Text Messages Dying

mnmnpau · 2010-08-03T04:24:01+00:00

How long has it been since the last text?

Convo 1: You're talking about the weather. Would you want to respond to a text like that?

Convo 2: Oh boy are you showing your interest. You note the time since she last texted you. (Dude, she's playing the same game we are. Wait forever, so you don't seem needy). If anything, it should be her noting the time. Secondly, she's DHVng you with the friend and I don't remember saying that remarks. Aka your friend is a loser for moving to that location. Boy you sure remember a lot about me; must mean I am worth remembering. YOU HAVE TO REFRAME.

Box-Monkey · 2010-08-03T07:07:29+00:00

My read: Convo 1: you're putting in way more effort than her, you arne't saying anything with real response value or involving her, and you left her hanging. Try opening with something that relates to the night before and is both something playful and something she wants to respond to. Make a cheeky question or something.

Convo 2: You're writing essays, again. Try to be james bond. You say cheeky, sly things and only occasionally throw in a ;) or :P or, if you dare, a ;P. That being said, use them to show that you're joking and do not laugh in the exchange. no "lol"'s or "rofl"s or "hahaha"s. That's for the woman to do, and for you to maintain your composure. Your last message had no response value. It was a statement and kind of lost steam at that point.

At this point, I think you have two options:

1) move on and see if they message you ever again

or

2) text again using the above guidelines. Engage them. Be entertaining. End the conversation by getting them to concede something ridiculous that you propose (like you being utterly awesome), and the only possible response for you to say would be "yeah! lol" or some shit. Cut it there and leave them waiting for your response. It'll leave them wondering when/if you're going to respond and wanting more.

fleaflicker51 · 2010-08-03T15:42:34+00:00

There was some text game pdf posted here a while back. Dig through and find it. Escalate the text to phone to IRL to fclose.

cosmicsharp · 2010-08-04T05:11:14+00:00

Q: Your problem?

A: You're WAY too logical!!

Texting isn't a way to have a real conversation, it's a means to set up a day 2. In fact, it's way better to call for that since getting a girl to meet thru text can be difficult unless she's head over heels for you.

Your first text should be something funny or exciting and should show your intent, unless you want to end up being her friend. The way I see it, these girls were looking to get fucked that night and you pussied out by getting the # (I could be wrong). That's strike one. Then you go from being that guy they wanted to fuck to the guy talking about the weather!

What I've found works best for me is text something completely illogical and fun the first time like "Butterflies are blue :)" then just be super playful and non-needy the next 3-4 texts. Then depending on how much she's into you either text (super into you) or call (not that into you) to set up the meeting. You shouldn't be having this meaningless smalltalk with girls who wanna bang you. Keep it to the point.

I would also venture to guess that you are not being very direct/sexual in your game. You have to let the girl know your intentions from the get-go. You're not there to be her friend or talk about the weather or her school work. You're there to be a man and dominate her. SHE is there to bang you. Make it happen!

mnmnpau · 2010-08-03T04:23:32+00:00

Double post.

strongoaktree · 2010-08-03T22:54:16+00:00

Call them out on it.

tarlack · 2010-08-05T06:18:37+00:00

Stop txting and call if you have not done already done so, Txt is fun to flirt but you need to make a connection with a girl. If you have only txt you are showing poor social skills, and that is lover value.

I have found some girls just suck at txting.

Title	Text Messages Dying
Author	mysedditaccount
Upvotes	4
Comments	11
Date	August 3, 2010 3:36 AM UTC (16 years ago)
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