Hi, as you can see from my profile, I'm using a throwaway account and a lurker on this sub but anyways, I'll get into it.

Context: From the duration of February to now, I slid into a girl's dms on snapchat with absolutely no expectations, we went out on a date, I secured the bag, we ended up making out the entire time and we got into a relationship for 2 months then she broke up with me because she's not really into doing them then it escalated into becoming FWB (WHERE I DIDN'T EVEN HAVE SEX WITH HER AND DID ALL THE OTHER THINGS BUT I KNOW I COULD HAVE DONE SOMETHING BETTER THAN WHAT I HAD BEEN DOING), jump to the beginning of June, she says she wants to be friends but without the benefits, I tell her I don't want to be friends anymore and to never text me or talk to me again then blocked her on everything because I had still liked her along with also finding out of everything she had done after we broke up, and that she had hooked up with her best friend's recently ex because her best friend told me about it immediately when it happened because she wanted us to get back together and I did not want to gain any knowledge of that she was hooking up with multiple guys because it would tear me on the inside. I had only done this because it had felt the same to how it was before when we were together and I was really enjoying that I had finally gained those benefits after 2 years of trying too hard and falling. After the events had happened I was sad for a bit but NOT because of that things were over but that I was hit hard with the truth and I had to accept it.

TLDR; Dated a girl on my snap for 2 months, it became a sexual but sexless FWB relationship while I still had feelings, she ended the FWB relationship, I found out she was a hoe, I ended things and blocked her on everything.

Now that I have gained this slight experience, I feel more confident in myself more than I had ever been before when it came to girls yet I'm still iffy on some certain things like approach anxiety and holding conversations but I'll know how to handle those better the more I practice. I also watched James Marshall's Three Pillars of Seductive Success and I found it to be really helpful because I had learned a lot and realized the few key things I've been doing wrong. I also don't want to do a relationship atm until I find the right person that I can have one with but I want to just get out, get laid and be rid of the curse known as being a virgin that sits at home all day, and just gain the experience.

Anyways, here are my questions:

  1. I live near a shopping center/plaza filled with stores, restaurants, a park with a lake to walk around in and a movie theater, and it's known to be "The Spot," to go to and socialize in my city. What's a good opener and other than conversation what can I do from there?
  2. I used to hang around here and there with my best friend's sister's circle of very attractive and beautiful friends but we faded off for a while due to just us doing our own things. I recently found out that I had became good looking and I better than before from one of them, there's a few I've always wanted to get with but I haven't talked to them in a while. I could say hey to them on snap but I don't know what to do after, what can I do?