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[–]Squeeky211 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
no dude .. you did good .. don’t worry about kissing her & shit just get to know her as a person first and when its time to kiss the opportunity will present itself .. don’t rush shit!
[–]CaptainRiege05 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
Alr just some people say you should do something physical to built more of a connection
But true I don't wanna rush it if I get a 2nd or 3rd date it'll make kissing her worth the wait
[–]Thin_Protection5616 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
In reality, the longer you wait, the less likely you are too succeed.
5/6 posts on this sub are from guys who are obviously clueless when it comes to women. Most of the 'feel good' advice that gets posted here will make you feel good when you read it, but it's absolutely impractical or will cause you to waste tons of time and end up serially friendzoned.
On your next date, great her with a big hug. That way, you break the touch barrier immediately in a non threatening way, which will make physically escalating more easier later on.
[–]CaptainRiege05 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
I've kinda broke the touch barrier already I've brushed my hand against hers and been shoulder to shoulder with her but nothing direct so you have a point
That is if I get another date I've been on delivered for 14 hours
[–]Thin_Protection5616 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
You should still greet every date that way, every time
[–]CaptainRiege05 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I'll keep that it mind this was my first date in years so ngl I'm a little clueless at times
[–]Thin_Protection5616 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
It's all good. With time and testing, you'll see what works and what doesn't and where the balance point is for something like kino
[–]CaptainRiege05 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Now I've been on delivered for almost a day but it said she was online almost 10 minutes ago, maybe she's busy idk
She seemed intrested eye contact, she was really flirty and giggly and she pretty much stood shoulder to shoulder with me guess I'll have to wait and see but it's really confusing
[–]Thin_Protection5616 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Go exercise and message 3 other girls. Even if the other chick decides to reply, still do that before you respond to her.
[–]CaptainRiege05 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Your right I should go to the gym I didn't go yesterday cause of the date
I'm planning to much ahead as cute as this girl is and as intrested as I am in her there's others out there
Appreciate it
[–]Squeeky211 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
yes it would ..
[–]CompetitionFair7686 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
If you don’t go for a kiss that’s always a bad move, sometimes girl forgive that by giving you another chance but overall it’s a disappointment that you don’t even try.
Even if the firm says that she doesn’t kiss on the first date it’s still something you have to show her that you want to do it. She has to see you trying to kiss her regardless of what rules she has imposed on herself for dates.
A great “date” can easily be remembered as nothing but a mere “just friends” hangout if you don’t try to kiss the girl, which causes more often than not for the girl to think of you as nothing but a friend.
You should always go on the first date with a girl for the kisses, even if you don’t see any opportunity.
I mean we where Shoulder to shoulder leaning on each other at some parts so we where a little physical but I also didn't have much of a opportunity cause it was at a zoo and was pretty crowded
[–]CompetitionFair7686 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
One day you will learn that the opportunity doesn’t come naturally, you are the one who makes it happen. You are waiting for the perfect moment, what i called the “cinematic moment”… That doesn’t happen.
You are the one who has to take her somewhere private, and kiss her you are the one who has to lead her. If you are passive waiting for people to go away, or waiting for her to show some clear sign then that’s not going to happen.
girls don’t often give second opportunities, a guy who doesn’t know how to make things happen turns the girl off.
So am I screwed since I didn't kiss her?
[–]CocoBabeNYC -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
Ask yourself why should you give this girl another chance?
[–]CaptainRiege05 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
She has a similar sense of humor to me and makes me laugh alot, she's fun to talk and is interesting we just have good chemistry tbh
[–]CocoBabeNYC -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Great! Call her in a few days and say "You made me laugh so much last time, that I want to see you again. I will cook for us? You bring the wine. My address is XXXx"
See I'd do that if I wasn't in highschool so I might just do dinner out and a movie or something or maybe a picnic since it's warmer out now not sure
[–]CocoBabeNYC -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
What's your end game here? Watch movies? Be a reliable male friend? Are you ashamed of your parents knowing that you want to fuck girls?
[–]CaptainRiege05 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Not that I don't want just I physically can't cause it's my dads house
[–]Thin_Protection5616 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I lost my virginity while my parents were in the living room watching to NBA playoffs. It's not impossible to bring a girl home and to your room, OP.
[–]CocoBabeNYC 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
So you don't think your dad wants his son to be a man and get laid?
No he probably does but he's stated before he don't want to hear it or see it
CocoBabeNYC consistently gives good advice from the perspective of someone who's had tons of positive experiences with women.
Listen to him.
[–]JayJay_365 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Be easy on yourself my bro, we’re all humans. Arrange another date, build on that and make your moves. Make sure you’re both in the right setting and she’s into you also.
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