Could use some advice

RagingOrator · 2014-01-04T07:59:25+00:00

You don't.

It will take only one girl complaining about you, and then offering up your number as proof. There is a time, and a place for seduction but you should never allow it to interfere with your money flow.

Randomised19 · 2014-01-04T12:46:32+00:00

Don't do it. If the exception comes up where it's appropriate, it will be because she's taken the lead and given you her number, you're not giving anyone your number or hitting on anyone at work.

That being said, part of your job is to be friendly, charming, fun and being attractive doesn't help either, so keep doing that. If a girl is blatantly interested, even she knows it's not appropriate for you to hit on her while you're working, so just do your thing and if something happens, it happens, if not, don't do that shit at work.

EnlightenedAddict · 2014-01-04T12:32:55+00:00

Work on being friendly/charming and your sense of humor. Don't try to "game" anyone. You have a perfect opportunity to interact with many diverse, interesting people. Crack light jokes, be friendly and outgoing, and GIVE OFF STRONG POSITIVE EMOTIONAL VIBES TO EVERYONE YOU MEET!! Try to get each table you visit feeling good. Become that awesome, funny, charming bus boy who connects with people and greets returning customers like old friends. Be legitimately interested in people!! If you build it, they will come. Don't worry about women, just be your fucking awesome, charming, funny, happy self around them and they will respond to your insanely high value. I mean, everything's there. Social proof, confidence, demonstrating value, etc. Just don't think about it in terms of game or picking up women but rather getting to know them and vibing with them.

Title	Could use some advice
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	1
Comments	3
Date	January 4, 2014 6:43 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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