Since people seemED to enjoy my last FR, I thought i'd do another one. Only a quick one as I wasn't that busy in my approaching.
Got a makeout last night with a relatively hot Foreign girl.
On current form a makeout is a big deal lol. Got a few cold approach lays last year, but this year has been more or less constant rejection. Pretty bad for the ego when you open a gilr, smile and say 'hi' and they backturn or ignore you or whatever. I get a LOT of that!!
2 girls were sitting down in the beer garden and I THINK I opened with a self amusing opener (constantly experimenting to see what kind of opener works best for me. I've tried almost EVERYTHING!), and possibly asked the hot one (the one I was making out with a feeling up) if she wanted to play twister with me later as my opener! lol. It was either that or an observational opener based on something like how the girls looked like they were having a serious discussion or something. Ii can't quite remember unfortunately
Either way, it opened really well and she laughed and was instantly talkative and within a minute I was sitting next to the one I wanted whilst talking to them both. Eventually one of my mates came in and sat with the other one. I got my one laughing and stuff and then I told them to come and dance with me.
Before long she was getting super close and then she went in to kiss me. I pulled away a little bit to make her chase and shortly after we began kissing. I was always the first to pull away.
It got more physical and I was stimulating her clit with my knee which is something I love to do and it seems to work so well on some girls as it's so 'under the radar' but they can really get off on it.
Unfortunately despite my best efforts to befriend the other girl, she wouldn't let me leave with the girl and she kept interrupting and being like ''I'm taking her home. You can't come and she's not going with you i'm afraid. I'm just being a good friend'' kind of thing. Maybe I should have tried to sneak her out of the club when her friend was temporarily occupied and talking to other people.
I'd also made an approach earlier but as with ALL good approaches, it relied on a stroke of luck- in this case my friend dropped his pint full of beer on the floor and it smashed and the 3 girls were close by and they noticed and were looking, and I walked over to them and playfully told them that it was their fault that that had happened and that she had cause it by looking at me friend and making him nervous leading him to drop his beer and she cracked up and then we started the usual small talk. They were too old for my liking though. She did have a super hot teenage sister who she showed me a pic of and then she took a selfie of us together and I told her to send it to her sister and see if I have a shot. Unfortunately I wasn't the sisters type apparently lol
End of the night I opened a really hot girl who was sitting on a bench with her very drunk friend who was basically passed out. I think I opened with ''It looks like she's had a fun night!!' and then asked her what she was up too and stuff. She threw in the 'boyfriend' line pretty fast and unnecessarily (like, ''oh i've been to xbar, but I was out last night with MY BOYFRIEND so i'm a bit tired bla bla'') but we carried on talking and stuff although I struggled to make the interaction less platonic. Maybe a few stock lines would have been good in this instance. Just little things to say to make it more 'man to woman' but without just bluurting out ''you're hot! I like you!! ' kind of thing lol. To be fair, I don't think it would have mattered as I don't think I was her type and I didn't sense attraction from her, but should have tried more none-the-less. Just escalating on girls who you feel aren't remotely into you is always a tough one
There was also an absolute Goddess standing fairly close to me, but I didn't have the ball to open her and couldn't think of an good opener anyway, and either way, I think was waiting for her boyfriend who was the other side of me chatting to people trying to score some cocaine lol. Plus he was a handsome mofo. She was pretty as fuk though.
Better than some of my nights although if i'm honest I tend to think it's always down to luck more than 'skill'. Basically if she's into your look you can make things happen, and if she thinks you're not her physical type, then nothing will work
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