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[–]itsamatterofattitude 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I wouldn't call them paradoxes; different people have different results because of different factors.
Attractive men struggle because they lack personality or anything of value besides the physical.
Smart/funny/witty men struggle because they can't escalate.
Tall men struggle because they may lack confidence or self esteem in other areas.
It really all comes down to understanding your value as a person, knowing what you have to offer in a relationship, and knowing what type of women you are going on attract.
I know I'm a good dude. I'm not the tallest. I'm not the smartest. I'm not the richest. I don't have the biggest cock. I don't have a flashy car.
But I'm a good man. And I know how to make a woman happy. I know how to make a woman feel appreciated and special. I know how to "learn" her body well enough to please her. And I know I'm not for everyone.
It's okay if a woman doesn't find me attractive. It's okay if there's no connection. It's okay if there's no chemistry.
Doesn't devalue me. Doesn't make me insecure or less than.
Want to be good with women? Take as much time as you need to to get to a point in you're life where you are happy with the man you are. Get to a point in life where you can look around and say "I love my life. I love me. I love who I am and I know I have a lot to offer to the woman I choose to share my life with, and I'm not going to concern myself with the women who aren't interested. I'm a good man."
The success will come when you hit that benchmark.
[–]Smitty-TBR2430 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Sometimes it’s divine intervention; a matter of meeting the right person at the right moment.
[–]Creepy-Storage-1786 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Guys want the step by step formula into being validated because they want to avoid pain.
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