Was having my first night out today and couldn’t approach anybody. Even when I had a good opportunity, I kept saying excuses in my head (you’ll look like a creep, etc.) to not to do it , rather than to just do it.

I’ve always struggled with self doubting myself too much and i know what it means to have confidence in other areas of life, but I have a hard time applying it toward women. It’s so weird, i’m frustrated because I’m 23 years old and feel behind with my approach skills.

Anyway, I had this food worker who served me three times in a row this week. on the third time (today) i got to the place and she continues the small talk with me from last time without me saying anything. Some people pass us and smell like weed, she asked me if i smell it. i say “yes, do you smoke?” she says : “yes, not that there’s anything wrong with that with you is there?” as she gave me a flirty grin and I see her visibly blush looking deep into my eyes. This was my chance and I blew it , I just replied back true and got my food and left.

How can i get better at executing ?? I don’t want to struggle with this forever. I had a short phase where I WAS approaching girls day and night , even though I got a no it was still a more bold version of me at the time I can’t seem to bring right now where it matters most, summer. I am introverted by nature and I don’t know if I can change this flaw about me. please help