Haven’t been with a woman in around a couple months

Aggressive_Lie_6637 · 2022-09-01T17:21:26+00:00

Unfortunately there is no advice apart from just doing it. If you have little confidence or high anxiety start small. Eye contact, smile at girls in the club. Say a quick hi. I don't think there is an easier place to approach than in the club especially when you are good looking. The girls are intoxicated they are there to have fun. Now the question is do you look like fun or like someone bogging them?

TheRealAlkemyst · 2022-09-01T18:50:37+00:00

I used to get the the bar/club a bit early. This had two advantages, 1) I could introduce myself to the staff (which later helped in case some other dude got out of line, they'd already sort of know me) and 2) I could easily just say "Hi" to women as they came to get a drink. I'd also say "Hi" to other dude's.

Striking up a conversation with people goes a long way and usually other's want to interact as well waiting for the club to fill up, their drinks to kick in, etc. A lot of times I'd go from the bar right to the dance floor with a woman I had talked too and later either get her number or leave with her.

That said that was a while ago, when I recently was dating again around 5 or so years ago; seemed like many didn't want to interact at all anymore. I'd have better luck online.

No_Country7045 · 2022-09-01T17:31:44+00:00

My advice would be don't take my advice.

Paradox, anyone?

Affectionate-Bat-235 · 2022-09-03T12:04:07+00:00

Maybe volunteer so you can resocialize with ppl or go to group events you like

Title	Haven’t been with a woman in around a couple months
Author	No-Low-4672
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Date	September 1, 2022 5:17 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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