How chad-like do you need to be when you approach?

CocoBabeNYC · 2022-06-28T01:48:06+00:00

If you are not Chad you will likely get metoo'ed, arrested, thrown in jail and raped by a guy called Cletus, get hooked on meth, get released and end up as a male prostitute to make ends meet.

KindBrilliant7879 · 2022-06-28T02:07:02+00:00

pro tip: using lingo like that and actually having the worldview of alpha chad beta garbage is your problem. that’s a huge turn off to women because it reeks of incel. get off the internet and go outside. socialize with people and get real world experience

Yarmanite · 2022-06-28T00:44:19+00:00

BugConsumer · 2022-06-28T01:00:17+00:00

For some, if not most, it is what they believe. In reality doing so isn’t a good idea, and will have negative consequences for both parties involved. If you’re trying to act like someone you’re not, people will most likely find you to be cringey, creepy and just a plain old asshole from the way you present yourself, and some will see straight through your act and see you as pathetic and disgusting.

Some of my best advice, and I know it’s cheesy and cliché lol, is to just be yourself. Don’t sell yourself as anything different than what you are, because once you finally get something going with someone, your facade is going to fail with given time, and your partner will see that you weren’t the person you said you were and feel betrayed and used, and then they’ll leave you. You can’t keep up a lie forever, since no matter how hard you try to act like the fake person you’ve created: it’s always going to crumble away eventually, which is likely to be very soon. The best thing that you can do is to better yourself as a person, realize your strengths and weaknesses to make things better overall and such, and to just learn from your experiences, even if you fail. If you ever get rejected for being you, or ridiculed for how you are, remember that it’s still okay to be you, and you don’t need to pretend to be anyone else. All that needs be is that you get up time and time again every time you’re knocked down, and learn from the mistakes you’ve made to work towards your goal set in mind.

I really hope that you’ve read all of this and listened, I barely type a paragraph normally, but I really related to your problems as I had them in the past and really wanted to help someone stuck in a situation I used to be in. I wish you nothing but good fortune and a good day!

freel0der · 2022-06-28T06:31:13+00:00

Girls straight up hate you when you act like someone else. Especially fake Confidence. I did it some in the beginning and I had several women try and attack me, trowed drinks at me etc. It really put a dent in my confidence for some time until i realised I could be myself and none of that crazy stuff would happen.

Deadgoku · 2022-06-28T00:46:00+00:00

Being a chad isn't necessary to approach but it does make things a whole lot easier

pua_max · 2022-06-28T06:52:19+00:00

Think old school movie protagonist. The ultimate goal (at least for me) is to say less and less in my seductions.

Title	How chad-like do you need to be when you approach?
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Date	June 28, 2022 12:39 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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