask them why they want to know. Work in the word "stalker" when describing their intrusive behaviour. | /r/seduction | 31/07/10 02:08 AM |
| 2 | MN PUA GTFII can confirm this, as well. | /r/seduction | 30/07/10 10:13 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone else met Neil Strauss aka Style? What'd you think of him?The cube? Oh man, a zoot suit would be great for peacocking! ...if that's your bag. | /r/seduction | 28/07/10 06:16 AM |
| 2 | Has anyone else met Neil Strauss aka Style? What'd you think of him?Gotta keep the blades sharp | /r/seduction | 28/07/10 04:38 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone else met Neil Strauss aka Style? What'd you think of him?dead link | /r/seduction | 28/07/10 01:59 AM |
| 8 | He who laughs hardest surrenders his status. Thoughts?Interesting thoughts. I'm not sure I agree, and you might be thinking about the situation a little too much. Just act natural and ingrain confidence into your being. Everything'll be fine from there. Much easier said than done, though. | /r/seduction | 27/07/10 08:13 AM |
| 2 | Using techniques picked up from Seddit I am now feeling guiltyHer boyfriend may not have been a douche at all, but she was putting him down because you were both higher value and she wanted to impress you. Say her level of satisfaction in a boyfriend is a 8, and he's an 8.5. You come along and, to her, are portraying a 9.5. She doesn't have enough initiative to leave her current boyfriend, but you're still better than him. What's a girl to do? Suck up to the higher value guy. | /r/seduction | 27/07/10 08:11 AM |
| 1 | Using techniques picked up from Seddit I am now feeling guiltySoulless bastard! :D | /r/seduction | 27/07/10 08:08 AM |
| 1 | Using techniques picked up from Seddit I am now feeling guiltyHilarious, but not helpful. | /r/seduction | 27/07/10 08:07 AM |
| 3 | Completely suckered. Anger and self-loathing is all I feel.I agree with the above message. Very good. | /r/seduction | 27/07/10 08:01 AM |
| 2 | How to proposition for sex?Here's a good breakdown of the kino ladder for a good reference | /r/seduction | 27/07/10 06:17 AM |
| 0 | How to proposition for sex?I agree with aepr88. Alcohol will just break the trust. She may be leaving in a few weeks, but I assume you want to have sex with her many times, and still maintain the relationship. So, I'd follow what aepr88 said. | /r/seduction | 27/07/10 06:16 AM |
| 1 | Help I'm becoming a hater.Oneitis isn't being in love, it's being infatuated with someone prematurely. It does work when applied to the right situation, but you should figure out where you are in your relationship with the girl and whether you see it going somewhere or not. It can also be interpreted as a hyperbole, too. | /r/seduction | 27/07/10 06:05 AM |
| 2 | Seddit, what does your living space (specifically, your bedroom) look like? Do you do anything special to prepare for visits from women?Proper Fitting Condoms | /r/seduction | 25/07/10 05:32 AM |
| 9 | Seddit, is there any truth in this?I'd like to see that. I'm a psych major and, though this is very crudely written, seems to make some sense in it. I don't think it they cover up the history of each disorder well enough (i.e. potential cause), but I suppose that's irrelevant to the "Stay away!" message. Just Wiki them, it's generally as good as what they say in the texts and DSM, since it uses them as sources. | /r/seduction | 25/07/10 05:22 AM |
| 3 | Downvote me to oblivion but I gotta say it..I think it's more of an ego-sustaining thing. They get hit on, they know they're still where they thought they were. They cease to get hit on, and they start to get insecure. We rise with the water-level, then float there until we notice a leak. | /r/seduction | 24/07/10 06:14 AM |
| 6 | Help I'm becoming a hater.I think he's referencing the "cure" for oneitis | /r/seduction | 24/07/10 02:44 AM |
| 0 | Help I'm becoming a hater.I agree with skinny. | /r/seduction | 24/07/10 02:43 AM |
| 0 | Advice for someone who is just starting with this. What do you think I should focus the most on and what should I ignore?I feel you're misguided. Confidence is not a batting average but a default state. Take away all the noise that tells you you need things and you'd be satisfied with yourself, aka confident. This obviously isn't going to register with you, so I guess I'm wasting my time. | /r/seduction | 22/07/10 11:48 PM |
| 1 | Advice for someone who is just starting with this. What do you think I should focus the most on and what should I ignore?Alright, barring plastic surgery. My point is that confidence should come from within and not externally based. These things are crutches because they involve basing our self-worth on external things - how we look. Plastic surgery or not, your looks will be gone one day. | /r/seduction | 22/07/10 10:24 PM |
| 1 | A pick-up attempt I had with a HB8 at a clothing store.I'm not a woman, but I'd say this would work on me. Case closed! | /r/seduction | 22/07/10 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Advice for someone who is just starting with this. What do you think I should focus the most on and what should I ignore?True..ish. Not all of us are that blessed. | /r/seduction | 22/07/10 05:47 PM |
| 2 | What's some great Transitions?But you're skinny! Of course that works! | /r/seduction | 22/07/10 12:57 AM |
| 3 | Whats the best way to have the "are we exclusive?" talkFully support this! She should want to tie you down because you're so high-in-demand that she wants to make you hers. Don't initiate. | /r/seduction | 21/07/10 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Whats the best way to have the "are we exclusive?" talkBoo! | /r/seduction | 21/07/10 10:40 PM |
| 12 | Girl has boyfriend but is giving me mad IOIs. How to proceed?I think she could think you to be a better option than her current boyfriend, so she bashes him when he's not around and throws herself at you, but doesn't have the balls to leave him. You're high-value, remember that. You don't need this girl, especially if she's trying to swing from tree to tree. Find someone else. | /r/seduction | 21/07/10 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Let's make a big list of date ideas (first dates and day 2s)I agree entirely, also. I think Quazzy's plan sounds ingenious if you're a charming PUA worth his salt. | /r/seduction | 21/07/10 07:52 AM |
