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[–]UntoldSadLife 9 points10 points11 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
The same day or a day before. If she cancels and doesn't give you an alternate date, don't bother.
[–]Rumcajs23 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Just to also ask, I shouldn’t be textin her at all right?
Does this sound straight forward, “Hey X, looking forward to seeing you tomorrow at 8pm.”
[–]spacemangoes 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes. The main part is don’t bother. Take this bit seriously
[–]UntoldSadLife 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It does.
[–]sxc222 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I love a good morning text.
And wait for her to say good morning.
(You) good morning
(Her) morning :)
(You) just wanted to check in on drinks tonight…I should be free around 6pm. what time works for you?
(Her) awehhh…I’m free (whenever she says).
But maybe I’m old (28F)
When I was young I was fine with a “hey are we still on for whatever time” at least 3 hours prior.
[–]ReorgAtty -2 points-1 points0 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I would text the day of like an hour or so beforehand, just saying something like, “hey, getting ready now then I’m gonna head out.”
Also, I see people here post often that texting is only to arrange dates, but I don’t fully agree with that. There’s a lot of time between now and Saturday. I’d try to hit her with a couple of strategic texts, maybe on Wednesday and Friday. Just little things to remind her you exist and so she doesn’t feel you’re not disinterested. Some picture that relates back to something funny when you initially met or something like that.
[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
An hour before the scheduled time
[–]YGK321 -2 points-1 points0 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Day of a few hours before. Say something like “hey we still good for 7?”
[–]burakbenxd 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hey. Are we still good for X day at Y time? I like to do it the day before.
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