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topyoungn · 2022-08-15T04:57:55+00:00

What’s the best way to say happy birthday to her?

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-08-15T01:59:32+00:00

If you are not her boyfriend, but you are trying to have something with her, then no.

Because while it can send the message that you want to have something serious with her, the problem is that first you must have had something with her (like a kiss) and you said you haven’t kissed her yet. So it’s not properly justified as you are not in the right phase of dating yet.

As for what to say on her birthday?

It’s better to tease her to provoke her, than telling her some generic nice guy wish like “hope you have a happy day”.

So an example of how you can tease her:

“Congrats for your birthday! You grow so fast, that if I blink you’ll be a grandma any day 😁”

Some joke like that to tease her and get a reaction is a better flirty dynamic than being a mister nice guy who plays it safe and generic to avoid at all costs the risk of upsetting her.

zisehuar · 2022-08-15T02:14:47+00:00

YES! You're a good man (this comes from a woman). I'm sure there's been a little bit.of energy between you two. I just recently had someone give me flowers on a date prior to us kissing. So absolutely sweet idea, go for it.

hoodbgoode · 2022-08-15T02:30:06+00:00

It will weird her out.

CocoBabeNYC · 2022-08-15T02:51:15+00:00

Flowers are always a good idea.

Delicious_Ad_1853 · 2022-08-15T04:54:01+00:00

It's completely unnecessary, but as far as crutches go, it's not a bad one. Just don't spend more than a few dollars. Less is more.

The important thing here is that you drop the "friends" act and demonstrate that you're interested in more by asking her out on a date. Make sure you do that.

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