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[–]A_Chicken_Dino 7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hate to break to u but they were most likely never interested in u in the first place. They only gave u their phone number to be nice or they wanted to avoid confrontation. It happens. Even the most attractive guy in the world wont be getting constant pulls.
Usually people wont even be getting phone numbers on most of their approaches. It seems like u got unlucky (or lucky depending on how u look at it) that the women u approached for one reason or another didnt want to reject ur advances in person. At the end of the day, it’s all a numbers game
[–]futuremo 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think this post on "the numbers game" would be helpful to you
[–]CocoBabeNYC 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Stop going out with the goal of picking up women and start going out to actually enjoy yourself and have fun. You are making women the prize and not your own enjoyment. They can sense you are chasing because you are desperate.
[–]Great at coke approachSnooHesitations4922 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
90% flake rate is just about the standard. Sometimes the girl is flattered enough to give a number or agree to a date, then they realize they already got dudes in their phone that have already been giving them good dick, and won't fix a situation that ain't broken. Other times they just giving u the number to shut u up and get u away from them for the same reasons...they already know they can call chad or Tyrone whenever they want.
I recommend not trying to pick up women at all. Use Costanza method. Do the exact opposite of whatever u been doing. Create the illusion that they are picking you up, and often that illusion turns into reality.
[–]CompetitionFair7686 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
It’s likely that your conversations with women aren’t solid. Most men tend to overestimate a lot how good a conversation with a women went. They think a conversation went great and amazing, while for the woman that conversation was mediocre at best.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I know I am not that bad at conversations. The text i quoted was from a girl I had instant date with saturday and spent 2hours together and she could have left anytime. Other girls agree to meet up at first then they send texts like i dont want to meet you and goodluck with your life
[–]CompetitionFair7686 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
The problem is that most guys think just because there is no awkward silences and the girl laughs and asks questions back, then they assume that the conversation was great, when it’s not. At least, not for dating purposes.
I’m pretty sure the conversation is the problem but unless you tell us an example of the full conversation you have with her, there is not much we can do here.
Because you are saying that the conversation wasn’t bad, but you have your own bias. You cannot judge the conversation yourself and say it was great.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The thing is this started happening recently and more frequently than usual. I got flaky numbers and girls who never text back. But a while ago like 30% of the numbers go on dates now less than 10%. I think there is a pattern cause all of them say things that suggest that i should never contact them again
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