| 6 | Let's make a big list of date ideas (first dates and day 2s)yeah, i could see that being really great. She'd eat that shit up with a fork. | /r/seduction | 21/07/10 07:45 AM |
| 1 | Let's make a big list of date ideas (first dates and day 2s)Another great thing is a group called "Toast Masters". I'm pretty sure it's an international group (they're in Canada for sure), and they train you to do public speaking, largely with an improv component. Cheap, too. | /r/seduction | 21/07/10 07:32 AM |
| 1 | girl doesn't date or have relationships??You fucked up by labelling it. I find it safest to just keep things as a get-together or whatever.. just don't label it. You're meeting for a concert, or coffee, or whatever, and things just happen. Things develop, and BAM, you're there. Labeling has never helped anything in my experience - it has only hurt. In the future, just let things go without labeling (i.e. Thanks for a great time). Also.. Paying for her? boo! As for what to do now, I can't see how to fix it other than getting on good ter… | /r/seduction | 21/07/10 07:28 AM |
| 4 | Tips to change my mindset?I think you're approaching this the wrong way, my friend. You should be strong and have unwavering confidence. THAT is the goal, not being centered around the girl. By centering it around them, you're leaving yourself quite vulnerable to external influences and outcomes. The main goal should be to be stable in your confidence by basing it on yourself. A video i'd highly recommend to shatter your current frame would be Tyler Durden's Blueprint Decoded_-_The_Blueprint_Decoded_DVDs). Sure, it's len… | /r/seduction | 21/07/10 07:22 AM |
| 2 | Are IOIs cross-cultural, in your experience?D-Wolf's got it down. Upvoted! | /r/seduction | 21/07/10 06:00 AM |
| 1 | Advice for a speed-dating event?You know, you don't need to pay for speed dating to get practice. Just talk to anyone and everyone around you. In the line at the grocery store? talk to the old lady in front of you (or if it's a hotty and she's looking at the gum, say "HEY! What're you doing?!" as if she's a child that did something wrong, then continue with it), etc. etc. | /r/seduction | 21/07/10 05:53 AM |
| 1 | anger controlFa shao | /r/seduction | 20/07/10 05:17 AM |
| 2 | anger controlI disagree. Studies show that the number one drive of people is to be consistent with who they think they are. The more you do something, the more it's ingrained in your self-concept; the more you lash out and release your anger, the more likely you are to release it at inappropriate times. They actually suggest you find effective coping mechanisms and holding in your rage because it'll lead to better self-control and healthy coping in the future. | /r/seduction | 20/07/10 05:15 AM |
| 1 | How do I defuse a bitchy girl?Oh, that is interesting. I'd probably do the snap just to reinforce that tendency. Can only help. | /r/seduction | 19/07/10 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Am I supposed to go out on my own?Yeah, do it up Cleveland. You sound like a guy who deserve's a good wing. | /r/seduction | 19/07/10 07:04 AM |
| 1 | How do I defuse a bitchy girl?you're missing a vital part of this trick: when you say "Pick a number between 1 (with a hand gesture) and 10 (another hand gesture with your other hand, marking them in the air) then say "say the first thing that comes to your mind, quick! (snapping your fingers around the 7 area at the same time you say "quick") This primes the mind to pick 7 because that's approx where you told her to go, much like the magician's trick of having the card they want you to pick slightly extended from the fanned… | /r/seduction | 19/07/10 06:58 AM |
| 1 | How to Seduce Women - Ethical Seduction Techniques from Carlos XumaWtf do you mean "ethical" seduction techniques? Define what it means to be ethical? Not lying? Other than that, I can't see how they're unethical. | /r/seduction | 18/07/10 09:19 PM |
| 1 | [FR] First approach ever; frustrating obstacles, premature ejectionJapanese fireworks would be so sweet.. But props for training in such a foreign environment.. pretty intense, even without a possible language barrier! | /r/seduction | 18/07/10 08:57 PM |
| 1 | I have lied to someone about my age and got a number, where to from here?I disagree. For one, call her to set up the date, but preface it by texting her during the day some funny, high-response value things (things she wants to respond to), then be the last to receive a text. Wait a couple hours, then call (probably around 6 or 7 (too early to be out, too late to be eating, generally)). So, it all depends on your intent. Do you just want to have sex with her? If so, you could compromise your morals and keep the facade going. Another option would be to take her out un… | /r/seduction | 18/07/10 08:25 PM |
| 4 | [FR] First kiss close ever.The only thing I have to say, really, is that you shouldn't ask to dance, but rather say "let's go dance!" after you've built a little rapport. It takes much more effort to say no to a command than to a question. It's a hypnosis technique too; you make more and more absurd statements, but only to the point where it's easier to go along with it than to say "no" EDIT: Oh yeah, Way to be a downer, eh? Obviously, good job! Keep up the good work! You did a lot of great things, it sounds like! | /r/seduction | 18/07/10 08:12 PM |
| 1 | [FR] First kiss close ever.This has the drawback of easily allowing them to say "no" and making you seem somewhat insecure, so you have to deliver it right. You could rephrase it like "woah, watch out for this one! She seems like she could kill you with a glance!" | /r/seduction | 18/07/10 08:11 PM |
| 1 | [FR] First kiss close ever.Throwing down a challenge! I like. | /r/seduction | 18/07/10 08:10 PM |
| 1 | A totally shitfaced friend of mine pissed of this bartender girl I've had my eyes on. Do you think I can still make this work?Oh god, Even more tons of fail! Sounds like the term "getting lucky" applies thoroughly for any times you've had sex. Asking for what you want? What is this beta garbage? Are you sure you're on the right subreddit? | /r/seduction | 18/07/10 07:14 AM |
