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[–]U1tra1ightBeam 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Absolutely not. You should keep fucking her, taking her out for dinners, meet her parents and befriend her dog. Then after a year tell her that you’re not over your ex and you’re not looking for anything serious anyway. Don’t forget to add “I thought you knew!”
Bruh…
[–]YGK321 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
LolGuess I should have rephrased and said ‘when should I make that clear’
[–]U1tra1ightBeam 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
ASAP, before she gets attached. And stop taking her out on dates, you’re blurring the lines.
[–]CocoBabeNYC 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No you should lie to her that you are saving yourself till marriage.
[–]Boring-Repeat4530 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes you should make that clear as soon as possible
[–]J33P88 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think it's important to be honest about your intentions and desires. Otherwise you could unintentionally lead her into believing something more is going on. Unless you're cool with damaging people for your own self gain. If that's the case by all means, do as you please.
[–]qualest 4 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
You don't need to tell her anything right now. Keep going on dates and having sex. At some point she will either want to take it forward, or she will lose interest. If she wants to take it forward then tell her that you are not looking for a relationship. You never know, she might not be looking for a relationship either. Or, even if she is, she might not want it with you, and would prefer a casual relationship. Let her define the relationship first.
[–]YGK321 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah I wouldn’t want to tell her to early anyways and then it comes off like I am assuming she is wanting a relationship. I just feel like this is a common thing I haven’t really dealt with before
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