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Stujitsu2 · 2022-03-25T23:39:05+00:00

Stop making it an approach. You don't need to go out and approach. You go where you want do what you want and talk to a pretty girl if you want. You fucking ask her out if you want to. And you let her do with that what she wants.

max_insa · 2022-03-26T00:14:32+00:00

Instead of getting bitter, why don't you get better?

I'm not saying this to put you down but it's just a skill like any other. You not "playing" the game well doesn't mean you suck as a person, it just means you need to practice more.

For starters, if a girl is startled, you show empathy.

If a girl asks if this is for a youtube video, it's because you've not been relatable enough.

Figure those sticking points, one by one, and over time improve.

And if right now you feel burnt out, just take a break for a week or two, focus on other things.

CocoBabeNYC · 2022-03-26T03:27:57+00:00

Let me ask you this. Do you think normal guys who have healthy sex lives have to do any of the degrading weird shot you do? Do you think they go out and wander the streets for hour hoping to corner some girl who is sitting by herself and run game on her? Do you really think anyone but weird antisocial weirdos do that type of stuff?

Want know what normal guys do to get laid? They go out to places where single people hang out and they go there to have fun. Because when a man is having fun instead of being on the hunt, women are immediately drawn to him because they want to attach themselves to a fun, exciting, mysterious guy. Do you really think any woman would want to attach herself to a weird loner who stalks the streets for his next prey?

Now this all might sound harsh to you, but Inwant to give you a new perspective on how weird this whole pua thing really is and that there is a much better and frankly easier way to meet women.

2022-03-26T00:22:54+00:00

Try tinder.

Stop cold approaching on the street.

Go to clubs, parties, get togethers.

So many other ways to meet women.

Stujitsu2 · 2022-03-25T23:25:36+00:00

If burnt out dial it back. Do less approaches be more selective. Don't text before the dates other than perhaps to confirm the day of.

rhines57 · 2022-03-26T00:12:56+00:00

Did you enjoy it at some point before you got like this? Dating is supposed to be a fun adventure, not some job to collect sexual resources. If you are literally walking the streets sifting through the women, they pick up on your need and desperation. They don't want to be a utility bill as your ball drainer, they want to be a luxury expense that is valued in currencies other than cock strokes. They want to be paid for those strokes in emotional, attentional, temporal, and financial currencies. When you show desperation, all they see is you are only interested fulfilling your sexual needs and you will likely do bare minimum to get them met. They know the only way they are going to get their needs met with you is by pushing and nagging.

You have to be ok with not having a female in the moment and view every possibility as a well of unlimited adventure where anything is possible.

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