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Day Game tips for better success

northeurope

September 14, 2016

1 upvotes

/r/seduction

Hi,

I have been approaching girls in day game. It has taken time and effort but I have managed to get my approach anxiety under control. My main method is to approach regularly or just start conversation with people that I don't know.

My biggest problem is that my success rate is next to zero. We exchange few words and usually the girl responds very shortly or tries to "escape" looking her phone or friends. I am looking for tips and ideas how to actually get better reception, instadate or at least number.

I know that approaching more is useful. However, I would like to know if succesful gamers somehow screen the girls before talking. I know that not everyone is interested but in the name of odds I know that I could better my game somehow. I have lost quite a few pounds since high school and my style should be at least OK.

Ideas and tips are welcome.

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Title	Day Game tips for better success
Author	northeurope
Upvotes	1
Comments	3
Date	September 14, 2016 1:25 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/52qg6x/day_game_tips_for_better_success/
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Comments

[–]daze0fyore 9 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link

I'll tell you what I did with the last few times.

I try to notice something about them.

At the supermarket the other day I overheard a woman say that she was from NY, so I asked her if she was from upstate or the city.... then we had a decent convo. I ended it first, and gave her my phone number. Haven't heard back from her yet, but it boosted my confidence.

On the subway, saw an attractive girl who looked upset, so I asked her if she was alright. She said "yeah, why?" And I replied that her hair style looked ridiculous so, I just wanted to check in with her (she was like wearing liberty spikes).

Again on the subway, saw a girl reading some kind of textbook, so I asked her if she was in school, and successfully guessed which one.

Take away tips, when you make eye contact, don't be ashamed and look away. Try to maintain it. If she responds thats a green light. If she looks away and avoids you, then don't approach, unless she looks back again later. You're a man, don't apologize for having a healthy sexy drive and enjoy looking at attractive women. Own it.

I also recommend ending the conversation first. It gives you the power.

I also recommend giving your number, not asking for hers. I'm still experimenting with this though.

Hope this helps.

[–]northeurope[S] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]daze0fyore 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'll tell you what I do.

At first I maintain a neutral expression. Then if we make eye contact, I pretty much always smile. Make it a good smile, not a creepy one!

The smile is a GREAT way to determine if she might be interested. I think girls know instinctually what to do. If you smile and she smiles back GREEN LIGHT. If you smile, and she doesn't do anything, or looks away, possible red light. Again, check to see if she looks back. However DO NOT BE THE ONE TO BREAK EYE CONTACT. She needs to be the one to break eye contact, NOT YOU. If you break eye contact and look back, this is a sign of submission, and a BIG TURN OFF.

One more thing. I think this goes without saying, but don't be creepy. Maintain a positive attitude. Be happy, be fun. Make her think that YOU are interesting and that she wants to get to know you.

Don't look to women for self-validation. You need to already be self-validated. If you need me to give you a pep talk about how you're awesome, I can do that.... but I'll just say that we're all awesome! Even the homeless dude on the corner is awesome. We've just been tricked into thinking we're not.

Hope this is useful.