| 4 | Seddit: Help would be more than appreciated.The only things i can think to add: The truly powerful are willing to let go of their power and let others take charge temporarily. It is the insecurely powerful that feel the need to constantly crack the whip for fear of losing it. Keep that in mind when being alpha; it's okay to let others lead in the short-term. and The only way to make people trustworthy is to treat them as if they already were. This is not to say that people will always become trustworthy if you treat them with it, but that… | /r/seduction | 18/07/10 06:48 AM |
| 1 | Oh this one is just damn funny. Are you man enough to date tall women? Really? It would be a miracle to get some six foot bitch to date a short guy in the first place! So how is the weather up there?It's not funny in the grande scheme, but probably only in the context of Seddit. Guys here definitely don't have confidence problems that usually deter guys from approaching taller women. Are you tall or are you just relating? Edit: Empathizing* | /r/seduction | 18/07/10 06:38 AM |
| 2 | Oh this one is just damn funny. Are you man enough to date tall women? Really? It would be a miracle to get some six foot bitch to date a short guy in the first place! So how is the weather up there?I'm with ya man. 6'7" right here. | /r/seduction | 18/07/10 06:36 AM |
| 4 | FR: My first night out after discovering the game.I agree with Non-British Wankin. Have a good time and build confidence. I, for one, will never have more than a beer in my system at any given time while on the scene. Feels artificial and takes the edge off, in a bad way. | /r/seduction | 18/07/10 05:20 AM |
| 2 | Holy shit total game changer, forget about success ratesFor sure, man. The catch is that not everyone's going to pick up this information like you or I have. They have to be in a receptive place for this to actually process and not be one of those stupid things you hear from your parents that TURN OUT to be true, but you typically dismiss. Congrats for reaching that higher plane of consciousness; have fun suffering through being dismissed when you're offering people something of great value. So paradoxical. | /r/seduction | 18/07/10 05:18 AM |
| 2 | FR: First time out alone in a long time.Definite Respect. I give you props for soloing. | /r/seduction | 18/07/10 04:52 AM |
| 2 | In defense of canned openersI think the "be yourself" boils down to two different groups, both of which are too far gone to help beginners at the very start. The first group would be unconscious competent people (aka naturals) who, for them, only they have to walk up and talk, like you said. This advice is terrible, though I've been semi-guilty of saying it as I've had that revelation recently. The second group would be those who are so far into PUA info that they can no longer relate, like the naturals, to beginners. The … | /r/seduction | 18/07/10 04:48 AM |
| 1 | Field Report: hilarious, or crazily shocking or both?I vote nay on this one. Girl starts using racist terms around me, she's out. You shouldn't have to put up with closed-minded idiots, female or not. I also think you should never approach this as "pussy is pussy" because that seems rather beta to me, like you should take what you can get because there isn't enough available. There's plenty available, hold out for better shit. | /r/seduction | 18/07/10 04:39 AM |
| 1 | What is Seddit's opinion on holding hands?I'll have to look that up edit: looked it up. seems like a good guideline | /r/seduction | 18/07/10 12:10 AM |
| 9 | Something interesting happened to me on a second date. Anyone have any ideas if this was bullshit?Is it just me, or does it seems like the pronouns are switched from what they should be at points in this story? (he/she, hers/his) Anyway, I agree with ButterBread and the others. He seems beta and somewhat socially inept, so you don't' have anything to worry about other than your lack of control of the situation on your end. You could've encouraged her to go for him because he sounds like a keeper, then asked for his number so you could call to set up a date. She'll obviously resist this shit … | /r/seduction | 17/07/10 04:13 PM |
| 2 | How can I learn Cold Reading?Doing what quazzy suggested can work a bit. Just sit in a place and people watch while trying to make guesses about their character. If you're really bold, you can make your guesses, then go up and ask them a question. A perfect combination would be doing this and Mystery's "opinion" approach. Pick-Up and Coldreading practice all in one! | /r/seduction | 16/07/10 08:59 PM |
| 0 | Advice for someone who is just starting with this. What do you think I should focus the most on and what should I ignore?Upvoted | /r/seduction | 16/07/10 08:57 PM |
| 1 | A totally shitfaced friend of mine pissed of this bartender girl I've had my eyes on. Do you think I can still make this work?lol, you're giving a protip. You clearly don't know much about personality types, either.. | /r/seduction | 16/07/10 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Complaining: To be the shoulder or the wallGood point. Edit: Though, the particular girl that's doing this to me is almost undeniably interested in me. I took her drama complaints (which I stupidly left an opening for her to complain about) and rerouted them into a cat-fight that eventually led to lesbian eroticism, then left when she was laughing about how I twisted the scenario. Best handle on the situation I could see. | /r/seduction | 16/07/10 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Boyfriend breaker Help!!Sage advice. | /r/seduction | 16/07/10 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Boyfriend breaker Help!!Fully agree. Boyfriend breaking is for those who feel there aren't enough high-quality options for them. DHV. | /r/seduction | 16/07/10 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Field report: set of HB10&2xHB9 did not want their picture on a beer bottle.I can see the strengths of both sides. Not being limited to the "gaming locations" would be optimal, but clubbing scenes are a different feel, a bit more intimidating than the outside-club world. In the club, I'd say getting warmed up would be good where doing the 3-approach combo would probably help warm up the night if you show up early. But if you're coming to a club after it's arleady happening, I'd go for the hottest. Option: approaching girls before you get to your desired location and war… | /r/seduction | 16/07/10 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Advice for someone who is just starting with this. What do you think I should focus the most on and what should I ignore?Holy Shit, you're still kicking around here? I haven't seen you post on anything in some time now. WB. But Ok, I'll give you that. Fitness was a core change for me that instigated all this, so I'll agree that it can be very important. Though, I'd argue that taking pride in your appearance, whatever it is, could rival the effects of getting fit. Then again, that's non-falsifiable, so who's to know for sure. | /r/seduction | 16/07/10 07:36 PM |
