Started studying 'game' maybe 2 years ago. Go out 2 nights per week. Had a handful of cold approach lays in that time. A few per year. I mix up approaches between the various 'models' since both camps make such strong cases I like to mix it up and see if I notice any patterns.
I must say that in my experience neither is 'superior'. It doesn't matter whether you go direct or indirect, or if you do various 'gamey' things like disqualify youfself, neg the girl, qualify the girl etc etc. If she's into you, anything works. If she's not into you, nothing works.
Last night decided to go out as it's airport night in my town on Tuesdays.
First approach was with 2 girls standing by a table at a bar. They both seemed to be majorly into their phones and were giggling. I just walked over and said ''What are you two up too?! I feel like I'm missing out!''.
They were friendly off the bat (a welcome surprise) ''we're snapchatting!'' - then they showed me some pics of themselves that they'd just taken with the app that gives you dog ears and stuff.
I said ''Do me! group photo!'' then they put their arms around me and took a photo of the 3 of us.
I don't remember exactly how the conversation went, but they asked me what phone I have and we talked phones and apps for a minute or two.
I asked them where they were going that night. It started to slightly rain (we were outside) and once of them said ''I'm getting wet'' and then they both giggled I said ''You two are trouble!''. They both laughed. I can't remember what I said next, but I remember her replying to whatever I said with ''I've got a boyfriend, and so has she!'' I ejected soon after that
There was this really pretty girl standing quite near me. Just my type. Gorgeous eyes, and looked really young. She has a fur coat on.
''Hey! - I like your coat. But if it's real fur, we can't be friends'' (I was sure to smile lots when I said this, as sometimes in my experience, girls can think you're being serious if they don't know you)
She wasn't rude or anything, but didn't look that interested. She said ''I don't even know if it's real or not''
I asked her where she was going that night and who she was with, but her answers were very short, and I didn't feel as though she gave me anything to 'work with'.
I thought i'd try the old 'make assumptions' thing, and guessed what her job might be based on her look. She just said like 'nope'.
Soon after she just moved away from me about 6 foot so I decided to leave her alone.
Next approach was in a different bar, and a girl standing with a friend had a red coat on. I just smiled at her and said ''Hey, You look like little red riding hood in that coat''. She was very hostile straight away, and said something like ''what do you want?!! You don't even know me'' with an attitude. Usually I try to see if I can at least practice to see if I can 'turn' these sorts of girls, but I just couldn't be bothered on this occasion and I turned my back to her as she was in mid-sentence, going off on me.
There was a girl with gorgeous eyes and a pretty face. Probably about 18
I just walked upto her and said ''You! Who are you?!'' She smiled and said, ''why do you want to know who I am?'' and I said ''Because I think you're fucking cute'' She laughed and said ''thanks!'' I asked her who she was with and what she was up too tonight, where she was going, but she just told me ''I've got a boyfriend'' and walked away
Then, In the same bar, I saw 2 fairly hot girls drinking tea at the bar! I just marched over to them and was like ''what's going on here!? Is that tea?''. They were friendly .and I teased them about drinking tea in a pub. I detected an accent. I said ''where are you from?''. They said Italy. I asked them how long they've been her for. They said 6 months. I replied ''Well nobody told me you were coming to my Country!'' and smiled. They laughed. I made them teach me some words in Italian. Then I guessed their ages and asked them what they were up too tonight. They said they'd been shopping and were gonna go home after their tea. Even though they seemed friendly and were talkative and laughing, they both ejected fairly suddenly and went and sat down at a table together.
In the next bar I opened a blonde girl with ''Hey, you look Swedish''. This sort of opener seems to work for people in touristy destinations but everytime I try it, I get a weird reaction. This was no different. She gave me a weird look and then sarcastically said ''Yeah, i'm swedish!'' and then walked away like i'd insulted her, lol.
Was about to go into a bar last night, when 3 hot girls and a guy walked out.
I looked at one of them and said ''Leaving already?!'' and she replied ''It's dead in there. We're going to xxxbar. Come with us''. I said i'd probably see her soon. Told the guys I was with that this place was dead and that we should follow the girls.
We went to xxxbar and ordered our drinks, and the girls were already sat down. The one I spoke too earlier looked at me, and called me us over to sit with them after we ordered our beers. I walked over first (my friends were a bit reticent) and I sat down next to the one who called me over and who I'd spoken too earlier.
I was thinking that she must like me, but as soon as I started speaking too her, she just didn't seem all that interested. She was OK, but the 2 girls who she was with were both stunning. One was a model. She wasn't interested in speaking much too any of us! Apparently she only dates 'hunks'.
I kept trying with the 'my girl', but I never got close to 'escalating' since she never gave me any interest once I'd sat down with her. I couldn't get her to ask me many questions or anything. Would have felt weird to start trying to touch her lots when she was kind of being a little bit cold. Ended up leaving her after 30 mins or so.
I open a girl and tell her ''Hey, I had to come and meet you. I think you're cute'' and introduced myself. She smiled and put her arms out for me to grab, so I grabbed them and pulled her towards me. I asked her name (she;s very close to me now) and she tells me. It's a Forreign name. She has an accent. I ask where she's from and she tells me she's from Hungary. I tell her ''I always like Hungarian girls. They're crazy and sexy''. She starts to eye fuck me so I pull her very close towards me and star to kiss her. She starts to get very into it and I move her towards a more secluded part of the bar and i'm now rubbing her pussy over her dress. She''s moaning and i'm about to pop a boner! haha. At this point 2 girls, one of them being her sister, rip her away from me. I try to befriend them, but it's not easy, plus pretty sure one of them doesn't speak a lick!
I move to the dancefloor and try my luck with some other girls, but generally dancefloor game is pointless for me. It's like a guaranteed rejection, and not only that, every other girl see's it so it lowers your value lol. At one point the Hungarian girl taps me on the back and I grab her and just dance a little, but the moment has kind of gone and I lose her shortly after
home time
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