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Having fun works with everyone.
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[–]Contango6969 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Who says that? There is almost no difference between hot girls and average girls. Just dont compliment hot girls on their appearance because they get that all day. Thats really the only distinction imo.
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[–]smooth_lorenzo 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link
So being yourself doesn't work. You think being someone your not is going to work better? Got it all ass backwards. Maybe the real you isent vulnerable. There is 3 things that men that don't get women possess. 1 they are to dumb 2. They are too arrogant 3. They are too lazy. I bet you fall into one of those 3.
[–]VeliVoy 14 points15 points16 points 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Yes- It has worked well in the past. I changed my personality according to the girl I was dealing with, and it helped attract them.
Could elaborate the last part where you talked about three things?
[–]smooth_lorenzo 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
So your starting off in a position of neediness! That's going to leak through that iron clad personality you took on!
[–]smooth_lorenzo 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Well most men have restraints that hold them back either too arrogant to admit what is holding them up or too stupid to figure out how to get the girl or too lazy to work for something you don't have.
[–]smooth_lorenzo 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
If it worked why are you on here asking?
[–]VeliVoy 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
The cocky-funny works on the hot girls, I am currently dealing with an average looking girl and it doesn't seem to work well. So... That is why I have specified the question that way.
[–]smooth_lorenzo -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Average girls just need a little more comfort building then hott gals
[–]ervnelze 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That’s called seeking validation/approval my guy. “Just be yourself” means to be confident/comfortable with who you are. Too often you and many people take the advice too literally.
[–]Contango6969 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
JUST BE YOURSELF
lmao why are you here. OP could have just asked his mom for this advice.
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No I think that it's: 1) they're not confident 2) they're not sociable 3) they're not charming
[–]FaithInStrangers94 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You have the spelling and grammar of a primary school student so and you seem rather guilty of #2 as well, so I assume you compensate for it with your Italian renaissance seduction? Unless English isn’t your first language in which case I guess I’m being an asshole.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Your thinking way to fucking hard. I Read the title and don't even need to read the post.
If your asking which "Method" you should use to attract girls, you already have lost bro, not even on the women front; on your own front.
You need to work on yourself, and get to a point where your confident, happy, and give no fucks about what a chick or anyone thinks of you; when you can be your true self.
Are you a corny ass N*gga who likes to crack jokes. Do it. She doesn't like it? Fuck her, she ain't the one.
- If you adopt this "cocky funny" personally, how long do you plan to wear this mask for? How long are you using this charade until you reveal the real you?
Do you think Dwayne the rock Jhonson, uses the cocky funny method on hot chicks? He's just him. Because that's all he needs to be, and if a girl doesn't like him, I'm sure he gives 2 fucks.
Honestly bro, stop thinking about the chicks, and be the best version of yourself you can be. On that journey, women will naturally come into your life, trust me. Gooduck brother.
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[–]mrrooftops 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It depends on how attractive you are to her... You might think she is average but if you are or below then calibrate.
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