Daygaming every week, hit a roadblock, my mind is cluttered with thoughts, need some advice!

Lmanzie · 2015-12-14T19:34:56+00:00

Well kamil the things I do is I meditate every day, helps a lot to get rid of anxtiety. Nofap too, but I have the suspicion you already are doing this. Read the book eckart tolle new earth. I was also anxious , but now I am amazed of the results. I mean my fear level really low. I am really calm. I also have a healthy diet etc, but start somewhere. But eating healthy I highly recommend. And I mean, I tried this for like a year, on and off. I was terrified to talk to a girl but just keep going. Expose yourself and it the fear will lessen. After a while its like normal just like ordering a pizza, you approach a girl ;)

So get rid of your thoughts and then approach. Get rid of this voice in your head. You can for instance say O my hear looks good today, O know I will approach, etc etc.

This what meditation will do if you like it; https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fmA6BqvC0xs

Crazy thing I did back in the day was shave my head almost bold. Wasn't the plan, I wanted a ceasers haircut but I looked like a hooligan haha. But before I cared about my hear and how I looked, but know I was forced to not care what people think and . Changed me massively after that.

Point is meditate,

And look for an excercise to force yourself to not care, people who are less fearless are people who where forced to things they where afraid of. But after they did it they overcame it and gives them confidence and fear subsides,

I dont know, wear a crazy t shirt, dont do your hair, or wear a weird hat or something be creative. Thing I accidentally did I listened to some ed sheeran( the song came a long, was listening to a new spotify list ;) while doing homework in the librabry and didn't knew my headphones where unplugged. Like 60 people heard that, but you will learn how to deal with it and it will go away Get yourself under pressure.

Hope this helps. you can do this

TheNewWildOne · 2015-12-12T03:53:42+00:00

You have to talk to as many people as possible. Basically ask people the time, directions, stuff like that. You should be social in your daily life too on fact. Let's say you're in an elevator in your building and someone enters, ask them if they just moved in...you don't have to have conversations just make a rule to talk more to people.

As far as talking to girls outside, it comes down to a couple things. You have to build up confidence (Wayne Dyer's self-help books are very good on that). You do this by accepting yourself for who you are. You didn't choose how you look, or your race, or which country you were born at... just accept yourself. That's the start of confidence.

Enjoy the idea of meeting new people and remember that women are looking to meet guys, many are lonely so if you talk to that girls you see waiting for the bus, or the train or wherever, she could very well be happy that you approached her. Focus on making them happy (not in a supplicating/loser way) but in the "I'm making her day" way.

Just tell her that you'd like to meet her and ask her about herself, her interests etc. The main thing is to realize that it's no big deal and build up confidence.

lifeaskamil · 2015-12-12T01:27:03+00:00

My best advice for you is to give up because ur clearly too ugly to get girls

Title	Daygaming every week, hit a roadblock, my mind is cluttered with thoughts, need some advice!
Author	lifeaskamil
Upvotes	2
Comments	6
Date	December 12, 2015 12:55 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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