So today I (22) was at the cinema with a girl (25) I asked out two months ago and been on 2 dates since (she's busy). I was unsure if she likes me after those 2 dates, which went neutral (yeah) but I assumed attraction and acted that way regardless. She was very unreceptive for kino, on all dates. Whenever I grabbed her hand to lead her somewhere or hugged her for welcome, I could feel she is very stiff and she wasn't giving me any feedback, bad or good. Today I wanted to finally try to kiss her, because I'm not looking for another female friend. My mindset was "at least I will polarise her".

I was chill at the date, had a positive vibe, talked a lot, she talked too. It was cool overall. We watched the movie, and after that headed into parking lot, talking about the film. Couldn't find any way to build for the kiss, no good way to kino, she was still unreceptive and neutral. But I thought that well, I won't go on another date with her if I don't kiss her.

As we went into my car I put my arm around her and said "I want your lips" lol, to which she responded "don't". I laughed "well, i tried" and she said that "she never heard anything like that, ever" again with neutral tone haha. I Remained chill and didn't made a big deal out of it, we talked about some stuff and I drove her home.

Really funny shit.

I felt really good today, and I think I was really confident with everything, my voice, eye contact all that shit but I just couldn't punch through to this girl.

But! I feel amazing for trying that, and finally taking some action. And it was hilarious 😆

Any tips guys? What do you think I could do more? Or maybe we just won't click no matter what I would do?

PS: Of course I'm moving on, don't need advice on that ;)