How do you guys deal with them? I've grasped that one of the main messages of this sub is to learn to live in the moment, be outcome independent and not to worry if you're going to get laid, but more if you're going to have fun that night. I try to adhere to those ways of thinking, but it gets harder when you haven't had sex in over a year and a half. My current situation hasn't allowed me to meet many girls consistently, and the only ones I have gotten to know I've ended up chasing away because I'm too eager and I show it. Jacking off helps but it's obviously no replacement. Thoughts? tips?