| 2 | Advice for someone who is just starting with this. What do you think I should focus the most on and what should I ignore?Glad to hear it! | /r/seduction | 16/07/10 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Is this a good example of being "alpha"?DENNIS? | /r/seduction | 16/07/10 07:12 PM |
| 2 | Advice for someone who is just starting with this. What do you think I should focus the most on and what should I ignore?I'm not criticizing you, I'm just saying there are limitations to your approach. The essential breakdown is that you're relying on external factors to make yourself feel good, which may be fine for now, but you'll constantly be searching for your next fix. Don't get me wrong, hitting the gym and dressing better can be nice, but do it for yourself and not for others. | /r/seduction | 16/07/10 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone else read *The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists*Welcome | /r/seduction | 16/07/10 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone else read *The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists*Our very existence is blasphemy! | /r/seduction | 16/07/10 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone else read *The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists*lol, nice amog in that last sentence. | /r/seduction | 16/07/10 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Advice for someone who is just starting with this. What do you think I should focus the most on and what should I ignore?These will work, but they're crutches. Watch "Blueprint decoded" by Durden | /r/seduction | 16/07/10 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Advice for someone who is just starting with this. What do you think I should focus the most on and what should I ignore?You shouldn't ignore anything per se, but for now you would probably be best by picking ~2 theorists, getting a slight handle on them, and just sarging to the extreme. Going for more than that will probably turn you into a keyboard jockey and hinder your development more than anything. I'd recommend going to torrent sites and finding what you can on a combination of Mystery/Ross Jeffries, or DeAngelo/Tyler Durden. | /r/seduction | 16/07/10 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Advice for someone who is just starting with this. What do you think I should focus the most on and what should I ignore?Agreed. | /r/seduction | 16/07/10 06:59 PM |
| 1 | I just found out a girl I met on vacation lives on my city. What should I do next?Seems like you might be coming down with a case of oneitis, man. The most I recommend you do would be to text her something witty and with response value. Read the ultimate texting guide, It's a quick read and helps a lot with this shit. But only one text, and if you don't get a response, write her off. It might be best to write her off now, but you seem set on her for some reason. If she noticed you following her and was actively avoiding you, call it all off now. | /r/seduction | 16/07/10 06:58 PM |
| 2 | Certain types of male friends that can be annoying.Exactly. DHV and ignore them entirely. What they just said shouldn't even process on the radar. | /r/seduction | 16/07/10 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Field report: set of HB10&2xHB9 did not want their picture on a beer bottle.haha You're really into the Mystery Method, eh Cleveland? I agree, though, it seems you gave them too much leeway in your approach, which made you seem lower value than them. Though, DeAngelo would say approaching the hottest girls in the bar is a good tactic because it sets the bar as to what your value is and allows you to have greater opportunity with the other girls in the bar. | /r/seduction | 16/07/10 06:44 PM |
| 2 | what are some best practices for working sets at barsYeah, I agree. Been taking different approaches everytime I go out. Last time, I tried to do the "life of the party" approach, so introducing myself worked out a lot. I ended up meeting over 30 people within the 4 hours I was there, but I can see the drawbacks. Back to the drawing board.. | /r/seduction | 16/07/10 06:26 PM |
| -1 | what are some best practices for working sets at barssheer testicular fortitude Upvoted! edit: formatting error | /r/seduction | 16/07/10 06:18 PM |
| 1 | What is the best source for infield videos?get a decent spywatch and you could do it solo. Sure, you might just get sound, but it's better than nothing, really. | /r/seduction | 16/07/10 06:08 PM |
| 3 | Help me go to warThis could be seen as part beta, part dirty alpha. Probably as dirty as what he did to the OP. A better suggestion would be a little more confrontational, less dirty, but probably just as effective. Here's what I propose: Contact the guy and shake his confidence: "just you wait til you hear what I have in store for you tonight!" then detail the above plan set out by DeliciousWolf and tell him you've already gone through with it (the parts before meeting, obviously). This will shake him (enhancin… | /r/seduction | 16/07/10 07:49 AM |
| 1 | Need advice on making quick/interesting/witty responses to shit test type questions/remarkshahah so you don't get laid from this one woman! I'd say winning the game is all that much sweeter when you've earned it. | /r/seduction | 16/07/10 07:15 AM |
| 3 | Last day of the year - advice neededWalk up and introduce yourself | /r/seduction | 16/07/10 06:17 AM |
| 1 | Need advice on making quick/interesting/witty responses to shit test type questions/remarksIgnoring works, but I always found shit tests to be the most interesting part of pickup. It's like verbal chess. | /r/seduction | 16/07/10 06:14 AM |
