Was introduced to a girl at a bar through a mutual friend. I M25 was getting along well with this F28 calling her Jane. Jane kept telling me how she thinks I’m very hot and all these sexual things she wants to do to me (putting her tongue places and me using toys on her etc.) End of the Night the group walks back to her apartment because the others DD is parked there. she seemed to be insinuating all night at the bar that she wanted to sleep with me THAT night. So I had spent majority of the night entertaining her and lightly flirting. As the rest of the group are going towards the car me and her talk privately. We talk for a bit then I ask if she’d like me to walk her up and have a drink, she lightly declined me by saying she’s tired and offers me her number and a date soon. I tell her it’s now or never and I don’t really want just her number. I ended up walking away without her number. I think she was just trying to make herself look like more of a “girlfriend option” by not sleeping with me on the first encounter but I wasn’t really interested in dating her.

Did I choke by not getting the number? What could I have done to close? How set are girls in there upper 20s on not sleeping during first introduction?