Confidence that's not on display

OUTLANDAH · 2014-02-01T08:07:44+00:00

That they have taken on the archetype of the quite, mysterious person. You they are quite and shy, but when they speak you are often intrigued and know they posses a certain confidence in what they talk about, but they are an extreme introvert.

coughcoughpow · 2014-02-01T08:51:43+00:00

Well...in my opinion you can't do this in a vacuum. Guys with deep inner confidence usually have something going for them. When problems happen, they're not a big deal because they have something that they fall back on.

It's not like you can just display inner confidence - I could be wrong - but usually it's like...

Art/music - girls might be fun but they'll never replace the enjoyment I get out of artistic pursuits.
Money/power - yes, that is a cute girl but I fuckin' move mountains with the flick of a finger
Girls - Yes, you are a cute girls but I have lots and it's not a big deal
Yourself - I'm 1,000,000 times able to entertain myself, why do I need other people?

As far as physical attributes go, it's still like this:

Eye contact - steady
Body language - relaxed
Tonality - don't say "um or uh"
Slow, steady movements, not fidgeting
Able to get other people on their side

There are all sorts of "alpha" types, I believe. But, at their core, it's the guy who will won't crack under pressure. Like...examine all the alphas, they're all still going to have the inner mental statement of "I'M THE FUCKIN' KING OF THE WORLD"

I know an artist who makes random egg-carton sculptures, doesn't bathe or shave. He's immensely quiet but he always has girlfriends. He's really sort of mumbles. Put him on the spot and he won't get rattled. Not my style but it works for him.

OUTLANDAH · 2014-02-01T08:57:31+00:00

Yes it is. But, like I said it depends on what you are going after. At this point I've said more to you than you have me. I myself am introvert, like said, but I'm able to play a game if I want to. And when I do I go straight for the jugular per-say. If you're just looking to pick up women than be fake about it: women want sex as much as men, if you're looking to impress a girl that you genuinely like then be yourself and try and just relay/talk to her, if it doesn't work out then that's the end.

May I ask how old your are?

Title	Confidence that's not on display
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Date	February 1, 2014 8:06 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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