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SnooHesitations4922 · 2022-10-05T14:55:15+00:00

I think you need to hold yourself accountable for who you are choosing to date. You say you have been on many dates with immature men that don't respect traditional values and u tried to change yourself. Notice that the type of men you complain about are the same men you chose to date and conform to by your own free will. You were using apps, u knew exactly what you were getting into.

You already started down a better path, you ditched the apps, and you don't seem like you are blaming men in general for your own choices like 99% of women do, but it does seem like you are blaming society. You are still young, make smart choices, get to know who you are dealing with before escalating sexually or emotionally or even going on a "date" so you can make a good choice, and put some real time and effort with a decent guy that cares about you, you don't need apps because I guarantee the man that cares for you is somewhere in your friend zone.

earthonion · 2022-10-05T14:31:31+00:00

I would suggest a therapist, a really good one.

RedditsOlderBrah · 2022-10-05T14:31:42+00:00

it can be hard out there.

well, you know you're looking for something that's quite unusual. you say so yourself. so you really shouldn't be letting it get you down that there's a lot of people who aren't about that. you're looking for someone special. someone you get along with easily. who shares your values. that in itself is rare.

it's not going to be an easy and quick search. that's the truth. and you're 22. your brain isn't fully developed yet. there's no rush.

don't compromise, don't be discouraged, keep chatting to dudes until you find one that you just vibe with. gl.

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