Crush is single, how do I proceed?

ProudRamboBSNS · 2019-08-27T10:23:45+00:00

If they broke up she propably has another one set up already and is focused on him, while enjoying the attention of her orbiters.

Or she's actively searching and will be found in your nearest club on a Friday night flirting with the hottest guy she can afford with her own looks.

Either way, if she's not enthusiastic about meeting you, if she's not giving you a "fuck yeah" response, then you're getting nowhere.

You can try to be as funny and flirty as you can over text, but if it's not happening, then it's a waste of time.

Better keep her as a follower on Instagram and show off your amazing life and life progress there. You can invite her every now and then to some event you organize or participate in to show your fun and lively side, your social proof. If you grow faster than she and her boyfriend at the time grows, she might become interested and want to be a part of it. Otherwise, forget and move on.

tldr: she's either "fuck yeah" enthusiastic, or she's not at all

AscendedAlpha · 2019-08-27T14:27:23+00:00

You don't. For the love of all that's manly, STOP.

You already starting off on the backfoot. Just stop. I'm saying this to help you man.

If you are this fixated on a girl, subtle and not-so-subtle things you say and do are going to drive her away so fast, it's going to make your head spin. You could have gotten her if you didn't text so much and if you didn't WANT to be with her so much. But you are unfortunately disqualified on both accounts and there's no quick fix for this. Let her go man. Take the lessons learned from this.

To be the one that is in this crazy pursuer mode is never a good idea! Wanting to "show this girl the experience of a really good relationship"?!

Yeah, just the fact that you said that convices me that you actually won't be able to do so. You'll be too nice, she'll get bored, cheat on you and your life will come crumbling down. How's that for a harsh look into the crystal ball?

Tough love, but I'm saying it to save you from yourself. Learn from this and soon enough you'll understand that this was the best advice you could have wished for.

WIA20XX · 2019-08-27T13:24:26+00:00

This is a low percentage girl based on what you have said.

Given how you describe the situation, you're likely going to continue to waste your time anyway.

A regular guy would cut his losses.

A player might get her to follow his social media, and advertise passively, but you don't seem to be inclined to do that.

So all you can do is just make offers. There is no play for you, just persistence.

Title	Crush is single, how do I proceed?
Author	Faulster
Upvotes	3
Comments	7
Date	August 27, 2019 9:56 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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