Hey guys! New here and today I want to discuss something that happened last night. Keep in mind this all happened in about 5-7 minutes

So its about 2:00 am, club is beginning to slow down and outside smoking area is filling up. I find a seat on the road curb next to an hb8 and a hb7, it's clear the 7 has drunk a bit but seems sober enough to game. We shoot shit for literally a few seconds before she's all over me, telling me I'm good looking (to which I reply, "Yeah, I get that a lot", she giggles), asking me to put my arm around her as shes cold (which I did as we talked). Occasionally and in fun I withdraw my arm and show disinterest, returning it back when she gets whiny in a fun, non-annoying fashion. (here the intention was to lower her status, making her the needy one) First challenge comes up. Her friend, the 8, tries to get the 7 I'm holding to go with her to the bathroom.

I jokingly persuade the 7 to stay with me whilst working to not be creepy and possessive (as to not set off alarm bells in both their heads). It seems to work, the 8 leaves and it is just me and the 7. We're already in kino and she's completely comfortable with me touching her. During the conversation, I slow things down and for the first time ever, go for that neck/hairline squeeze that Ross Jeffries demonstrates.

I'm taken aback by how effective it is, her face immediately relaxes into total bliss and she tells me how good it feels and she wants me to continue. I say to her something along the lines of 'If you want me to do it again, you're going to have to earn it'. The mistake Now would have been the perfect time to move to kissing and more intimate touching, looking back I might have used the 'on a scale of 1-10, how good of a kisser are you' line. She was ready for the escalation. But I didn't escalate, and she very quickly lost or perhaps feigned a loss of interest, getting up to leave. I told her to sit down and she resisted, to which I repeated my statement, loudly and with a finger gesture, as if I was talking to a dog. She responded to this, smiling, submitting and sitting back down. Moments later however, she is literally saying 'I'm not interested in you anymore' and getting up to leave. I knew the trick here was not to appear needy or offended, so I said something along the lines of, 'Ok go, get out of here' with a smile on my face. She leaves to join her friends elsewhere. So there I am, sitting on the kerb of the road on my own, I get up and move back to my friends in the club.

  • Can anyone here recommend what I should have done to keep that girl around?
  • Is very fast escalation the key when dealing with tipsy, slightly A.D.D girls?