How to become emotionally detached when hooking up?

Woujo · 2022-03-23T17:37:15+00:00

Abundance mentality. You are getting overly fixated on this girl because your subconscious mind thinks that the only thing you will get. You must feel like you can get 1000 of her. You should also enjoy the moment without looking too far into the future.

Billyjeanisntmylover · 2022-03-23T16:27:36+00:00

Experience. Just date other women too and it'll help with no catching feelings.

MegaManXanax · 2022-03-23T16:40:55+00:00

Hook up with girls you don’t like that much. That’s how you do it. Or you can hookup with women you do like and eventually the emotional damage from them not wanting a relationship with you will numb you inside and you start burying your emotions. Is any of this actually a good idea? Well. Not really. That’s why I avoid it.

zertsetzung · 2022-03-23T18:12:58+00:00

Its just one of those that you'll have to live with.

Im 34, been hooking up with women for years and I still catch pretty strong feelings with women that I've had sex with.

I've just come to live with it. And also erm...the pride of having as many options as she does is what gets me through it.

mightymite88 · 2022-03-23T21:14:03+00:00

Yikes. Why would you want that ? Just hire a hooker bro

dehydratedbisexual · 2022-03-24T05:28:09+00:00

Constant communication. I got real hurt in January by catching feelings for a fwb. After lots of blunt communication, we figured things out and things are great now! ALWAYS communicate your feelings. You can both be accountable for what happens

Title	How to become emotionally detached when hooking up?
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Date	March 23, 2022 4:19 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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