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pferden · 2022-09-10T14:11:14+00:00

I think it’s completely ok and you reacted well to her deletion request. You are no pushover.

As for why she is doing that: possibly playful seduction and teasing, but keep your red flag detectors up!

There’s nothing more you can do.

Ps: of course you could do A LOT MORE, but youll get only diminished returns from that.

Canadian-Seductioner · 2022-09-10T14:32:15+00:00

Hmm I'm getting bad vibes from her, I feel like she's just messing with you, but hard to tell without more context. I'd say tread carefully with this one and push for a date to see if she's serious. And don't do an expensive date either, I get the feeling if she does agree to a date, she will just try to take advantage of you.

mabden · 2022-09-10T16:08:15+00:00

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uniKQsername · 2022-09-10T18:19:48+00:00

Before she leaves, I told her something about a kiss (I don't quite remember what), and she was like "I don't kiss in clubs, but if you invite me on a date then it might happen".

I responded playfully by saying that I will come to the date with a flower between my teeth because I'm romantic, and blabla the convo kept going.

If you're aiming for just a hookup, then this is too simp-like to me. If you're aiming for a relationship (don't date girls from clubs blah blah blah but you do you man) then maybe it's okay but I still don't really like it.

You could've responded with something like "I don't usually take girls from the club out on dates" which would ideally make her qualify herself to you or make her compromise on her definition of a date to include "watching a movie at her/your place".

What advice would you guys give me?

The text convo sounds fine really. Confidently tell her the exact place and time though, just expect that it will work for her.

Maxx_Darkglare · 2022-09-10T17:58:27+00:00

She either stopped wanting you cause you sent a nude when she wanted to date you or she forgave you and she’s gonna text you back. Girls who want to date don’t want nudes until they’re with you. You’ll probly be lucky and get her anyway

2022-09-11T06:16:50+00:00

I'd say keep up the banter and see how it goes. Delete the photo if you go on a date and repost or post a better one a couple hours later. You acknowledged the deal and still are doing your own thing. She will know this and that she isn't your priority. That drives them crazy because they want your complete attention. Keep it scarce. You deserve your own attention.. anyone else earns it.

One_Push_8445 · 2022-09-11T06:38:41+00:00

Dude the point when you have to ask for a kiss is totally a beta move .. u just feel it and take your chances don't be aggressive.. and by the analysis of the context provided she wanted action that night.. If you had interpreted the date part with a casual comeback "yeah u can come over to my place now😉. " And the part where she asks to delete the pic if you succumb to her now u will continue to u should've asked her we can discuss that over coffee right 😏😘

gangweedsavedme · 2022-09-11T09:46:37+00:00

It sounds like everything is a deal with her. Not necessarily bad, just a fun observation, maybe the right way to play this is to keep being yourself until she is past the hook point, I sense she will keep trying to set conditions, at that point you should say no deal, to show you can away which in theory should make her chase.

But maybe I’m just a nerd overthinking this.

NinetailsDestruction · 2022-09-11T11:10:00+00:00

Sounds like she’s crazy for you bro. Telling you to delete the pic means she’s claiming you already. Lol, if I were you, I’d put my crazy lady radar in high alert.

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