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2022-01-29T01:48:52+00:00

Bro women have A LOT of options. Often when they’re dating they’ll be juggling like 5 guys who are trying to meet up with them and then also be texting 3. Based on how much they like you, they might flake on you to meet another guy they like more instead.

The game’s the game.

What you need to do, is not get caught up on one girl. You need to be talking to multiple women too. That way if one girl flakes you won’t have to care because you can just call up another one that’s more interested in you.

Your response to her was great “Sure, yes”. Perfect. Short & simple. Now leave her to contact you. Don’t even bother worrying about her anymore. Go out and meet other women.

When she eventually decides to prioritize you, and if you still feel like giving her chance, go ahead and set a date to meet up.

But I have 2 flake rule. Flake on me once. Cool no problem. Do it again & you won’t get to speak to me after that until maybe months later and even then, we’ll probably only have one night and that’s it.

Anyways, good luck my guy. Check out a book called How to be a 3% man by Corey Wayne, it talks about all these little stunts women pull and how to navigate dating in a way that benefits you and her.

2022-01-29T01:55:27+00:00

Did she actually reschedule? If not, then wait for her to reschedule since the ball is in her court, but don't expect to hear back from her. If you don't hear from her, then she won't hear from you.

LucisPerficio · 2022-01-29T01:40:51+00:00

She knows it takes far more than 10 minutes to prepare and commute to you. She could have had the courtesy to lyk this a few hours in advance.

JacobMoogberg69 · 2022-01-29T07:47:10+00:00

This one is difficult, it could be a ton of things going on. The most basic explanation is that she swiped on you, thought you were okay but by the time your date was coming up, she just wasn't feeling strongly enough about you based on your photos, profile and convo and bailed.

This could be salvageable, so don't sweat it and try again in a week. But don't be desperate and try to text her in a day or two. Act like it didn't bother you at all.

It could be that she was showing your conversation to her freinds, which happens a ton. When you are texting a girl you are actually texting most of her friends as well because they will screenshot the stuff and send it around to get opinions. It is possible that a girlfriend of hers thought she was crazy to go to a random guy's apartment and what if she gets killed, etc. and talked her out of it.

She could also be getting her period or have an IBS flare up. It could be that a better option came along and she doesn't want to bother with you.

Don't sweat it. It happens.

MrStallion22 · 2022-01-29T21:31:42+00:00

Flakes happen to everyone, it’s no big deal, and actually the more you get together with women the more YOU start to become a bit flakey in my experience lol. But it sounds like you’ve played it cool and haven’t taken it personally which is the right thing to do. If you still feel like connecting with the girl I’d sent her a causal text to see how she is and then find out when she’s free to meet up. Ideally you want this to be asap so if it’s Monday, aim for Tuesday/Wednesday so you can either get the date or the flake out of the way and move on with your life without expending too much brain energy thinking about will she won’t she blah blah blah.

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