| 2 | Need advice on making quick/interesting/witty responses to shit test type questions/remarks1) instead of hesitating say "hmmmm... a 1 and a half!" as a joke. If they ever ask how old you think they are, guess waay out there in the extremes (7! 45!). Then stick with your original thing in a joking way and jokingly insist that that's what you really vote on. Then get them to do the same thing to you. Or, if you hadn't responded right and her friend got that "you must not be very high on his ratings!" thing out, go with it. "Yeah! You got me! I only hang out with uggo's in order to pump … | /r/seduction | 16/07/10 06:13 AM |
| 2 | Feeling good about myself after a 3 month follow up. Also, seeing a band-mates daughter? [I'd recommend being upfront about it; Sneaking around will just make you seem shady and come off wrong, despite having good intentions (assuming they're there). Trust me, I've learned this the hard way. | /r/seduction | 16/07/10 05:36 AM |
| 4 | What is Seddit's opinion on holding hands?lol | /r/seduction | 16/07/10 05:33 AM |
| 2 | what are some best practices for working sets at barsHonestly, I've lost interest entirely in pick-up lines. What I find works is just walking up with confidence, looking them in the eye and unfalteringly saying "Hello, my name is ____" then going from there. If the conversation wanes, just relax, enjoy the scene and she might re-engage. If you feel like bailing, give them a stupid test: Quick! Chocolate-covered almonds or chocolate-covered raisins?! Choose carefully, your chances all ride on this! (then give them a hard time on whatever they pick… | /r/seduction | 16/07/10 05:09 AM |
| 1 | Overcoming apathyI agree with this, though DogisAJD could be right with the call on depression. Find some purpose and go for it. | /r/seduction | 16/07/10 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Making sure a specific girl shows up at a party?Very true. Put blueprint into action tonight (aka just being confident and talking to people) and I was on fire. Unstoppable. | /r/seduction | 15/07/10 07:20 AM |
| 1 | Making sure a specific girl shows up at a party?I'd recommend Tyler Durden's "blueprints decoded" for inner game, but it's a bit more advanced and might not be good for a beginner. | /r/seduction | 15/07/10 12:39 AM |
| 2 | good opener at the bar while waiting to get served.Your question is hilarious. | /r/seduction | 14/07/10 07:23 AM |
| 2 | good opener at the bar while waiting to get served.There might be, but I agree that the line is perfectly acceptable and harmless. | /r/seduction | 14/07/10 07:13 AM |
| 5 | good opener at the bar while waiting to get served.I think you're just wussing out, to be honest. Any of the above consequences are acceptable risks - and small ones at that. They could all happen from ANY approach. You seem to just be looking for an excuse to not take action. | /r/seduction | 14/07/10 07:13 AM |
| 1 | Is going to prom with the Senior Class President considered a big deal?No. No it does not. Your attitude and demeanor make up for that, and it would seem that you do not have it. | /r/seduction | 13/07/10 07:20 AM |
| 1 | I Think I Was Just Hit On. What Should I Do In This Situation?and that means? | /r/seduction | 13/07/10 05:55 AM |
| 2 | I Think I Was Just Hit On. What Should I Do In This Situation?What's wrong with "what's your poison"? Haven't you ever heard people say "pick your poison" in reference to alcohol? | /r/seduction | 13/07/10 03:52 AM |
| 1 | this is a stupid site, but it has some serious potential. help them out by contributing and voting!Those lines are terrible.. | /r/seduction | 13/07/10 03:48 AM |
| 1 | on being sexual... or somethingDone | /r/seduction | 13/07/10 01:35 AM |
| 1 | David DeAngelo's "Sexual Communication"Someone suggest I submit this as a link, so here it is. | /r/seduction | 13/07/10 01:33 AM |
| 1 | What is your best way to deal with AMOG?Ninjalpha'd! Sounds like a pretty good schtick. I'll try it, thanks | /r/seduction | 12/07/10 06:33 PM |
| 1 | For those looking to get a fix of Chick Cracklol, I just said something like "nah, I'm cool" | /r/seduction | 12/07/10 06:30 PM |
| 4 | Seduction: long story, but my gf and I of about four years "downgraded" our relationship and are going to get seperate places - while still being "more than friends" with benefits.Come from a place of abundance. Flirt with other girls, meet new girls, meet more people in general, and be "that guy" who everyone wishes they were. She'll see you as very valuable and will come to you more, while you'll have to do less with her specifically. Ultimate win. | /r/seduction | 11/07/10 07:05 PM |
| 0 | How do I stop being beta on the road?This might help. | /r/seduction | 11/07/10 02:43 AM |
| 2 | Tell me to snap out of itThe best thing you can do right now is pull a pheonix: Disappear for a while until the memory fades a bit, see other girls, then re-emerge in all your sexual glory. Key part is to see other girls. Or, the typically suggested cure is to sleep with 10 other women then see if she's still so special. | /r/seduction | 11/07/10 01:03 AM |
| 1 | How do you AMOG?link? | /r/seduction | 10/07/10 09:41 PM |
| 2 | working on my roommate's friendsor use sexual inuendos and double entendres and say something about how they'd have to earn it and that you're not that easy. That's pretty vague.. What I mean is to take their statements and call them perverted if it can be taken in a sexual way. Then when they try to deflect it back onto you, point out that they're the one that said it. Or, you can say something that is highly sexual but pretend it's not. She's going to have a shower? Say "try not to think about me when you're naked, hot, and … | /r/seduction | 10/07/10 08:28 PM |
| 1 | How do you AMOG?Well, I just so happen to be in luck! a level Over 9000 is currently in stock! :D | /r/seduction | 10/07/10 06:27 PM |
| 0 | I need some self-confidence for todayI second that. Approach now or never. | /r/seduction | 10/07/10 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Meeting randoms: how do you say you're interested in friendships, not flings?Pretty original. I like the idea. Upped! | /r/seduction | 10/07/10 05:03 PM |
| 1 | Meeting randoms: how do you say you're interested in friendships, not flings?That really does seem to be the case, sadly. | /r/seduction | 10/07/10 05:01 PM |
| 4 | Meeting randoms: how do you say you're interested in friendships, not flings?This should work, but some PUA's use boyfriend busters. He's right, keep your hands to yourself. Also, obviously don't say the sexually explicit "boyfriend" story, as this will give mixed messages. Also, another forewarning: they'll confused to fuck as to why you're there. | /r/seduction | 10/07/10 04:58 PM |
