This has been working out for me the past 2 outings so I thought I would share. I haven’t been doing anything crazy just come up to women super chill and staying calm and I think they sense that and like it.

Me (20m) and my homie went to the strip This weekend. Didn’t even go into any bars. I feel like bars are just good for if I feel like getting grinded on or something and I salute men who have actually pulled women from bars, you guys are wizards for real. Maybe one day I’ll get my game sorted out enough for that.

I usually walk up to groups of twos and all my openers just start with “Hey” I let them turn and look at me and I just keep a straight face. This cuts some of the bullshit out I think. I haven’t invested a whole lot and I haven’t put a lot of pressure on her if she wants to talk she’ll just say hey and if she doesn’t she’ll say something like “sorry” lol.

I follow up with “what’s up” and she’ll usually say “nothing” in a surprised voice. I say “ you chilling ?” And she’ll be like “Yeah I’m chilling”. I feel like this is the easiest way for beginners like myself. Really nonchalant game and it works. I have made out with 2 girls in 3 nights and that’s 2 more girls than any other weekend out gaming. Both of them tourist from another city just out on the town waiting for men to approach them.

One thing I do have to brag on though is having a great wingman. He is great because he actually TALKS to the other girl, separates us and makes it two individual conversations side by side. I think this is crucial because I wouldn’t be able to be hella playful, myself, or initiate touch without it.

At the end of the day I really just think being chill and opening her like you already know her is the best way to go and has worked way more than “ Hey I saw you over there and I thought you were hella adorable” < something I used to use way more times than I would like to admit. I would not advise giving direct compliments in openers. All these girls I have approached know what I’m there for after the first 20 seconds just off of body language. I only really give her compliments on her appearance at the same time I go in for the first hug. Like “ you cute as hell, come here” .

Also I have been getting numbers majority of the time but I’m bout to start asking for the Snapchat. I feel like that bit mojo makes it a tad bit more personal than iMessage. But on the flip side nothing beats the feeling of getting a iMessage notification. I’m still debating on social media or the number.

Happy Gaming.