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[–]Zealousideal6669 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Go to nightclubs then you can skip dates. It's important to let the girls know what you're intentions are but not like honestly I just wanna fuck you. Saying something along those lines I'm not really looking forward to anything serious or I'm not a boyfriend material I had to warn you it's much better. Also if you're more like a vibe, let's enjoy the moment and do funny and crazy things works better then if you give off let's get to know eachother's biggest secrets type of guy.
[–]divoyal 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
You can be honest with your intentions but you are most likely to be rejected. Most women won't have sex unless they are attracted to the other person. Don't know how you met, but if you are strictly looking for sex, you might want to start living the bar life and have one night stands, or have a ton of casual relationships. You learn more by sleeping with 1 woman for many years
[–]pleasant__sheep 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Thanks. I know you learn a lot more with one woman. But I have seen ppl talk about how they met a woman online, took her for drinks and smashed the same night. Did the woman already just want to smash? Cause if you take her out and she is expecting more from you, she probably won't sleep the first night. Also how do you go about one night stands, bar hookups etc
[–]divoyal 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
They probably didn't want to smash before they met but they might have been attracted to the other person and made their decision based on confidence when they met. It's all about picking up cues as a male. When you're at the bar you can try simple things like offering a drink and get out of there, or have some small talk and start putting your arms around her and offer to go to your place depending on her reaction. Just don't cross boundaries. I mentioned casual relationships because you might've heard a lot of those stories, but that doesn't mean you are worth any less. In a relationship the best and worst comes out of you and that allows you to improve yourself and increase your chances when approaching women because you know what's to like about you, while now you are dealing with a numbers game, not getting any info as to why people reject you or not
[–]pleasant__sheep 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Ok. Good advice but the last part is. I feel it isn't right to sleep with a woman who sincerely likes me knowing I just want to be a one night stand. I do t want to be "that guy". Is there any solution to avoid the broken hearts?
[–]divoyal 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Well you need to be in relationships to learn how to be in relationships as complex as that sounds. You might change your mind once you're exclusive because you still get sex (a lot if you're doing things right), but you also learn about yourself. That being said, I'm not here to change your mind if you strictly want a one night stand, so just make your intentions clear as early as possible if you want to avoid broken hearts
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