Did I choke the close here? [recovered]

Creepy-Storage-1786 · 2022-06-19T20:48:52+00:00

She enjoys the power she has over you

Hopeful_Leader8940 · 2022-06-20T03:05:10+00:00

Ya u shoulda jus got her number tbh it is what it is giving her the ultimatum definitely scared her off a bit for me if i cant sleep with a girl from the club that night i end up getting her number and sometimes i end up sleeping with them sometimes not and at the end of the day I dont care cuz it is what it is

focus_flow69 · 2022-06-19T21:17:33+00:00

Yea you did choke. Basically last minute resistance, pretty common with girls with not wanting to feel slutty or wanting to know the guy more. Should have called her out on her game and teased her about being sexual all night and now being too tired to have some private time between you two. If she's still saying no, then accept it like a man and say we will have to continue our encounter next time 😏. This continues to build the tension, and shows confidence because you aren't so thirsty and desperate you NEED to fuck her now just because she was flirting with you earlier. She wants it and you want it, knowing this fact, you should have supreme confidenfe and the upper hand to be in control of the situation.

All girls are different. Some will sleep on first date, some are hesitant but with if you play your cards right they will and some will not. Other times, logistics play a factor such as if it's too late and she got shit to do tmrw or if you can't get alone time or are too far away etc. Understand this and be flexible and use it to your advantage.

Live in the moment. Dont even think about dating right now. You haven't even fucked her yet, why are you thinking about whether or not you'd date her? One encounter is not enough to make that decision, nor should it be something you are even thinking about for someone you just met the night of.

Keep an open mind, make a decision about whether she's dating material or not AFTER you hook up, multiple times if necessary.

Title	Did I choke the close here? [recovered]
Author	FunTechnical904 [recovered]
Upvotes	2
Comments	5
Date	June 19, 2022 8:41 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/vg45ne/did_i_choke_the_close_here/
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