this is one word we have all heard over and over again. I have heard that confidence is the key to success, and let me tell you it really is! the other day I was at a bar with a friend, we were sitting in the booth, when two girls came and sat close enough to us. my friend is not shy at all and started a conversation with one of them she was 8/10 the other was a 7/10. right after he made conversation with the 8, I immediately noticed the other friend made a face kind of like saying "go away please" I knew that my friend was going to get cock blocked any second. so I stood up and my friend immediately introduced me to them. I felt the same reaction when I shook the friends hand. this girl just did not look happy to talk to us. my we both talked to the 8 for about 3 minutes. she was actually really friendly and cool. my friend asked her if there is something wrong with her friend and if she was okay, or mad? she just said she doesnt usually talk to people; so I said fuck it im going to go talk to her. I moved to her side and started to have a conversation with her. long story short we talked for like an hour, took her number, and got a kiss close at the end of the night. two nights later we were texting and she tells me. " you know what I really liked about you", I said "what?", she replies " that you have a lot of confidence", I asked her " why do you say that?" she says "because even though I had that sign in my forehead saying don't talk to me, you still had the confidence to come talk to me, and didn't care about my shitty attitude". this really made me think that confidence is the key to everything. just don't give a fuck about a girls initial reaction, just go for in with confidence and don't let her shit tests get a reaction out of you.