After reading up on a lot of people’s post on women and life in general I have decided to make an opinion about what is attractive in life.

Simply put, if I were to have a conversation with a guy and the guy left the convo thinking, “wow he’s really cool”, if that guy was a girl, she would instead think “wow, he is attractive”

This also applies down to the individual and you really have to think and define the word “cool” if that makes sense. Here’s what I mean. I know what I as an individual think is cool and what I think is stupid. For example, I think if your over the age of 14 and you post yourself smoking everyday on social media you’re a fucking loser and not cool.

But not everybody thinks that. Some people would see that same kid posting themselves smoking and be like “damn, that guys fucking lit”. Maybe dumbass middle schoolers but I know damn well they would think that.

So I’m trying to make sense of this for myself so I’ll use this example. If I saw a guy come up to a girl in public and say “hey baby you’re cute what’s your Snapchat” I would think this is not cool and the girl will most likely reject you because from my perspective I see it as weird and definitely something only a middle schooler or a fucking weirdo would do. It’s just beta at the end of the day.

Here’s an example of what i feel like would make a girl see a guy as attractive. The guy and girl are sitting in class and they’re just doing their work and the guy starts making small talk all while being charismatic, charming, and interesting while making the small talk. The guy also shows clear good social skills to the girl while doing this and proves to her that she’s not “weird” or anything like that.

In that same situation, if the girl was a guy instead of thinking he was attractive he would instead think he’s cool and an alpha.

This is why I don’t think I’m ever going to do something I don’t feel is right in my head again. I remember about a year ago I was taking advice from some pick up artist that just said to go up to a girl and call her cute and ask for her Snapchat and I tried it one time and was thinking “what the fuck, this doesn’t feel right.” The girl thought it was fucking creepy as I thought she would and said no.

So all in all, I came here to ask you all how this holds up. To me, all of this is just what I have observed over the years and I want to know if it’s just my perspective or if it’s actually true for everyone. Also, how do I know all of this? Am I some sort of genius or is it just basic social skills?