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Nervous-Sorbet7140 · 2022-08-21T12:47:06+00:00

Well don’t think too much, if she is inexperienced she wants to take things slow

mariokart890 · 2022-08-21T13:26:46+00:00

You need to ask yourself some important questions.

Ex. Do you want a relationship or just a hook up?

If you want a relationship take it slower. Next date be the same as the first dont try and act any different than before because she already liked the first version. Maybe kiss her if there’s an opening. Do not try to have sex unless she’s throwing it at you. By the third date she’s gonna be itching to have you fuck her.

OllieOul · 2022-08-21T14:04:01+00:00

you should still always try to close with a kiss

OllieOul · 2022-08-21T14:35:59+00:00

ive taken a girls virginity before & we ended up as a couple for 5 years .. the thing is they move gradually and in the beginning they’re awkward but when they wanna continue going out on dates its because she wants to feel comfortable being around you & talking to you. .. So things will work in your favor Op you just gotta be patient with her ..

atomant88 · 2022-08-21T12:48:37+00:00

never lose track of time. always attempt to escalate with consent even if its just handholding. keep trying to escalate from there. but honestly this is way too long for a first date

youre just breaking so many rules here its like you dont know game at all

Raineko · 2022-08-21T12:56:15+00:00

Bruv, you need to sleep with her, girls literally want to have sex just as much as men, even if they don't admit it. If you keep doing this nothingness for hours and hours she will get bored to tears.

OllieOul · 2022-08-21T15:15:07+00:00

we didn't touch much or hold hands

Try to touch, hold hands very early (first minutes) this forces a decision and you don't waste time, if the girl likes you this establishes intimacy.

I think she's a virgin

Don't assume anything.

But just hoping I don't get friendzoned tbh.

You probably are.

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-08-21T17:34:50+00:00

You are in control on whether you get friendzoned or not, because it’s not women that put you in the friendzone. It’s men who put themselves in the friendzone by acting platonic and too safe with girls.

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