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Spiritogre · 2022-06-18T18:03:03+00:00

There's no right answer besides when you feel the time is right to have that conversation.

hunterpua · 2022-06-18T18:05:25+00:00

Just tell her that you think its time that you're clear about where you're at with the situation between you two.

Let her know that you want to find out how she feel but go first and tell her your side first.

But also, try to be a little more honest with yourself and try to be a little more accurate about how you describe your feelings.

For example, you're not really 100% sure that she's the one you wanna be committed to. You've only been seeing each other for 2 months and some couples even take years to find out whether they were right for each other or not and who knows, you could meet a girl tomorrow who you end up thinking of as a way better match for you than this girl.

So it would be more honest to phrase it like, "As far as I can tell based on the short time we've been seeing each other, I'd like to find out whether things would work out between us in a committed relationship.

Rather than just saying, "I wanna be in a committed relationship with you. I think you and I would be good together."

Express yourself like that and then tell her that's just your side, that's how you feel, also tell her that if she likes, she can tell you her side but that she doesn't have to right away if she still needs to think about it, make sure she knows that there's no pressure on her to respond, let alone reciprocate your feelings.

ReorgAtty · 2022-06-18T19:29:32+00:00

Be nonchalant and don’t psych yourself out. She is most likely feeling the same way.

I would broach the subject very casually. Maybe you say something like: ya know I’m really having fun with you, to the point where no one else has been catching my eye and I can’t see myself becoming interested in any other girls.

Then you kind of just let her respond and let the convo flow from there. Again, I think there’s a good chance she’s feeling the same way.

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