I'm in college and spent a weekend on a trip for a club with this girl, and I thought she was flirting with me, but was so afraid of being wrong that I didn't act on it. When I got back and talked about it with my friends they all said that yes, she was flirting with me, and I missed it.

We texted on and off for two weeks after, and she set me up to ask her out, but I missed it.

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Thursday we were talking about a restaurant nearby and I said I'd have to grab it soon (which I clearly should have invited her) but was stupid, but this time she said "I'd be down to go with." not leaving me the chance to screw it up again. I asked if she wanted to do this weekend, and she said she's out of town, and I figured I'd follow up this week.

On Saturday I texted her asking how "how was your night downtown?" and she ghosted. I can't figure out why. I think it may be she got annoyed of me missing the chances again or met another dude while out of town, but am honestly not sure if I should follow up this week or not.