| 2 | PUAs of Reddit, what are some good day-game openers to use at a pool?What about her fly? edit: wait, she's wearing pants around the pool?? | /r/seduction | 10/07/10 05:31 AM |
| 1 | PUAs of Reddit, what are some good day-game openers to use at a pool?Just be sure not to continue with the questions like that. Relate to your own stories, raz her about things, etc. or else it's Interview Mode Initiated! | /r/seduction | 10/07/10 05:28 AM |
| 1 | PUAs of Reddit, what are some good day-game openers to use at a pool?Dually agreed. It is a nice line, though :P | /r/seduction | 10/07/10 05:26 AM |
| 1 | Seddit, Blown off for second date. Then she returns.oh no sorry not mad just been a little distracted. seems rather weak. Don't apologize, do as stated above and don't even acknowledge the "mad" comment. | /r/seduction | 10/07/10 05:22 AM |
| 2 | Used my umbrella as an opener, neg, and lock in prop during a day set todayNeed this be stated? I say we give him the benefit of the doubt in the oneitis assumption | /r/seduction | 09/07/10 11:31 PM |
| 2 | Used my umbrella as an opener, neg, and lock in prop during a day set todayVery nice. Props! | /r/seduction | 09/07/10 11:30 PM |
| 2 | on being sexual... or somethingDavid DeAngelo's talk on Sexual Communication | /r/seduction | 09/07/10 11:06 PM |
| 1 | on being sexual... or somethingWait, Nice Guy or Nice Guy? | /r/seduction | 09/07/10 11:04 PM |
| 1 | First Field Test and a Call to arms for PUA in Waterloo, OntarioAre you leaving permanently or just on co-op for the fall term? I'm out of town for the spring term. | /r/seduction | 09/07/10 10:55 PM |
| 2 | For those looking to get a fix of Chick CrackSooo WEIRD! I'M a gemini! | /r/seduction | 09/07/10 07:18 PM |
| 2 | First Field Test and a Call to arms for PUA in Waterloo, OntarioYour logic doesn't check out, but you can mentally knock them down a couple ranks if you feel the need. | /r/seduction | 09/07/10 07:12 PM |
| 3 | First Field Test and a Call to arms for PUA in Waterloo, OntarioShe wasn't against it and told me I did a good job, seemed very confident when walking around. So I called her a stalker, watching me around the bar. She said she got into it because she'd be used a lot and wanted to know why she fell for douchebags. | /r/seduction | 09/07/10 07:09 PM |
| 2 | Two-for-one Field Report special!Props! I'm going to sound like a broken record because this is thrown around a lot, but it wasn't the theory doing the work, it was the one applying it. Take some credit, you did great! | /r/seduction | 09/07/10 07:58 AM |
| 14 | Just starting, what did I do wrong with this one...By eye game do you mean that she would glance your way, notice you were looking, then look away? I think she may've just been uncomfortable with you looking at her, and kept looking at you because you caught her eye by looking directly at her. After that, you proceeded to pull a pretty AFC move of following her to her work and abruptly asking for her phone number. I think you were at a disadvantage at this point already, but it probably wouldn't have gone too well with that approach either way. … | /r/seduction | 09/07/10 07:49 AM |
| 3 | For those looking to get a fix of Chick CrackWorks either way. Field tested it tonight and got some pretty decent responses. Women just throw their hands at you even if they think it's the dumbest thing ever. Some guys wanted me to do it, too... | /r/seduction | 09/07/10 07:09 AM |
| 2 | Seduction feels...weirddefine manipulation, sir | /r/seduction | 08/07/10 09:32 PM |
| 1 | For those looking to get a fix of Chick CrackYeah, just a good guideline. Pun! | /r/seduction | 08/07/10 09:29 PM |
| 5 | For those looking to get a fix of Chick CrackI second that. But until then, amaze and astound with bullshit! :D | /r/seduction | 08/07/10 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Don't know how to "fractionate"? Watch this video; it contains many of the elements used in fractionation.lol you enjoyed watching them cry? I'm confused as to why they're crying.. He got back up! He's committed! Hooray! Sob | /r/seduction | 08/07/10 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Feeling... OverwhelmedVery well put, sir. | /r/seduction | 07/07/10 08:07 PM |
| 1 | The Shit-Test Game; A Forum Game for SedditTell, don't ask. | /r/seduction | 07/07/10 03:52 AM |
| 1 | The Shit-Test Game; A Forum Game for SedditYou can smell the sarcasm | /r/seduction | 07/07/10 03:50 AM |
| 1 | The Shit-Test Game; A Forum Game for Sedditoh man, that's great | /r/seduction | 07/07/10 03:48 AM |
| 1 | What is your best way to deal with AMOG?I understand where you're coming from and I agree. However, I'm looking for possible solutions that'll work just-in-case. It's not going to stop me from doing what I'm doing, I'm just looking for some sort of insulation from it to stop me from being blown out | /r/seduction | 06/07/10 11:59 PM |
| 8 | If a women FEELS good around you, she will be attracted to you. If she FEELS like you are of high status, you ARE high status.Non-falsifiable statement | /r/seduction | 06/07/10 03:55 AM |
| 1 | Field Report: Just not sure if I've got attractionSeems like we have someone who's not into PUA and is commenting on Seddit.. | /r/seduction | 05/07/10 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Best canned openers for use in public transport?True, but depends on where you are. Toronto way, yes.. people will think you're weird. I was lost in toronto and asked a woman directions and she was friendly but said something like "you're not from here, are you?" facepalm | /r/seduction | 05/07/10 06:50 PM |
| 2 | Best canned openers for use in public transport?I'm with you, but I expect ridiculousness, so I found it funny | /r/seduction | 05/07/10 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Out working game on other girls, but still emotionally attached with oneitis.No. Don't try. Do. Under think this and, I'm not usually to this line of thinking but, think with the wrong head. Be like Nike. | /r/seduction | 05/07/10 06:36 PM |
