Cooking classes and women

One-Assignment-4156 · 2026-05-16T08:04:29+00:00

Walmart is a pretty good spot. Always women there, for sure.

tattooedpanhead · 2026-05-15T21:12:10+00:00

Taking classes is a good way to meet people who have the same interest as you. But I would only go with the intention to have fun and learn. No expectations.

And some things might only appeal to older people. But those older women know other women. And it's good practice to talk to these women. The more women you talk to the easier it gets.

hunterpua · 2026-05-16T07:23:58+00:00

All of this is assuming you actually pick a class that has the demographic you're interested in:

A lot of people confuse how to navigate meeting women to date in these environments because they're used to the pace and practices of the most popular methods like dating apps, daygame, and night game and get confused why that doesn't work in a class.

There's also the fact that most guys don't really know how to flirt. The extent of most men's seductive ability is showing interest.

So of course if you carry all of that to a class it'll be difficult.

So instead of going into one session, talking to one girl you're interested in and then trying to ask her out in that same session, what you want to do instead is just build rapport with everyone, be playful and mess with them, light heartedly challenge them, and flirt with all the girls.

If that last part sounded wrong or you imagine it would cause trouble that's only because your idea of flirting is a lot more blatant than it actually is.

I used to flirt with the female security guards when I worked in an office.

To really understand what flirting is, try to think about how women flirt.

There's a reason they can be so subtle that a lot of guys miss it entirely. Ambiguity is a lot more seductive than certainty.

When a girl flirts she doesn't ask you out, she's says, "You're kind of a dork [pause to let you react before she cuts you off]...chicks dig that" while she winks at you and walks away.

It helps to think of flirting like a movie trailer.

Crappy flirting is like a trailer that pretty much summarizes the entire movie and makes you wonder what's the point of even going to see it.

Good flirting is like a trailer that intrigues and excites you and gets you stoked to see the movie but leaves you with more questions than answers so that you can't wait to go see the movie.

When you have that dynamic with the entire group, it becomes a lot easier to pull every girl there.

And you can take your time with this. You don't have to establish all of that in a single session.

But once you have good rapport, you can start making plans with the group to hang out outside of class. Maybe to get drinks, or if it's a cooking class, I'm sure they would appreciate a good restaurant.

At that point I've had experiences where only one girl can hang out at the end of the class and I take her straight back to my place and we just have sex.

I've also had situations where I genuinely intended to just go with her for something she has to do but then we find an isolated spot and end up making out.

This is how you handle classes and generally situations where you have more time to hang out. I also did this in gyms and college classes.

It doesn't matter that they don't go to a class to date. They're human, they get horny, they feel attraction, you just have to navigate things correctly instead of making things awkward by attempting a direct cold approach inside a class. Multiple generations before us met their partners like this.

norwegiandoggo · 2026-05-15T19:47:18+00:00

I think "classes" are not the best place to meet women for dating.

Most women go to classes because they're interested in classes. Not meeting men.

When women want to meet men for dating, they typically do a few things:

They go on dating-apps
They go to bars and nightclubs, often with some other female friends for security and added fun.
They go to social events and parties, such as Halloween parties (or any other holiday), concerts, festivals, shows, galeries, food festivals etc. Any social event where there is a strong implied assumption that you're open to meeting new people there.

Some classes could be more social and single-friendly. Such as salsa dancing is a classic one that everyone knows about. And there are also some others that are typically more adventurous, like Scuba diving or Bouldering / Climbing.

Cooking classes could work, but it should probably not be your first choice in places to meet women imo. Cooking classes are often attended by married pairs or couples that want to do something romantic together. It's also usually low energy so doesn't have the same potential to build an emotional spark like dancing or doing something a bit risky like climbing. Those things will usually do more to get women into the right excited state to feel something for a guy.

Title	Cooking classes and women
Author	Fast-surfin-9191
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Date	May 15, 2026 6:24 PM UTC (3 months ago)
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