Hey! I am going to start with my story.

So I was traveling around Europe and, at this moment, I was in a eastern European country named Montenegro. When I arrived to the city Budva with my two Brazilian friends, we went to our hostels. We gotta split cause I reserved in a different hostel days after they did, and at that moment their hostel was really expensive. I went to my hostel and this really hot girl opened me, she was the hostess. When I said hello and she answered me, she seemed to me that she was pretty bored as another guest comes in. I tried to talk to her but her answers still seemed that she was not interested. As I do not like to talk to girls who look like if they are not interested, I stopped talking. After a long pause she told me "you dont look Mexican",- as she checked my passport- for which I responded "you dont look from Montenegro". I had no idea, it was just a random comment so that she asked me why and keep talking a bit more, but she had a good laugh. In fact, she was not from Montenegro, she was from Serbia. She still talked to me like if she was bored but she kept making me conversation. But we kept talking and she got more and more loose in her ways to move and talk. Now I could feel a tension between us. So my Brazilian friends texted me to see us for dinner and to go to party later. So, I try to convince her to come with me. Although, she seemed to be tempted, she turned me down because of the hostel. "Damn I thought" as I believed she would be a very good shot for the night. Anyway, i got an idea. I cut a little piece of paper and wrote "if you change your mind" my name and my number. When I was leaving the hostel I gave her the piece of paper, she saw it and had a cute but long laugh. After that she even opened me the door and said goodbye to me in a kind of romantic manner. I kept playing the the game but did not kiss her, as i thought it was way too fast (I met her just few hours ago) and I will be there some days more. I ate with my Brazilians and told them what was happening. We had lots of laughings that night. Some hours after I leaved the hostel she texted me "if you flirt with others girls I kill you", i do not remember what I responded but we kept messaging all night. We went out but not much happened (by the way, me and my friends were impressed for the number of gorgeous girls in the clubs). When I came back I texted her if she could open me. When she opened, she took me by the hand and lead me to her room. I slept there. The next days were pretty awesome. She showed me the city in her free time. Also, everyone knew I was the guest f-ing the hostess, so that caught me pretty much attention and girls seemed pretty interested in me.

In retrospective, I believe that the reason I was successful, besides the obligatory self-confidence, is that I was men capable to talk to. Girls love much more than us a good, sincere and funny conversation.

Post your stories and tell us what have you learned when it comes to flirting to girls/boys!