| 4 | Out working game on other girls, but still emotionally attached with oneitis.Then don't make it obvious that you're coming onto her. Don't label things as dates or coming onto her! If you have a moment where you could lean in to kiss her, do it! If she backs off you could just say that it felt right or some bullshit about chemistry, etc. I'm wondering if it's even possible to have your inner world not affect your outer world. Even if you think you're being entirely veiled, something will give it away, even if it's awkward motions, tense body language, etc. Essentially, y… | /r/seduction | 05/07/10 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Ideas for openers/negs that work on men?hahah I suppose we're in the same boat edit: on the lack of knowledge, not gender | /r/seduction | 30/06/10 03:47 AM |
| 1 | Ideas for openers/negs that work on men?Agreed. | /r/seduction | 30/06/10 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Ideas for openers/negs that work on men?I agree with monkeyboy. Also, it would seem you don't have the classiest of friends. | /r/seduction | 30/06/10 02:02 AM |
| 1 | Ideas for openers/negs that work on men?That is probably the least useful response here. | /r/seduction | 30/06/10 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Ideas for openers/negs that work on men?Smart, yes; Talented, not necessarily, but it doesn't hurt; Confident? Well, that's what we can help bestow through advice. Majority of PUA seems to be bestowing confidence and proper framing. | /r/seduction | 30/06/10 01:58 AM |
| 2 | Ideas for openers/negs that work on men?Yeah, that would be a more specific version of what she's looking for, I'd say. But after rephrasing it, why didn't you answer it? | /r/seduction | 30/06/10 01:56 AM |
| 1 | Ideas for openers/negs that work on men?I liked you in "Up in the air"! | /r/seduction | 30/06/10 01:54 AM |
| 1 | I shot down a girl I like, and now she won't talk to me.Agreed. Maybe "openly flirting" was the wrong term.. | /r/seduction | 28/06/10 07:32 PM |
| 1 | PUAHate.com: an entire forum full of AFCs and chicks bitching about PUAs. (Possibly NSFW)Cahoots, NJ of course. Why would they ever be in MS? | /r/seduction | 28/06/10 10:37 AM |
| 1 | I shot down a girl I like, and now she won't talk to me.Honestly, I think the worst thing you did was apologize, especially for such a trivial thing. For one, never apologize. It's low value. The only time to apologize is when you've legitimately fucked up and you value the relationship. For two, you blew the game you could've built off such a.. bizarre message. A good approach would be like what MyNewName said: "They go around having one-night pokes, without meaning anything to the person." Right now, you need to work on your framing. Stop seeing th… | /r/seduction | 28/06/10 10:20 AM |
| 1 | I shot down a girl I like, and now she won't talk to me.I second that last paragraph. You didn't screw up, you just ran an experiment and found sub-optimal results. Collect your data, interpret it, and move on, modifying your variables as you go. | /r/seduction | 28/06/10 10:13 AM |
| 0 | I shot down a girl I like, and now she won't talk to me.Boo! Move on! Show her you're valuable and don't need her. Enjoy yourself with other women, demonstrate your value. Valuable property doesn't sell to the first bidder, but the highest one - which comes after a long series of sequentially higher bids :P | /r/seduction | 28/06/10 10:07 AM |
| 1 | I shot down a girl I like, and now she won't talk to me.Another approach is to use facebook as social proof. Constantly add girls, flirt with girls on facebook, setup dates on it as well. You're hot property, you're not commited, this brings in the scarcity principle. They'd better get while the getting's good or they'll be out of luck. | /r/seduction | 28/06/10 10:05 AM |
| 1 | How do I communicate that I don't want a relationship?Hear, hear. Man up and tell them if it comes up. Otherwise, it's her fault for not asking. Buyer beware. | /r/seduction | 28/06/10 09:59 AM |
| 2 | Thought I was good, but nothing came to fruition!I agree. The only way I could see that being improved is if he had said "you must be excited to hear from me" or something that framed it in a more confident way, otherwise I don't see anything wrong with what he said. | /r/seduction | 28/06/10 09:57 AM |
| 1 | PickUp MaterialYou, sir, are a Prince! | /r/seduction | 28/06/10 09:34 AM |
| 4 | Sorry for the enthusiasmI agree. You are future with women looks bright! | /r/seduction | 28/06/10 09:28 AM |
| 2 | Sorry for the enthusiasmGold, as usual. | /r/seduction | 28/06/10 09:27 AM |
| 1 | Seddit, give me some texting advice.Agreed. Do not hold conversations or it's the null zone for you | /r/seduction | 28/06/10 06:03 AM |
| 3 | Seddit, give me some texting advice.I think you're missing some beautiful opportunities with texting. In his current situation, some well placed, short, witty texts will get her thinking, and feeling good, about him. No conversations, though. | /r/seduction | 28/06/10 06:00 AM |
| 3 | Seddit, give me some texting advice.What a fool! GL with that attitude. | /r/seduction | 28/06/10 05:58 AM |
| 3 | Seddit, give me some texting advice.Hear, Hear! | /r/seduction | 28/06/10 05:55 AM |
| 1 | Advice on some common roadblocksOh, so I did. Thanks for the correction. | /r/seduction | 22/06/10 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Advice on some common roadblocksImage management is an essential thing. By saying he might be busy, he's increasing his value because he's covertly supplying social proof - a very powerful, valuable commodity. | /r/seduction | 14/06/10 08:24 PM |
| 1 | So I have numbers, what now?To quote Ross Jeffries: There are no failures; You either get what you want, or you refine your knowlege about how to get what you want. | /r/seduction | 08/06/10 07:11 AM |
| 2 | I have a female who just wants to be friends. What is the best way to establish an ultimatum that it is not what I want?Nah, I'm just making fun of him for being a fucking idiot. GJ on your part, though he may've been a troll. | /r/seduction | 08/06/10 07:02 AM |
| 1 | I have a female who just wants to be friends. What is the best way to establish an ultimatum that it is not what I want?LOL! Running with the Wolf! He got you good, Monolith! You'd best admit you're wrong now! | /r/seduction | 08/06/10 01:22 AM |
| 1 | So was that a shit test?Wow, you're really good at blowing that thing! :D | /r/seduction | 01/06/10 04:36 PM |
| 1 | The Shit-Test Game; A Forum Game for SedditTranslation: Pick me because we're both desperate and lonely. Lame | /r/seduction | 01/06/10 06:08 AM |
