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Creating a meetup daygame group...how to avoid getting banned?

mozillameister · 2017-02-22T18:37:47+00:00

So, I'm looking to make a Meetup group from Daygane, but noticed not a single one exists on Meetup. Me thinks they've gone all SJW and censored all...

mozillameister

February 22, 2017

1 upvotes

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Title	Creating a meetup daygame group...how to avoid getting banned?
Author	mozillameister
Upvotes	1
Comments	5
Date	February 22, 2017 6:37 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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[–]SunTzuArtofWar 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

[–]mozillameister 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

That's true. I've heard that Toronto is a hornets nest of pickup (I used to live in Buffalo and remember gaming in Toronto was harder than other places).

Thing is, it doesn't really have to be that way. If there's a structure where groups split off and challenge each other, then its really conductive without ever getting creepy.

There's a guy who used to do this in NYC (he stopped I think to focus on his business) and it was very effective in getting people out of their comfort zone.

Also, I think too many ppl in the circle DO preach sometimes shady practices or ideas that make people not realizing that not giving a shit AT ALL is a bad thing.

It just needs to not be hoards of people. And possibly avoid places where other PUA people go.

Also, it can't be for self promotion of money. Needs to be for the sole purpose of having a group do a good deed and get people off Tinder and always be perpetual.

I mean, how is Daygame groups any different than Toastmasters in principal?

[–]SunTzuArtofWar 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Because women who are just out shopping or walking around are not looking to get approached or bothered.

Now, when an attractive man with good game opens her, she feels fantastic and excited.

But when weirdos with shitty game and social skills, bad eye contact, posture and calibrations opens her, and possibly multiple times a day she is NOT okay with it.

https://www.reddit.com/r/toronto/comments/3h4v3f/chinese_pick_up_artists_at_eaton_centre/

Not to mention this ruins it for the rest of us when girls automatically assume all guys that talk to her at the mall are weirdos. And this pisses off businesses because they dislike girls feeling uncomfortable in their malls.

Honestly the difference between attractive guy that brightens up her day, or a creep that makes her feel unsafe is whether or not he is attractive.

This is why I disagree with newbies starting out at daygame. Plus they get shutdown hard and can get in trouble with security, banned from malls etc.

Remember you can't control how a girl feels, she can feel unsafe, or creeped out if the guy's game sucks.

[–]mozillameister 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

So then when do you deem 'newbies' start? With an overpriced paid instructor?

This is the thing I hate most about PUA as a whole: Its a scamming system looking to prey on people's aspirations when what they're dealing with is not rocket science.

In all my approaches, I've never had a girl 'offended' by an approach. Sure, I've gotten fake 'i have teh bf' excuse to get out, but that's 100% ok. That needs to be taught (and NOT to constantly persist because a lot of people won't get when and when not to by body language. Even for me that's hard to do at a moments notice, since I'm a horribly unobservant person at the moment. More retrospective.)

The only way to improve is to try. You can't create a simulated environment, so the best kind is IRL. There's no way around it. It's a chicken-and-egg dilemma without being able to practice.

PUA should be making the world a better place, not making it worse. Approaching used to be a more normal form of human interaction before recent societal changes. Most of people who REALLY fail is because of fake pressures in society.

Most guys are normal people with some abnormalities that make them have varying levels of interest to other people. Yes, a minority of people legit are problematic, but that shouldn't stop the success of the majority.

my 2 cents...

[–]SunTzuArtofWar 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link