| 1 | The Shit-Test Game; A Forum Game for SedditBoo Urns | /r/seduction | 01/06/10 01:37 AM |
| 1 | How to respond to a common comment.Oh man! awesome! | /r/seduction | 01/06/10 01:30 AM |
| 15 | How to respond to a common comment.This man knows how to get laid! | /r/seduction | 31/05/10 10:57 PM |
| 2 | How to respond to a common comment.Confident for sure, but lacks zest. | /r/seduction | 31/05/10 10:57 PM |
| 14 | How to respond to a common comment.A simple side-step, but still addressing it could work: Her: "OMG do you straighten/blowdry your hair!?" You: "If you had to guess, what would you say?" then, no matter what she answers, razz her on it. "I don't think you straighten it" "really? you think this looks this good naturally?" so, you're not addressing it directly, but you're having fun with it. Eventually, she'll probably try to squeeze it out of you. At that point, it's your choice to say "You'll never know; It's a secret" or actual… | /r/seduction | 31/05/10 10:56 PM |
| 1 | My analysis on the success of PUA strategiesPretty elaborate flamebate if it is. | /r/seduction | 31/05/10 10:42 PM |
| 3 | My analysis on the success of PUA strategiesI agree with everything above. In addition, most of the effect of PU theory is to come off as confident. Saying it simply makes you more confident or the "tricks" work would be erroneous or extremely difficult to even tease them apart because the whole system is to come off as an in control, high-value person - AKA a confident person. In turn, acting confident will make someone feel more confident and creating a reverse a vicious cycle. | /r/seduction | 31/05/10 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Field Report: Blown out mid set for unknown reasonSounds like you missed the boat, stud. It would seem you've lost some of the air in your sails and are holding yourself back. Just put yourself out there and see where it takes you is all I can say. I also agree with melbatoast. | /r/seduction | 31/05/10 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Field Report: Blown out mid set for unknown reasonBut of course, the cheeky smile :P | /r/seduction | 31/05/10 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Caring about the process *too* much?It seems to me like you've become too confident in your ability and feel that everyone is open to you, that they know of your ability and will do what you want without your trying. It is tempting to fall into once you've had a lot of success, but I suppose you know the choice you have to make: keep playing the game as it's always been played, or try to quirk it up with your new approach and get some thrills. Find a real freak and you'll be golden. | /r/seduction | 30/05/10 04:34 AM |
| 1 | This is brilliant, that chick fucking NAILED IT. That is the perfect response to that kind of question: you need two words, and two words only, here they are.It's really not. | /r/seduction | 29/05/10 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Told a girl wearing a fedora that she had a good Justin Timberlake look going onSo? | /r/seduction | 29/05/10 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Advice needed: Not scared of women. But more scared get more involved/close the deal. Here's what is stopping me...Very good advice. There are billions of women out there; ditch the superficial bitches and realize that it's not your loss if they can't handle your situation. | /r/seduction | 29/05/10 10:55 PM |
| 2 | Advice needed: Not scared of women. But more scared get more involved/close the deal. Here's what is stopping me...Agreed. Monkey's have spoken. | /r/seduction | 29/05/10 10:53 PM |
| 1 | Sticking points to my gameAgreed. | /r/seduction | 29/05/10 10:50 PM |
| 1 | Ending a text conversation + flirty smileysI wasn't being sarcastic, I'm entirely serious. Thanks for the input! | /r/seduction | 29/05/10 10:46 PM |
| 1 | That's ItYoutube: ross jeffries General: david deangello Books: How to win friends and influence people by dale carnegie (look for the real book, this is just a brief summary) the ultimate texting guide | /r/seduction | 29/05/10 10:00 PM |
| 2 | Ending a text conversation + flirty smileysYou shouldn't be having a conversation to begin with. edit: not a full conversation, just quick, witty banter. | /r/seduction | 29/05/10 09:56 PM |
| 3 | Ending a text conversation + flirty smileysThey may be in contribution to other beta behaviours | /r/seduction | 29/05/10 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Ending a text conversation + flirty smileysAwesome that we can get some real female input here and not just male speculation :P | /r/seduction | 29/05/10 09:54 PM |
| 2 | Ending a text conversation + flirty smileysYou'd actually promote putting just a smiley face? That seems just as bad as your bad example. I'd suggest something cocky/teasing in such a situation: Her: "hey, wanna get together?" You: "Only if you promise not to embarass me in public :P" The face I put is just to make sure she knows you're jokingly being an asshole; it's not for approval, just tone. Also, you're making it seem like you have the power in the situation. | /r/seduction | 29/05/10 09:53 PM |
| 4 | Ending a text conversation + flirty smileysYou should want to "Win" the text. The goal of texting should never be to hold a conversation. You call or meet up for such activities; texting is for getting her to think about you. That being said, you also want her to think of you in a positive light. You want to keep everything on a high-note, quick, witty/teasing, positive, and have high respondability. That is, you want it to be something she's both capable of responding to and wants to respond to. Once you have all of those components, tr… | /r/seduction | 29/05/10 09:48 PM |
| 2 | Is it beta-behavior to be want to be chased?Props. Voted up. | /r/seduction | 29/05/10 03:54 PM |
| 1 | why do guys have to go through all this sh*t?Agreed. It's easy to compare yourself to other people. You will always be able to find how someone else has it easier than you. That hobo? He has no responsibility. That legless man? Doesn't have to worry about pants. Learn the rules of the game so you can play efficiently because, as breakneckridge says, you can't change 'em. | /r/seduction | 29/05/10 03:50 PM |
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